In this situation it would be a guy you find online who preferably lives out of town, and I'm wondering what option you would prefer out of the two I mentioned.
girlfriend and I have been together for years and have a lot of trust, we just want to try new things out.
I just couldn’t do it. I wouldn’t mind the other guy caressing me, but I wouldn't allow him to fck me. We wouldn't even go down on eachother. He’d practically just be an audience who gets to suck on my neck and tits from time to time. He might get jerked off bt yea he wouldn't get anything else out of it. Only my guy would get to kiss my lips, eat me out, and screw me. So I just wouldn't even do a threesome because the third party isn't gonna get much. To answer the question, he’d still have to get tested even if he isn't getting more than a handjob. I dont believe in birth control nor morning after pills. I understand the consequences of having sex with whomever my significant other would be
That still sounds like it'd be a lot of fun but it'd be hard to get a stranger to come out for that, I could see that stuff happening with a chill friend, like we all watch a movie with the girlfriend between us and getting tons of attention from both him and me! If that's all my girl was comfortable with I'd be cool with it
Strangers would be way easier. Any guy/girl sharing their partner, especially with a friend are just straight dumb
The friend would always be fcking around with your partner, whether you’re aware or not
That makes sense, maybe we could find someone who'd be down for it, it'd definitely be quite a show seeing my girl get felt up and kissed all over while tugging away at the guy if he earns that!!
Yea well I’m too territorial to share and i’d prefer my dude be territorial as well. If he wanted to share me with other men, then I wouldn't be with him
Yeah I'm worried in the moment I might get territorial, which would mean this might be infinitely better than full on sex, I could stop it easier, we just wanna try something new, we've been together for years and have been very loyal to eachother
Well that loyalty is about to go out the window lmao. I’m pretty sure once you bring a third party in, one of you are gonna always crave that. I know I would which is why I refuse to do it
Lol I'd work really hard on out performing the guy then, making sure my girl prefers me over him, it'd be like a contest to see who can make her most happy
And in the end, even if you werent the best, she’d lie and say you were. But her cravings will start to be for another man
Even in the situation were all he does is cuddle, touch, kiss her neck and nipples, and she MAYBE gives him handjob?
Yes especially if his looks better
Lol that would be hard for me to judge, I don't know what makes one guy look better than the next! If you did give another guy a handjob though, what would you do once he finishes in your hand?
He wouldn't finish in my hand. I like to see fireworks
That's pretty wild, I feel like if riled him up enough it'd be an explosion lol would you just hand him a towel and get up?
I want fireworks. That means he should be shooting for the ceiling or some object from afar. He can clean the mess later
Lol that would be kinda hot to see knowing my girlfriend caused it Ok so if this happened and you began to crave a third, would you still be in a relationship with the boyfriend and just get a fuck buddy or go single?
As I said, I could never actually do this because if I did, I’d have to breakup with him to avoid cheating because I’d absolutely start craving more than just him. I used to get off on being in love triangles, knowing more than one guy wanted me. If i ever was dumb enough to get them to agree to polyandry or a threesome, I’d never be willing to commit again. So yea, I’d prefer to just stick to dating one guy in general
Well whoever you date is a very lucky dude! I've been in love triangles before, definitely a rollercoaster ride there, they can be quite exciting and nerve wracking
Yea well I try to stay away from those now. All it ever did was hurt us all
Yeah that's wise, I don't know if I should do this mfm now lol I don't want to hurt my relationship, it seems fun but is it worth it? We'd have to find a guy too, though i know one friend who's definitely attracted to her
Thats what I’m saying, your relationship will never be the same if you go through with this. I dont think its worth it but do whatever you’re gonna do. Still, getting a friend involved will be the worst decision you ever make. Like how are you even okay with your friend being into your girl? Thats an issue in itself. But yea just dont be surprised if some secret love affair begins
Tbf he's attracted to a lot of women lol yeah I will have to discuss it with the girlfriend and we'll need to talk about this specific issue, like what if she starts craving hook ups with other guys? She's never done hookups in the past, just relationships
she's not the only potential problem. I think you’ll continue to crave pimping her out
What makes you say that?
