If you share house with parent & their sexual exploits are noisy, is it wrong to ask them to tell you to make yourself scarce so they have privacy?

My parent is arguing that it’s controlling behaviour. When ironically the alternative is to make me listen (not weird at all right?). But they say this bout anyone who disagrees with them, they have issues around this. I personally feel they’re very manipulative but of course I question myself too, so what do you all think? Am I being reasonable and mature or not?
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So she refuses to let people know to make themselves scarce, makes people have to hear her, and then screams at them yelling that they’re hearing things when they point out that they can hear! It’s very obvious what the sound is yet she’d try to make others feel crazy instead of just be a mature and honest adult. I truly believe she has some narcissism! How to best handle this short term whilst trying everything to move out ASAP?
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  • Wow- so much to unpack there.
    So many questions. Firstly are you sharing as in jointly own the home with your parents or is it solely owned by you or your parents?


    As for asking them for warning. Well I guess there needs to be a bit of communication or warning.

    • We’re both renting so both paying but don’t own. Well I thought that was reasonable too, I mean why on Earth would they want me to hear it if it makes me uncomfortable?

    • I personally would feel much better letting someone know to make themselves scarce out of respect if it’s embarrassing (I’d also find it embarrassing if they heard me). My mom says she wouldn’t be bothered by hearing her parents but I can’t help but find that hard to believe since who honestly doesn’t feel a bit weird about that?

    • She often says one thing but does another though. And also goes around in circles and makes a sensible conversation more like a battle too. I had to get into arguments just to be able to do my own washing. It was a hassle to her to let me do my own, you’d think it would be the other way around. I just needed to try and maintain some independence. I don’t think she likes that unless it’s emotional, then it’s typically too much for her and she’s not interested.

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  • I mean to be fair at least your mom is constantly getting your dads hard dick inside of her vagina. I wonder if he still wears a condom

    • Nah it’s just her and technology.

    • Lol she is using her vibrator/dildo?

    • Yeah, and in heels and on some online chat or video device. I don’t care what she does, I just don’t want to hear it and she can’t seem to understand that.

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