Guys, if you're quite successful what is more appealing to you a woman who has her own success or a stay at home do little housewife?

[Anonymous]

I look at things logically. A woman who has her own success is less likely to be interested in you because of your money etc and thus less likely to be a gold digger. Whereas a housewife typically has nothing to her name and is typically a gold digger. Logics.

And if you're going to say housewife EXPLAIN what a housewife can do. You have money. Hire a cleaning lady. Hire a nanny. Hire a personal cook. When horny hire an escort. All four can do the same, or better, than a typically achieve little housewife without the hassle of a divorce.

[Anonymous]

I would prefer a woman who by choice would like to be home to take care of things on the home front. I’m not saying she has to do everything. My mother taught me how to cook as well as wash clothes, dishes, etc. Actually that’s the relationship I’m in now for the last 13 years. Most men don’t find successful woman sexy. Men don’t look at that really as one of their requirements in dating a woman. Women tend to look at that, I think from two different view points. One as a gold digger and one as in from a family perspective. Meaning if they decide to have a family, can he support them being the only one working. For a year, for 18 years? I get that. I wouldn’t want us to struggle either if we had children if she was to stay home for a while raising the kids. Most men don’t give a crap about a woman’s bachelor degree, her PhD, I mean we’ll say that’s awesome, great but it’s not a requirement. I think too men will see it as she will have less time for us if she’s got her own business or always working as a doctor. Men usually will date down, women not so much. Meaning I’d date a hot girl working at McDonalds even if I was filthy rich. I think if a man has been w a girl for a long time before he got rich he really doesn’t have to worry about her being a gold digger.

[Asker]

ROFL. You're right INFERIOR men who DON'T have success don't find successful women attractive. Actually SUCCESSFUL men DO because they then have someone who can keep up instead of a dead weight dragging them down that depending on housewife's lack of education is even an embarrassment to even show off to friends.

[Asker]

And your lack of intelligence is proven here I think if a man has been w a girl for a long time before he got rich he really doesn’t have to worry about her being a gold digger. INTELLIGENT successful man worries about gold digging trash.

[Opinion Owner]

Lol you’re funny. You ask a question then get upset at my answer. Believe what you want to believe. I suppose you’re either alone, divorced w kids maybe, don’t think you’re that successful as far as. A business otherwise there’d be no need to answer this question, or you are but you don’t have. A man.

[love_conquers_lust]

Then logically, you should see the cost/return of it. All those services charge premiums. A wife is cost efficient. And it’s cost efficient for her to have such an arrangement. A hooker would call that cheap, she is a saleswoman after all. Outsourcing those services will cost more in the long run. A wife doesn’t have to screen multiple clients, put herself at unnecessary risk, bust her hump, travel a lot, sleep less, hustle more. It’s exchanging excitement for comfort. On top of all that, you can’t buy the choice of someone’s true love.

For some women, being a housewife is too easy. They want more. Which I would say is fine as long as they know how to budget their time.

[Asker]

You're right, a housewife does pretty much nothing.

[BarryLiverstone]

Being a successful software developer and building my career I would rather have a partner who is also building her career and pursuing her passions.

[Anonymous]

Successful because success breeds success