Because thats what this is
Well it wouldn't really be pimping because it's for fun not for money lol I don't know if I'd want to do it more than once, it might be more intense than I expect in a bad way
I'd rather use condoms. It's safer and less stressful. I don't like playing with fire.
That's probably safest cause as someone pointed out std results are from the past, not present! The guy might be a little disappointed but I could always get ultra thin ones his size
Exactly, I agree with them. Yes, you should get them.
Lol I'm gonna get a big box because then we for sure won't run out and if my girlfriend enjoys his moves we'll have some for next time, but I feel like that's gonna send him a message!
You're doing what's right. Yes, he probably will get it, once he sees the big box.
Yeah you're right, I gotta be responsible for him but also protect my girl... Do you think it'd be best leaving the box out right from the beginning for him to see or should I wait till him and my girl built up a little steam first?
Exactly, you should always play safe. I think you should leaving the box out right from the beginning.
Lol sometimes my girlfriend hates condoms and prefers bare but maybe I should really push for this and physically hand him a condom every time he's about to take her I think you're right about leaving it out, it shows we're committed to the act and very serious, it might make him feel comfortable knowing we've prepared for it so he could start getting physically comfortable with my girl sooner
Well yes, I've heard many people saying that it feels better without a condom. But since he's a stranger, he should wear one. I'm sure your girlfriend will understand you. Yes, that's exactly what I was thinking. I'm glad you agree with me.
Yeah she'll see reason here, I'll convince her Yeah this sounds like a perfect idea, if you were the girlfriend here what would you do to make it better for the other guy and for me? I'm kinda excited and anxious about this because it's my first threesome, though almost all my guy friends had threesomes in the past, not with their girlfriends though
I would love to help you, but I've never had threesome. So I don't know what to tell you...
Yeah I haven't either, I was thinking pick an experienced guy who is really chill and do a group chat first, and when we meet we could all watch a movie with the girlfriend between us and share some drinks, and like allow him to work his magic on her, let them kiss and touch eachother so she knows it's ok and it'll get him a little worked up
That sounds like a good plan. You should do that and maybe your girlfriend will like it.
Thank you, and yes I hope she will Do you think I should let him sort of lead the experience a bit so that they're getting tons of experience together or should I try to compete with him and get my turns with her too? I know the guy would definitely prefer the first option but I don't know what a lady would want
You're welcome and I hope she does too. The first option sounds better to me. She already knows what is a turn on to you, so she could explore that with another guy.
Yeah it would actually be the first time she ever had casual sex, like without a boyfriend, so it might be best to sit off to the side while she opens her legs for him for some deep penetration lmao (I was thinking maybe trying to find a guy who has some length and girth for her)
Well, then it's going to be a different experience for her. Just do what makes her more comfortable and you, of course.
Yeah the comfort is key here! I want her to really enjoy herself with him
Yes! That's what a good boyfriend does, if his girlfriend is into threesomes.
Thank you, I really want to make this as good as possible for her, I hope she's going to like the experience!! I'm also going to be super picky with the dude because I only want someone really good slipping in between her legs lol
You're welcome. I hope she likes it too! Lol that's normal. You don't want her to be with a guy much different from you, right?
Thank you!! And I don't mind if the guy is very different, I was actually thinking maybe a different guy would be better for something more casual like this, like with more experience and maybe bigger and really fit, maybe he'd be comfortable going a little rougher and harder with her than I would be lol if you were doing this with your boyfriend would you want to try someone different?
You're welcome. Well yeah, maybe she would like to be with a different guy and she could try different things with him. I'm not into threesomes, but if I was I would try it with a different guy.
That's very smart, I think it'd be very cool to see what he could do with her lol Her and I are both white and she's only been with white guys, I was thinking about maybe even finding her a guy who's black so she could try that out!! Over half the guys open to threesomes in the town I want to go to are black lol and they seem really cool
Yes, I guess so Lol Does she like black guys? I get your idea, but if she doesn't like them, this might be a bad idea.
