If you've been talking to a guy online for a year are you easy if you have sex one the first day?

If you've been texting a guy who you met online for a year. And you finally meet up with him in person and have sex are you considered easy?

I've been told that when a woman has sex on the first date a man usually won't talk to her anymore.
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  • I don't think people care about whether or not you're "easy" these days! Yes I think by old standards, that would be considered "easy", but it's super sexist! Would that not also make the man "easy"?
    If you meet up and want to have sex, great!
    And I don't think that would make him stop talking to you, unless all he wanted was sex, in which case you'll be better off without him.

    • That's not true because when I told my mom I had sex with this guy on the first date she started saying that the guy thought I was easy etc.

    • I'm sorry to hear that! That must have sucked! The older generations seem to care still but what does it matter? It's none of their business, it's between you and the guy! Did you continue to talk to him after?

Most Helpful Guys

  • Since 2000 many guys and girls fuck as young as on their legal age.

    And many literally fuck with people they met the first time.

    Eventually they still get a partner.

    You and him already "dated" for a year. Ya, I deem mental and emotional connection more important than sex. And you and him literally dated for a year, without sex!

    Wow! Time to fuck!

    • Did you even read the question?

    • @Kelly_x 🙃 of course I do. Learn to read beyond words and statements 🙃 Direct answer: you already dated a year. So this question is not applicable. Fuck, even it's the first time you see each other physically. Got me or us (a few of us sees online dating as dating too.)

    • Dating and talking online isn’t the same thing.

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  • There is no such thing as easy. That "easy" shit was a notion promulgated by men, in spite of the fact that men have always been easy. The truth is, women are biologically supposed to want sex, to want dick. If they didn't, how the hell would we procreate? So, no. you're not easy... you're normal.

    • When I told my mom I had sex on the first date she said that the probably thought I was easy.

    • If he does think that, then that means he's just as easy. Now, if he even tries to suggest your being easy is different because you're a girl, ask him to explain that shit. All he will be able to say is, "that's just how it is", which isn't an explanation and doesn't prove anything. From now on, just do you boo, don't worry about what dudes think

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  • Yes that’s considered easy

  • No you are not easy. Hopefully you talked about having sex and birth control while on- line beforehand. How was the sex?

  • Not if you both are comfy with each other

    • This is a serious question.

    • It's a serious answer you go on dates to get to know the person and to get comfy with them if you have been talking to them and you both are comfortable and know each other it doesn't mean your easy especially considering you were talking for a year

    • I said I met him online we have been talking online for almost a year and have never met in person.

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  • no youve had enough time to know each other and grow a connection, y'all met up after a year, socializing bonds people and y'all been doing it for a year, its only easy if you met the person and went on a first date and then had sex but y'all are basically together, something similar happened to me, it was also a year but sadly we broke off before we met up, i wouldve done it too, besides the next time y'all would meet up is never certain so better now then never right, its not considered easy

    • Why did you break it off before meeting?

    • she was a liar, everything that came out of her mouth was a lie, one lie after the other, eventually i gave up on her, compulsive liar im guessing 🤷‍♂️

  • No, i actually had like the exact same thing happen 😅 we actually brought it up, and at first she was down cuz we had been together for a really long time, but she eventually backed out and broke it off cuz she felt it was too fast

  • Doesn't matter if you're 'easy' or whatever people think, if you want to fuck on a first date, go for it... If you both fuck, then he's as easy as you

    • You obviously didn't read the question.

    • He answered Who cares if you're considered as easy?

    • Thank you! 😂

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  • No, I don't think it is. Besides, do you really care about labels like "easy". Just be yourself, follow your heart. Doing this will make you happy, labels won't.

    • When I told my mom I had sex on the first date she said that the probably thought I was easy.

    • After one year of talking, especially if you got pretty close, I don't see that as easy personally.

  • i dont think so i think its a good thing

  • It's totally up to you, I personally wouldn't but thats me.

  • That is fine

  • No that's entirely a different scenario what you're presenting. If you been talking online for a year then there's some feelings that have built up there. The first date sex no relationship thing only applies to guys who known a woman they met within the first few weeks to month or so. Your situation is entirely different and that rule doesn't apply in your situation especially if you been talking to him for over a year

  • We were planning on doing that. Unfortunately, we broke after just 8 months