If you were dating a bisexual person, would you feel insecure because of not being able to give them everything they desire sexually?

You’d be missing many body parts that they enjoy and wouldn’t be able to do all the same sexual acts that the other gender can.
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  • Naturally I wouldn't be dating a bisexual person in the first place.

    • That actually sounds like a good rule to go by.

    • Thank you so much for the MHGirl @flower7 x

  • Bad decision buddy

    • You mean a bad decision to date someone who’s bisexual?

    • Yess

    • You’re probably right about that!

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  • No, I wouldn't.

    I'm bisexual myself and it doesn't mean I want to have sex with someone else while in a relationship.

    If I am into tall and shot people, doesn't mean I want to have sex with a short person while in a relationship with a tall person... Does that make sense?

    Sure, people are different.
    What matters to me is whether my partner can be faithful to me and their sexuality has nothing to do with that.

  • I’ve date a few girls that were bi, never had an issues.

    definitely never been insecure.

  • Honestly, no.
    The person I'm with already knows and accepted my limits, so I'm confident enough to not feel insecure even if she came out as bisexual.

  • I dated two bisexual girls (one a steady relationship) and I always let them know they could be with other women if they want. Even if I wasn't involved in any way.

    I wasn't jealous cause what the girl could give her, I couldn't, so I never felt it a competition.

  • If anything, I would recommend other toys that could simulate the things she wants. If they were out there.

  • No, my ex-girlfriend was bisexual... so I can assure you this is not how it works... lol.

    I've read many of the comments in here, and your replies to them, and it's nothing like that, but I guess you can only and truly know about this till you actually experience it, the rest is just assumptions people can make, and they're free to make them, I guess.

    • I dated a guy who started having sex with men behind my back. So I have doubts about a bi person being able to be satisfied with only one gender.

    • Yes I can see that... but the word for that is... a cheater it is not related to someone being, bisexual actually could have been gay all along, or bicurious, or bisexual as well however... the word you're looking for that guy is... a cheater, a dishonest person

    • Being that this was the ONLY experience I've ever had with a bi person, it's very hard to be able to separate those concepts. I've never encountered a bi person who was loyal, so it's a difficult thing to grasp that maybe they aren't all like that.

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  • That's a really good question.

    I think if I were dating a bisexual, I'd have to assume that they would seek to include others in (or outside of) our sex once in a while at least. Knowing that going into a relationship would at least give me a choice, so I think it would be fair if the bisexual person was forthcoming about it from the very beginning. That would also avert more serious problems down the road.

  • I said 'no' but after rethinking it probably yes, in some respects. I know that women are better at satisfying another women because they have the same parts, clitoris, wonderful labia, vagina, and of course everyone has an asshole. I think women (unless dealing with a very 'BULL DYKE" a Fem would be very happy with another FEM. I could do the same things to a bi sexual woman as another woman, but probably not with the same care or tenderness OR the Roughness she might want.

    Most said 'NO', and I did also, but as above, now I'm not so sure.

    • Also, maybe she enjoys giving oral to women. That would be something else you couldn’t provide.

    • Why would I not be able to provide ORAL to a woman? Why would that be something else I could not provide. I have eaten several women.

    • No I mean if the bisexual girl you were dating enjoyed GIVING oral to women.

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  • That's not how being bisexual works. It's not about constantly desiring men and women at the same time, it just means that there is the chance that either a man or a woman could catch my eye. And if that's the case and I enter a relationship with them, I stop looking at other people that way

    • I’m glad to have a bisexual guys opinion. I think you’re the first one who has commented. This helps me to feel a little better.

  • If I know she is bisexual in the beginning of the relationship then no I wouldn’t feel insecure , I dated a few bisexual girls that I accepted that they liked fooling around with other girls and I made it clear to them that I am fine with it as long as she doesn’t keep secrets from me and let’s me join in from time to time , it’s only bad when someone decides to tell you they are bisexual after they committed to you , like out of the blue, oh by the way I am bisexual , then that turns to cheating and trust issues , I resent people that do shot like that Cuz it was a kept secret that should of been addressed before we committed , why it’s always best to be upfront when meeting someone new , when secrets aren’t told then you are just setting yourself up for disaster , it makes you a liar and a cheater so being upfront with someone is best , then letting them find out later and resenting you for it , it’s a selfish act and just shows someone’s true character , 1 girl I committed to confessed to me 6 months after we were committed that she is bisexual and that she hooked up with a girl the night before , I dumped her ass and said she is a cheater the trust between us was shattered so I ended it , you can’t commit to someone that expects you to be trusting to them when they are the ones that aren’t trusting at all , if you can, then you must be desperate as fuck is the way I look at it

    • That actually happened to me before. I was in a “relationship “ with a guy I thought was straight. Then I suddenly found out he was cheating on me with men. So now it makes me nervous when someone likes both genders because it seems like they would always feel like they’re missing out.

    • They would feel that way

    • Dumping him was the right thing to do, it’s still cheating , when anyone has to hold secrets like that , then that just shows their true colors that they only care about themselves , you lose all respect for that person for lying to you all that time and makes you think what else have they done that they aren’t telling you about? , it’s total disrespect. To just assume someone is going to be acceptive of your sexuality , so like I said being upfront about it is the way to go , it allows the other person to decide if they can handle that situation or not. The bisexual girls I dated were upfront with me about it and I respected that , Cuz I knew what I would be getting myself into but to be caught off guard is wrong in every direction , just goes to show those type of people are selfish and only really care about themselves , to me The biggest pieces of shits on the planet , From my experiences of dating bisexual girls , it wasn’t easy having a 3rd wheel tag along , it usually comes with a lot of drama having someone else in between your relationship , don’t get me wrong at times it was fun and exciting but in the long run it turned into a nightmare. To me it wasn’t a real relationship it was more just fun and games , I couldn’t give myself a 100 percent to someone that needed others to fully fulfill them, it felt like a fake relationship the whole time , dealing with 1 bitch is bad enough then dealing with 2 lol

  • Well, he's going to be pestering you for a MMF threesome. The idea of two men inside me at the same time is FREAKY!

    • In short, I wouldn't date a bi.

  • Nope, there's workarounds and compromises if you really have any desire

    • Do you have any examples?

  • I can imagine but sometimes things can be different hard say

  • I put no but this is a good question. I would think having both a penis and a vagina would be a turn off to many people.

  • Never bothered me

  • I woudlnt date anyone who is part of LGBTQ

    • This is very smart!

  • Nope and being bisexual does not give one license to cheat with the same sex either.

  • No. We could introduce a third. Problem solved.

    My greater concern would be that two attractive women if they so chose could pull basically any guy and would aim much higher than me once their relationship was firm. My connection with at least one of the girls would have to be an essentially unbreakable bond. I do have *some* faith that there women who would be loyal like that out there, it's not hopeless but it is a gamble.

  • Only if I was a woman lol. But I'm a MAN; so I'm not worried at all! I have a penis AND a tongue! ☺️

    • I agree that it would be worse for women.

    • Yeah

  • I would not feel insecure at all. I am more than confident and comfortable in my ability to Perform and please a woman.. but I will say that there would have to be dialog between us because I would want to know what besides the obvious is the difference and what the other person does or doesn't do and what attracts her to that person.

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