Yeah I'd have to ask her about her opinions on this, cause she might back out if she's not into him physically and then the whole situation gets ruined, she's a bit conservative and she's actually from Europe lol so I don't know exactly how she feels about it, maybe she does really dig them? We decided it'd be stranger in another town, someone we meet online and verify, but if everything goes well and I can handle the jealousy and she enjoys being with a new guy, I was thinking it might be fun to try setting this up again but with a guy we know lol is that good or bad?
Yes, I think you should ask her. What you described might happen, especially if she's conservative and European. Honestly, I don't think she would dig a black guy. Being with a guy from another town is a good idea. But if it's a guy you know, there's always the risk of more people knowing about it. Unless you guys don't mind that.
Yeah maybe just a white guy who's athletic and basically a sex god would be best lmfao I think the guy from out of town approach is safest for sure, and if that was a good experience it'd be nice trying it again... Right now I'd be embarrassed if everyone knew my girlfriend and I did this kinda thing, but with experience who knows? I just got this image in my mind of my friends approaching me and asking if I could approach my girlfriend about having this experience with them lol
"Yeah maybe just a white guy who's athletic and basically a sex god would be best lmfao" - Yeah, that would be the best bet! 😂😂😂😂 Yes, it would be safest because nobody would know him or knowing what happened. True, if it's a good experience you can always try again. I understand why you would be embarrassed now, but yeah it you might feel different with experience. Lol yes I can also see your friends asking you that question hahaha
Ahaha I feel like that's the ideal guy for this! And he would probably put on a hell of a show with my girl!! She also deserves the pleasure lol Yeah I think so too, and if something embarrassing happens he won't tell anyone, it's just very safe Honestly I don't think it's that bad to do this, I just need to get over my fear of being judged so I can relax a little bit They'd probably think I'm the coolest friend cause I could potentially set them up with my girl 😂 but my girlfriend would have to be ok with that dynamic, I could also see her asking me to ask guys I know if they'd want to get with her!!
Lol yes, she probably would love him! "Yeah I think so too, and if something embarrassing happens he won't tell anyone, it's just very safe." - Yes, I agree with you. Well, yes if you're ok with this and if she is too. Then you have no reason to be stressed. Yes, you both need to be comfortable with it. If not, then you might have problems. Hahaha, maybe she would ask them too.
I think it'd be pretty cool if they became friends, I'd even be cool with taking pictures of her modeling for him since he lives in a different town! Lol yeah we could just never see him again if it goes bad Yeah we need to be open with eachother, if we do it we're gonna discuss it A LOT and sort out our feelings Haha that could be cool actually, I have quite a few dude friends and most of them are bachelors who like having fun, I'd like it if she was cool with them, the guys and I also do group activities like camping and stuff, it'd be cool taking her out, and then there's this added dynamic that she might sneak off into one of their tents or off into the woods lol
So, you would be ok with them becoming friends and her modelling for him? That's cool! Exactly and that way it would be easier to forget what happened. Yes, you really should talk about this until everything is sorted out. Lol I see. It seems that you're completely fine with her being with your friends hahaha Most guys wouldn't Lol
Yeah I think it'd be neat and it'd be better if we did that if we decided to do another threesome with him!! Thing is I kinda put my girlfriend on a pedestal thinking she's the best girl ever, so knowing he's getting all kinds of attention from her would make me see him as some kind of really cool dude I agree! And yes we would do so much communication about it, we'd know exactly how we feel about everything so there won't be any mistakes Lol is that bad? Thing is I know my guy friends so they wouldn't abuse her, and she'd get to know them way better, her and I would probably talk about the one's she's allowing to hit it, I'd be answering all her questions about them and I'd listen to what she has to say about her experiences and probably could offer her some advice about them
Well, it's sweet that you feel that way about her. I can tell that you really like her. True, the more you talk the less mistakes will be made. Well, I wouldn't be ok with seeing my boyfriend having sex with my friends. But that's just me. If you're ok with it and she is too, I see no problem. But your idea makes sense to me. Your friends wouldn't disrespect her. So, it could actually be good for her and for you too.
