If you want a man to go down on you, how do you approach him? What do you do to let him know you want him to go down on you?

I usually started with a soft kiss, then lay down on my back on a couch or a bed, spread my leg, then push his head down between my thigh, and then I grind it against his face slowly. He knows what I want.

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  • You could say 'eat me' and hook your legs over his shoulders and push his head down. :)

    But it is very unsafe sex for a guy and unless it is a monogamous relation ship and we've been tested I wouldn't do it. Sorry!

    Your juices can carry STIs. A friend got chlamydia in his eye that way and came close to losing his sight.

    If a guy ejaculates in your mouth or on your face you can get STIs on your throat or in your eyes. All you would need to do is to rub your eye with a bit of semen on your finger.

    I reserve eating a girl out for when there is a high level of trust. All she need do is say eat me but I quite like the proactive pulling my head to her pussy. Its cute.

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  • I would say best thing to do is ask for it, my wife spent months making small penis jokes to hint she needed me to eat her out for her to cum. Turns out there was more to the story as in my previous questions… but in the long run we could have avoided all of it if she just told me. I understand why she didn’t after learning some other truths, but now we have an agreement and I give her oral 4X a week and we’re both happy.

Most Helpful Girls

  • @princesspd i mostly just flash my pussy and it tells him that I want him to fuck me

  • It's a easy as saying "dinner's ready" and opening up

    • @sirenboobzilla hahahahah. Facts my wife has literally said this to me. She super straight forward kinda gal and the more dominant one in bed. Usually it’s “time to eat my pussy” followed by her opening her legs

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  • That's pretty much the way I usually get asked to. But you know you could just say it outloud and stop forcing guys to read your mind.

  • I just sit on his face

    • It's good and much better to convert in 69 to please him at same time.

    • @Asb_Samson 69 is fun too but sometimes us girls have to be selfish

    • Yes I m pretty agree with you. What i suggested may b uncomfortable also as your man may loose 😜 🍌 his control and become more horney and cum early.

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  • All she has to say is Eat me or Go down on me. she doesn’t have to tell me twice if she is my girl

  • How about "I want you to lick me?"

  • that works!
    Suggest the 69 position, or tell him if he does you that to you, you will return the favor. Go sit on his face, I'm thinking he might get the hint.
    Again, you first, so if it is 3 licks to get to the center of the tootsie pop and he is done, then you know how to reciprocate.
    If you black out and can't speak in a full sentence when he is done, you have your work cut out for you.

  • If the man is really into you, you won't have to do a thing.. he'd just throw you to the bed and give you the oral you crave for

  • Your approach is perfect.

  • I don't have to say anything, it just happens nightly.

  • Ummmmm. . my favorite way to pleasure a woman and give her multiple orgasms.

  • You could just come out and say it. But your message seems to be fine as well. I don't think there's a right way or a wrong way to do it and very very very few people are aversed to oral sex as far as I know

  • Say “Eat me”

  • Well I always go down on a girl no matter what and I ask if she wants to be on her back with her legs spread or sit on my face and grind my face till she gets what she wants. I love when she grabs my heads and push my face harder into her pussy when she is about to orgasm.

  • Just tell him flat out or push his head down there like a guy would helk get the hint lol

  • Sitting on my face is great. Easy and deep access, easy to suck her clit

  • I’d just dive in

  • I like also when she get on top of my head as well... ike sit on it

  • Yeah you the right move for getting what you want. Any guy would understand what you want.

  • There's no wrong way. I like your way. Asking me to kiss her lower while we're making out works too. Or saying something like "show me what else you can to with your tongue" is a good way to initiate, too.

  • that sounds perfect and very hot and erotic I always dream of goign down