If you’re not down for a threesome with your boyfriend, wouldn’t that make you boring/non Adventurous?

What’s the worse that can happen by agreeing to it? Women make it seem so disgraceful lol.
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  • I think they're afraid their boyfriend will feel more attracted to the other woman (or other man, I suppose, but that's a whole other issue) and leave them for her. I'm not a woman, and I'd probably have some reservations. It may mean you're more vanilla, but everyone has their limits and boundaries.

Most Helpful Girls

  • No, threesomes aren’t the only exciting or adventurous thing you can do in the bedroom. The worst that can happen is that I have to watch him being intimate with someone else or be intimate with someone myself. I’m not into that and I want to be in a completely monogamous relationship so a threesome would be disgraceful to me.

  • No it doesn't make you boring at all! Plenty of people are out there having amazing mind blowing sex without it. If you feel you need to do that to prove you're not boring you sound like you have low self esteem.

Most Helpful Guy

  • A threesome is a hard decision to agree to. Your SO is openly having sex with another person in front of you. Furthermore it's quite possible the sex with that other person is better than sex with you, or different enough that he won't just do it once, even if you allowed it once.

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  • No. Sex is not about being adventurous and you should never be pressured into something that you simply are not interested in.

  • So do it then and stay single tho. And don't ever think about not being.

  • I wouldn't so who knows guess I'm less adventures aswell I always put it down to being a selfishlover not willing to share the women I'm with lol 😆

  • There are plenty of "adventurous" things to do other than having a threesome. Ask Google if you're not too sure.

    • I agree so much!

  • Maybe unadventurous but not necessarilly boring in bed. You probably have other kinks you can do such as dressing up, role play, rough sex etc

  • I am not ‘down’ for a threesome with my girlfriend. If that is what is required for a couple to not be boring or to be adventurous, then they are engaging in some extremely dull sex.

  • not really. personal likes and dislikes

  • Matter of taste ;P

  • i don't think so. if there's something you don't want, that's totally ok. everyone has their preferences. and just cause you don't want one particular thing, doesn't mean you're overall boring.

  • My ex offered me to have 3some by including another girl in sex fun. It seemed exciting but I refused. I now believe she was adventurous.

  • It would make you a girlfriend.

  • No it's a choice and life is full of choices you just have to make the right one

  • Yes.

  • Don't let him pressure you into doing something you're not comfortable with. Bottom line

  • Ok whats ur name.. john... stop pretending to be a girl

  • Just be honest about it

  • No, that doesn't make you boring in the least. The worst that could happen is you get pregnant, multiple STDs, and ditched by your boyfriend for the other person.