I'm crazy about her lol I know women like building a bond with the guy they sleep with so I'd be supportive of it for her, I could even talk to the guy about what kinda pics/videos he wants to see to help her out Exactly!! I don't want to sleep with any other ladies though, I just think it's so hot if she fools around lol And yeah if any guy mistreated her I would be PISSED and definitely confront the guy! Ahaha why do you think it'd be good for me? I think it'd be good for her cause she has a safe environment to explore in, and these guys are experienced and would know what to do with her too
Yes, I can see that you're crazy about her and that's beautiful! True, most women like that. For instance, I could never have sex with a guy I'm not connected to. Yes, talking to the guy would be a good a idea too. That way, he will know what she likes. It's good that you don't want to sleep with other women. Yeah, you should confront him, but hopefully that's not going to happen. It would be good for her in that sense. But for you it would be also good because she would be with a guy you already know and trust.
Thank you so much!! Yeah I'd want us to meet him a couple times before the threesome and also have him chat with us, by the time we do anything she'd be comfortable with him and they'd have some kinds connection and chemistry, so it might take awhile to make it happen but quality over quantity! I'd probably talk to him about it and give him some tips on what she likes and also ask him questions about what he likes so she'll be ready when the night happens No I'm really loyal lol and yes hopefully nothing bad will happen and the guys will be chill Yeah that's true, I definitely wouldn't worry as much about things going wrong, and I know when she's in his arms he'll really take care of her, also these dudes would be helping me keeping her satisfied, she'd get A LOT of attention from the boys!! I don't know if this sounds weird but I'd also feel kinda important, since if my friends or my girlfriend were feeling really horny I could help them out by setting it up so she could put out for them
You're welcome! Yes, you should meet first to see how things go, if there's chemistry or not. But yeah, that would take some time. I agree with you on quality over quantity! And I agree that you should talk to him. I'm glad you're loyal, that's a rare quality nowadays. I see the advantages of it, I agree with you. Lol it's not weird, it's just unusual.
Lol yeah it is a bit unusual, it would definitely be a very unique thing in a relationship, it also doesn't have to be a permanent thing, we could slow down or take a break or stop entirely and I'd be fine with that! I feel like we'd have a code word for when she is with a guy, like "hey, Curt told me he is interested in some blinking tonight, what should I tell him?"
You're right, it doesn't have to be always like that. You should definitely take breaks. A code word would be useful and no one besides you and her would understand it.
Yeah we'd need a lot of us time too! And funny enough I think she'd learn A LOT from all these guys and it'd actually help our sex life a lot lol That's so true, maybe boink wouldn't be stealth enough, and we could discuss it openly if it's only us understanding, I feel like if she said things to get me a little jealous I'd be more excited by all of it!
That's true. Well, yeah that«s true she could learn with them too. Lol so you like having her making you jealous? That's interesting too Lol
Yeah and I feel like they'd become close too, way closer than if I just showed up to wing nights with her lol Yeah I wouldn't get bad jealous, more so just kinda excited and my heart would race a little if that makes sense, like little naughty comments would trigger it... You really think that's interesting? I feel like there's some risk here, like the condom night slip or break or her and the guy might drink together and forget to use one, so I'd have to be prepared for that to occur
It would be good if they became close. True, if they saw each other a few times they would create a bond. Yes, that makes sense. I think it's interesting because I've never thought that a guy would like that. True, there's always some risk and that could happen. I guess you need to make sure that she is safe and she doesn't get pregnant.
Yeah I feel like most girls would start to care for a guy they're experiencing intimacy with, I really hope he will take charge a bit with her and maybe invite her out for dates too once we are all comfortable, I'd be ok with her meeting him, I'd probably ask both about how it went afterwards lol Hmmm maybe I'm just different than a lot of guys! Yeah that's true, I would offer to buy her the morning after pill if she felt she needed it but I heard it makes you nauseous, but also I think if I want this experience I have to accept the risks, because it's natural in this situation
That's true. Maybe he will, especially if he's experienced and if he cares about her too. Oh wow! You would even be ok with her going on dates with him? That's surprising! Yeah, you should ask them Lol I would be curious too Lol Hahaha yes, I think you are very different from other guys. Exactly, you also need to accept the risks. I don't know about the morning after pill.
