If you was mad at your partner would you hold back sex from them?

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DaveJord · Accepted Answer

No, using sex as a weapon within a relationship is a bad idea, if you really care about them. Its codependent type behavior, breeds frustration and resentment over time within your partner, like you are manipulating them by using sex as means to achieve what you want, and gain power and control over them.

Which if you have to ask this question, means that is what you are thinking about doing... but you only thinking that because you are upset about something and honestly when you are upset with someone you honestly don't feel like fucking them. But that's the trap, because you can justify it on one level, while still being wrong on another.

So, it's best to sit down and talk it out, and try to work things out, before letting it effect your sex life.

surebruh · Accepted Answer

I can't say I would deliberately withhold sex as that seems petty. It does happen that the mood isn't good because of disagreements etc so sex doesn't happen. You should know though that when one couple does without sex, it doesn't mean their partner isn't having sex, it's a throw of the dice.

Msputiton · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't say i am holding back.  But i mean if someone has made me mad. The last thing i would want to do is have sex wit them.

integrale77 · Answer

No because it would mean holding back sex for me too and we'll my sex drive is to high for that

Reece12345 · Answer

No way. That's petty, childish bullshit. When you're angry you talk about it. So you can work it out and get back in the mood.

Wish4UrB00ty · Answer

I don’t think I would want to have sex… but I mean I don’t think I would withhold it. It be an angry sex sort of thing right?

SnowedIn · Answer

Nope. NEVER. Sex is never, ever, ever, (or shouldn't be) transactional or payment or punishment. Keep arguments separate from sex (unless it's make up sex) and separate from love.

VanillaSalt · Answer

Yes if they were currently doing it to me. Don’t get an attitude with me I’m spiteful I’ll fucking return everything you got 3 fold.

Bricealan · Answer

If I 'were" mad at my partner, I would not be spending time with them, much less withholding anything.

Agape93 · Answer

Depends on how mad I am.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

No. That's not something I could ever see myself doing.

HuskyJ · Answer

Would not. Dis once and still reget it. It is abusive/passive agressive.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

No. I wouldn’t weaponize sex or anything like that. She still my partner and I will fulfill her wants and needs. However we will need to talk about it and get our shit together so it can be fun. 9times out of 10, the woman won’t be into anyways if she is mad as well. No one should weaponize anything in a relationship.