Girls, if you say average is enough, then why do I heard about women saying that they prefer larger penises?

[Anonymous]

Average sized virgin speaking here...

I know the real world is NOTHING like porn... I know most guys are not well endowed like most performers on adult films... However, I know the 'preferred' penis size, as a general consensus, is about 7 inches long, and 6 inches around in circumference... Knowing that is making every average sized male, myself included, a little anxious about having sex...

To put a personal and subjective anecdote to this question, I was making out with a woman once, and even though I knew I was average, I was still worried for being judged. So naturally, I had trouble keeping it up... I knew she preferred bigger than what I have, and she was really good about it, but it still made me feel that if I had been a little bit larger, that I would have been more preferable, in terms of size.

So why do women like to make us (The male population, as a whole) think that average is enough? I can understand if size does matter, to be totally honest, if it came down to penetration, as it is a part of a healthy sex life.

[MissKittyz]

You can't change your penis size dude so just learn to use what you have. So many ways to impress a girl in the bedroom. One thing that will ruin it in bed is your lack of confidence and being insecure because you think too much about your penis size. Stop doing that! Your first time having sex will probably not be the best ever performance wise since you have no experience but the more you'll do it, the more you'll learn new techniques and be better at it. Practice makes perfect. You'll also know more about how the girl's body works and what she enjoys the most as well if you keep the same partner. Research also helps :)

[thegirlfromthething]

Most women will accept average even if they prefer big. It’s like how people won’t turn down $10, but $20 would be even better.

[Asker]

Yes, but I know my 5.5 inches won't be impressing anyone haha I just hope that will be happy with what I have.

[thegirlfromthething]

I think average penises aren’t as impressive to look at but women will forget that once you prove that you know what you’re doing.

[Asker]

Well, that's my issue... I wouldn't know what to do... I am a virgin xD If I had a bigger penis, it wouldn't be an issue to for me haha

[thegirlfromthething]

Just do a lot of research on female anatomy, sex positions, and stuff like that beforehand so you’ll be more prepared. That’s what I do.

[Asker]

Yes, I have been doing that, but one can only search so much on learning how to fuck xP You can research how to drive a car, but you never really can hang of it, until you really get behind the wheel, and drive on the streets with traffic.

[thegirlfromthething]

Yeah, but you’ll probably be okay. You’ll know more than some experienced guys in a way.

[Asker]

How? I know that actual sex is NOT the main part, that foreplay is what sex mostly consists of, and that is to take your time pleasing her, but that's all I know.

[thegirlfromthething]

They have first-hand experience but you’ll know more than some of them about erogenous zones, ways to experiment, and stuff like that.

[Asker]

Well, I doubt that xD If only I find a woman that finds me sexually appealing xD

[MlleCake]

Some people do. But most of us don't.

[Asker]

Yes, but unless 5.5 inches is somehow impressive, I am not the preferred size xD

[MlleCake]

That would be a perfectly fine size.

[Asker]

For a virgin, who knows nothing about pleasing a woman? xD It would only be best if I had a large penis, in this instance.

[MlleCake]

No. Large penises do very little to stimulate the clitoris.

[Asker]

Yes, but neither do average or small penises. The only way a clitoris is stimulated is through oral stimulation. Besides that, larger penises tend to generally turn women on, upon sight, as it is subconsciously dictates his virility and stamina.

[MlleCake]

They don't tend to generally turn us on. And that you know what actually gets us off is ALL you need to know.

[Asker]

I sure as hell hope so... But again, I am a virgin, so the idea that I should know how to use it, is thrown out the window.

[Dalisay]

Both can be true. I'd be ok with average, but I would prefer very large.