Thanks for the MHO.
Do you think an older guy would be good for the threesome? Me and her are mid/late 20s Yeah I think they would begin to crave eachother on a kind of primal level if they made love enough times, I would definitely encourage her to see him on occasion once we knew him well enough! Lol if we were friends I'd probably be telling you all about this if my girlfriend was ok with it, I feel like I could trust you Lol good or bad different? Or just different? I care enough about my girl so that I'd full accept it, I'd even take responsibility and just say it's mine and all that, and just be happy with her Also you deserve that MHO!
No, I think you should find a guy who is also in his mid/late 20's. Yes, they probably would start craving each other after having sex for a couple of times. You would even encourage her to see him Lol I'm glad you trust me. I also feel that I can trust you. After all you're telling me all of these things. I mean just different. Not good nor bad. You really care about her, I can see that. It surprises me that you would be willing to take responsibility knowing that it wasn't yours. Awww thank you! :)
Yeah that's what I think too, someone really attractive stud who's good with ladies lol Lol I think my girl WOULD want to see him, like he'd make her hot down there with her just thinking about him, but at first she'd be embarrassed to admit it so I'd need to push her a little :P Hell yeah I trust you, your advice is amazing too! You're an incredible woman!! I feel like you can put yourself in my girls shoes and imagine what she needs Yeah I do care about her a ton, I couldn't imagine not being with her, I definitely would stick around if there was an accident!! You're welcome :) I think in this situation she'd get so many different experiences, like I imagine some guys would do everything to pleasure her, and that would be great for her, but she'd also get some experience with feeling what it's like when a guy goes nuts fucking her and gets maximum enjoyment out of her
Exactly, a guy like that would be perfect! Lol Even I would like to be with a guy like that Lol In that case, she would like to see him. But I can see why she would be embarrassed, I would too hahaha Thank you! I really appreciate your words. You're a special man! Yes, I try to imagine how she feels. But of course, you're the one who knows her and knows what she likes. Awww you're so into her. It's so sweet! 💛💛 Yes, she would.
Yes and tall too! Lol I feel like if we were friends I'd probably tell him about you and maybe he would want to meet up with you too!! 😉 Haha why embarrassed? I wanna know so bad, from your perspective Thank you :) yeah I try to imagine her side too, and I know I'd need to be very supportive for it to work out and for her to enjoy it all Haha I am! Part of it is I get to show her off and I can even ask the guys who she hooks up with what they think Yes I think she deserves knowing all that, I think if we opened up my friend circle to her I'd probably drive her to my friends houses and pick her up when she gets those booty calls 🤣
True, because women usually prefer tall men. Hahaha, maybe he would if he wasn't white. Because she would be admitting that she liked another guy besides her boyfriend. You're welcome. :) Exactly, she will need your support and patience. And of course, she must enjoy it too. Hahaha I think she would like having you picking her up.
That's true! Haha what kind of guys do you like then? 😉 Well I'd love it if she opened up about that and we could discuss it without feeling weird, maybe she doesn't like him the same way as she likes me, but she feels super drawn to him and loves making him feel good Her enjoyment is the priority overall! If she didn't like it we'd stop right away, but I'd do everything I could to make it good for her Haha why specifically getting picked up?
I usually like good looking guys, but I'm trying to change that. I also like when they're tall and usually older than me. I understand. She probably would opened up to you after feeling more comfortable with him. I doubt she would like him more than she likes you. That's right, you could always stop if she didn't like it. Well, maybe she would find exciting. Maybe she would want to tell you all the details, so you know that she enjoyed it.
