I often wish I had the answer to that but I find there are so many reasons that could make it so it was out of the question. If she's not out of the mood but just not into it, I can generally change that. (I always keep a half dozen toys nearby is I need weaponry in my arsenal.. If she's feeling ill, on meds like anti-depressants or opiates the first usually loser sxeual drive the latter sexual sensation. If she hasn't bathed real recently and doesn't want to join me. If she;s sensitive about her period ( I don't mind except maybe oral on the heaviest day), then I often need to the same lover I had at 10 years old
that's it sometimes it is completely off limits and I respect that.
Thanks for selecting me MHG.
Foreplay. It works for me anyway, no matter how tired I am. Example if he doesn't stop you, while you're cuddling, massage him. Maybe some nice slow passionate kisses, or just kissing various areas of his body. It may take a bit, but it always gets me going. The other night for example, I was DEAD tired, like falling asleep tired but we started kissing slowly and more and more as we did it I got horny and woke right up! lol Maybe other guys aren't like me, but it's hard for me to imagine a guy not being like this.
how does it make you feel?
How does what make me feel?
to be really wanted
Under similar situation I undress myself, wear nice perfume which husband likes, slowly play with his body, gradually go to his cock and massage it, if I feel some movement in his body, increase my activities. Sometimes I climb on him and slowly rub my boobs and pu**y, then changing position I took his co*k in my mouth and later sit astride over him in such a position that his penis enters into my pu**y. Though it is all one sided game, however, he becomes ready to have sex with me wildly.
That would depend on whether he's just not horny or whether he's saying no full stop. If he's just not horny right now, the go to is kissing his neck. If he's saying no full stop, I don't try to convince him.
I would respect his wishes and think about his needs and give him a massage from head to toe, wash him in a hot bath, or something relaxing that he wanted. I would jill off later if I needed to.
Get soapy in a shower and then throw some baby oil on that ass. Lay a towel on the bedroom floor like your sun bathing and then wiggle that ass side to side till he can't believe you're just out and open like that. He'll be intrigued and decide to explore. Hopefully for you with his face.
You don’t. If someone has said they’re not in the mood that should be respected
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I do know some of my wife's secret erogenous zones usually if I touch one of those she's full game even when she's not. But now, I just leave her alone and handle things myself. Angry pregnant women are scary.
You figure out what turns them on, and get them close to (but not at) the point of having it.
to turn the tables and have them begging for it. 😉
I've never been in this situation 😔
Nothing u cud do. U will only get frustrated and look outside. That's the sad reality. It happened with me
See I don't think my husband tried hard enough with me when I wasn't in the mood.
Actually my friend also suffers what u suffer
but now the tables have turned and I want more sex with hubby.
You go masturbate by yourself
but why do that when have a man with a lovely penis attached to him right away next to me?
Because he's not in the mood...
@update ok then so you Just answered your own question. There was no need to ask us
You ask once, and if they say no, then it means no.
I think its much difficult for a guy to change a girl's mind, and easier for girls to change guy's mood.
Ever put on a show for him?
Tease her get her in the mood
Honestly, if I'm not in the mood, it's a lost cause. If I were to refuse sex, that would be because I'm way too tired, sick or pissed.
I've turned making my husband hard in to a challenge.
@askee you're going to anger him badly. Just stop
I like a good cock fight
try to seduce, if it happen regularly this means no more relation with them, time to move on.
I simply would masturbate
i would say then Kiss me long.. and while it.. i move her up and down.. her vagina Tight to ma leg :D
Sometimes a nice full body massage and then start to tease them & hopefully that does the trick. Lol. 🙂
You don't. I wouldn't want to be turned on, if I didn't want to be. She should respect that
but if she gave you a hard on would you still be annoyed?
Yeah, I would, it means she doesn't listen to me. She wants me to listen to her, right? So, why can't she listen to me?
because she is horny as hell.
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