Girls, If you’re making out with a guy for the first time, and he gets an erection, do you say anything?

[Anonymous]

Assuming you’re not planning on sleeping with him that day.

[Anonymous]

No, because I will also get somewhat wet. He just wouldn’t know about it. So it’s normal for his body to have a response. I just don’t say anything or I will make a comment on it if we’re comfortable enough. Don’t worry about it. Just don’t press it into her if she doesn’t want to do anything sexual.

[Asker]

Do you think girls notice when a guy gets hard like that? What do u think she is thinking when she feels of sees it?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, we usually notice. If you got hard because you were kissing her then she will most likely be flattered to see it. It’s a compliment and means you find her attractive if you pop a boner when doing stuff with her. It’s only a issue if you don’t respect her boundaries about not wanting to do anything sexual. So don’t worry about it and don’t get embarrassed about it either. It’s normal.

[Asker]

I didn’t say anything or do anything with it, but I’m sure she noticed since it made a big tent in my pants. It was straight up for a good 20 minutes lol

[Opinion Owner]

You’re fine lol, if she saw it then she probably found it complimentary.

[Asker]

Then why wouldn’t she comment on it?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe she was shy about it, thought it unladylike to point out this early on, not comfortable fully enough, didn’t want to give you sexual ideas by pointing it out. Could be many reasons. Those are some of the reasons I wouldn’t.

[Opinion Owner]

If she made it clear she doesn’t want to sleep together right away then it makes sense she wouldn’t bring attention to it

[MissStrawberry912]

I would just get wet and smile knowing I can turn him on through kissing

[Asker]

Would you make a comment about the boner? I’m worried it offended her, I’m pretty sure she noticed but didn’t say Anything

[MissStrawberry912]

If I wanna date and look for a boyfriend, nah. I would just giggle or smile.

[Asker]

I just sent you a dm about her

[Angela_S]

No, there's no need to say anything. I made that mistake once when I was 16 or something. I'd made it clear that to this guy before our date that I wouldn't sleep with him until I was ready, and definitely not on the first date, and when we were making out he got a massive erection. I didn't mind it, but jokingly said "Wow, you are pleased to see me!"... or something like that, just thinking it would be funny and break any awkwardness. Instead he got all self-conscious and embarrassed, then started acting like a bit of a idiot, calling me a cock-tease, saying I shouldn't have worn a short-skirt etc etc... So we went out separate ways. He did call me the next day and apologise, but the way he acted had put me right off him so I didn't see him again. The trouble was, he did seem like a nice guy, and I often wonder if I hadn't made the joke, it all would have been fine, and maybe he was just very self-conscious or something.

[Anonymous]

Isn't an erection suppose to happen when you make out? Just saying

[Asker]

Yeah but she made it clear she didn’t wanna sleep together that early, that’s why I felt bad that I got hard

[Opinion Owner]

Lol. Of course no is no but you shouldn't be ashamed with your penis

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe she got wet too, thought to that?

[Asker]

So what would you think if you saw or felt his boner the first time you were kissing a guy you liked?

[Opinion Owner]

Oh hello mister :))

[Asker]

Isn’t it hard to tell if a girl gets wet if you’re just making out?

[Asker]

Would you actually comment on it? That would just make it harder lol Could I dm for some advice on how to talk to this girl?

[Opinion Owner]

I was just saying, lol

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah sure dm

[Asker]

What’s your screenname?