I think that's natural! Why would the guy have to not be white though? Taller and older are traits women naturally like I think, so that would be good for you! Yeah we'd probably talk about it a lot in bed when we're cuddling up, and I'd be stroking her body as she opens up about her feelings for him and I'd tell her it's natural to feel those things, especially towards an alpha man who is showing you how a woman deserves to feel like in bed! Exactly lol it's all good Haha I'd be excited too, I'd so anxious to hear about what she let him do to her!! I'd want to know if it was slow love making with tons of kissing or dirty, sloppy fucking, and of course I'd be dying to know if they used protection or if he somehow convinced her to let him feel her bare :P
It's natural, but apparently isn't good. :/ Well, because I'm black and I assume that a white guy wouldn't be into me. You're right, women usually like tall and older men. "Yeah we'd probably talk about it a lot in bed when we're cuddling up, and I'd be stroking her body as she opens up about her feelings for him and I'd tell her it's natural to feel those things, especially towards an alpha man who is showing you how a woman deserves to feel like in bed!" . That sounds hot! Hahaha yeah, I figured that you would like to hear the details.
It's perfectly fine lol some guys just get jealous!! Hell no, white guys like black girls, you're lady like anyone else, in fact it's hot when a lady looks a little different than you, no one I know ever said they disliked black women lmao it just depends on the individual woman herself... Honestly I think if the dude my girl was fucking knew I opened up to you he'd want you too!! You're right that does sound very hot! I'd definitely be encouraging her, I'd also buy her fancy lingerie and dresses/clothes for when she goes to see him Lol yeah the details would be incredibly sexy to hear, I'd have a million questions, I'd probably park somewhere and have a makeout session with her and we'd talk about how he screwed her SO GOOD between kisses I'd love to see her having sex too, but I feel like if she's sleeping with my friends I'd be too embarrassed to ask my friend if I could watch lol but I'd love afterwards if she showed off bite marks/hickies and sex bruises to me and told me how she got them If they had just had sex and I picked her up and he came inside her I'd want to see her pussy so badly lol I'd need to see it right as we get home
Yes, they do that's true Lol I know I'm like any other woman, but I'm used to be rejected by white men. That's what my experience taught me. But it's good to hear than none of your friends dislikes black women. " in fact it's hot when a lady looks a little different than you [...]" - It's interesting to see that you think like that. Maybe he would, if he was ok with me being black. I love the fact that would even encourage her by buying fancy lingerie. "I'd probably park somewhere and have a makeout session with her and we'd talk about how he screwed her SO GOOD between kisses" - That's also hot!!! Yeah, your friends probably wouldn't like the idea of you watching them while they were having sex with your girl. Lol I can imagine why you would like to see her pussy.
When I was single I would flirt with black women, they're very attractive!! And yeah it's neat, in my opinion, to have a little contrast lol if my girlfriend was letting me pick the guy for her I'd definitely consider a black dude lol do you like white dudes? Haha yeah I'd take every opportunity to show her I'm into it and that I want her to continue seeing him Haha very hot! Yeah they probably just want to nail her in private, as much as they can, I'd definitely feel proud about how popular she is! Do you think it'd be weird to ask my friends about how their night was with her? Or should I strictly ask my girl about that? Lol why do you think so? I'd wanna see how big of a mess he made 😂 I'd be super turn on watching her slip off her panties and then spread her thighs open, I imagine she'd be really sore, like a little swollen from that crazy friction with him and also more red, and then I'd notice how much baby good he pumped into her, shed probably be super sticky, I think we'd sit across from eachother like that with her legs open so I can see, and her waiting for my reaction, then I'd grab her and give her the deepest kiss and squeeze her so tight so she knows she's still mine, and I'd be rock hard
I'm surprised to hear that you used to flirt with black women and that you find us attractive. I don't know about the contrast Lol You need to ask her if she likes black dudes, she might not like them. Yes, I like white dudes. True, they probably only want to do everything in private. Yes, it would be weird to ask them. You should ask her instead. Because you would be curious and that would be hot!
Why surprised? There's many attractive black women in the world lol Yes I'd need to ask her for sure cause it would suck if she wasn't into it when we meet him, I'd feel awful And lol maybe I could drop you off at some of my friends too 🤣 they'd know what to do with you! Lol yeah it changes things when my friends smash my girl, now they're not really just "my friends", they've become my girls fuck buddy! The dynamic is different then, how do you think it'd change? I feel like my girlfriend would want me to behave really different towards them so it doesn't complicate her love life, like I'd need to be extremely respectful to them, even if they aren't that respectful back to me, they might develop some kind of superior attitude cause they get poon from my girlfriend, but if I get pissed off then maybe she would lose out on the all the love making 🤔 what's your opinion? Haha yeah I'd be curious, I'd NEED to see the mess, I feel like some guys would absolutely explode their cum super deep inside, like her whole pussy would be covered in sperm
Because I'm not used to hear a white guy saying that he likes black women. That's true Lol Exactly, that's why you really have to ask her. And yes, it would be awful!´ "And lol maybe I could drop you off at some of my friends too they'd know what to do with you!" - Maybe you could Lol Yeah, I think it's complicated. Which is why it would be better if it wasn't with a friend. It could ruin your friendships and they could feel superior. But on the other hand, it's true it could make her lose motivation. You need to find someone who is not a friend. That would be possible.
I think black women have a ton of natural beauty, and I love the hair lol my girl has curly hair too cause she's Mediterranean and I love it! Haha they'd go wild if I set them up with you, I'd be their best friend right away 😂 Hmm you're right about that, it could be risky, we could just find guys for her in town if we're feeling comfortable enough to do it so close to home, and then we could filter it down to those strong, fit, tall, alpha male guys who could make her feel like a real woman in bed, and if they live in town they could come over for the night and carry her to our bedroom and lock the door while I get to sleep on the couch that night :P Do you think it's ok/good if these guys cum inside her once in awhile? I feel like she would crave that skin on skin feeling, and the warm sticky feeling too, I think if she was with the guy enough she'd actually like letting him mark his territory that way lol
"I think black women have a ton of natural beauty, and I love the hair lol my girl has curly hair too cause she's Mediterranean and I love it!" - It's so nice to hear this! Her hair must be beautiful! "Haha they'd go wild if I set them up with you, I'd be their best friend right away" - You would have to tell them to slow down. 😂😂😂 Exactly, those are the guys that you should be looking for. She could like the feeling but I don't think that's a good idea. She might end up pregnant.
It is! Especially when she lets it have the natural curls, I love big hair! Ahaha I'd definitely do that for you Yeah those are the ideal guys for sure, I feel like she's probably going to want to be hanging out with them too, I don't know how much interaction I would have with them but my girlfriend would probably have tons of stories to tell me when we're alone, I'd always be ready to listen to her and give her insights to a guys mind Yeah I think you're right, it's better not to risk that, a lot of those guys are probably super potent and would be large so they'd finish really deep, maybe right against her cervix, so it'd be very risky
I agree with you, big hair is beautiful! I'm sure you would. If she would want to hang out with them, then she would get closer to them. That would be good for their sex sessions. Yeah, she would have a lot of stories to tell you hahaha Exactly. They probably would end up hurting her or getting her pregnant.
Yeah she'd wanna feel close to the guys who provide good sex for sure, I'm sure they'd develop A TON of intimacy when they continuously keep smashing! I'm wondering what she'd feel comfortable sharing because she is a little shy, but I wanna see her get super excited telling me about how he screwed her brains out and I'd wanna know all the details lol Yeah I heard too big can hurt but I want the guy to be a bit larger so she experience being stretched during that deep penetration, and I'm worried about the pregnancy too, I think I'd just tell her to break it off with him so he doesn't know lol
Yes, they probably would which is normal. If she's your girlfriend she would feel comfortable with telling you everything I guess. Yes it can, it would be a bad experience for her. True, there's always the risk of pregnancy so you must be careful with that.
Well there's one guy I used to go to school with that still lives in town, we used to be friends but then had a falling out so we don't talk, but he's really popular and tall and many women find him really attractive, but I think he's a bit of a player! Anyways I was thinking this might be an option for a guy my girlfriend could see in private lol I dunno if I should suggest to my girl that she messages him on Facebook or Instagram or something
He sounds like a good option, but if you don't talk to him then it might be weird. Unless he doesn't know that she's your girlfriend.
Yeah he doesn't know about her, so they could potentially hook up safely, but i know if she felt guilty for lying to him about it and admitted she's my girlfriend he'd find it SO funny! But we don't have mutual friends so it'd never come back to bite us He ends up being fuck buddies with many women that are as attractive as my girlfriend so it could be a REALLY good match!! It's kinda starting to become a thing where whenever I see a cool dude I think "would he be a good fuck buddy for my girlfriend?" Lma
If he doesn't know about her, then it's a good match! But yeah, if you guys don't have mutual friends, then it's even better. I can't believe you're thinking about that Lol
He lives in town so I could drop her off and pick her up and she could just say I'm her Uber lol he's more experienced than me with women so I bet they could have some really intense love making sessions when she becomes comfortable enough open up her legs for him!!! I feel like she's gonna describe all these moves he uses with her, and I heard this one girl say that he's really well endowed lol when she is ready to jump out the car I'll probably tell her "enjoy having your pussy wrecked tonight!" Haha Yeah I can't believe it either, do you think it's good or bad that I'm having these thoughts?
I'm imagining everything you're saying Lol It would be funny hahaha If he's all that, then you should pick him. Perhaps she would like him too. I think it's bad. Most guys would never be ok with seeing their girlfriends with another guy. If I had a boyfriend, I wouldn't be ok either.
Lol yeah I think after it happens she'd be too sore and tired for us to have sex, but we could do sleepy makeout sessions and I could bug her about the story of how they smashed and how good it was Yeah I think she would see the best in him, he's sometimes an asshole and she's really sweet so they're kinda opposites and I think they could really be attracted to eachother Yes you're right, I kinda feel ashamed for being turned on by the idea of sending my girl out to some stud so he could do nasty things with her, I don't think I could do it unless we had the strongest connection where I trust her to come back and be honest to me, and also not to tell people we know that she has these hunky friends with benefits out there that give her the craziest orgasms ever, but I'm also kinda worried that she might think she's doing something bad even though I encourage her to seek out these men
Yes, I guess she wouldn't be in the mood for it. She would be sore for sure. If they're opposites, maybe it won't work. If he's an asshole he might hurt her. I understand why you feel ashamed. Most guys would hate this idea. And you're right, she probably will think that she's doing something bad. I know I would.
Yeah maybe cuddles would be best in that moment I don't mean totally opposite, but I don't think he'd hurt her, he's not dangerous Yeah, I'd have to really show he that it's ok, like always cuddle and show a lot of love, especially on the nights she goes out with a guy, that would help make her feel better I think, and also we'd need our own private time too
Yes, they probably would help her. I mean, it's good that he's not dangerous. But I meant, hurting her feelings since you said he's an asshole. I agree, that's the best you can do for her.
The only thing that would suck is I kinda want to see how a dominant, alpha dude would treat my girlfriend and how she'd respond to his behaviour, you know? I feel like she'd act extra cute for him
Yes, I think I know what you mean. She probably would and maybe he would like that.
I think she would feel more comfortable knowing I understand what her situation is like with her new friend Why do you think he might like it?
Yes, I guess she would too. Because some guys like sweet girls.
Yeah you're right, he's really gonna love her sweetness lol I feel like some guys would just be using her to get between her legs though, but then again she has a boyfriend so she doesn't necessarily need his love right?
That's true, some guys would use her. No she doesn't, she needs her boyfriend's love. Maybe letting her having sex with other guys wouldn't be a good idea.
Maybe you're right, I don't know I guess we could try it out with one guy at first and see if she enjoys it?
Maybe if I see a guy penetrating her and making her have huge orgasms it'd actually be good for my ego lol
You could but only if she's ok with it. This might be a bad idea. Why if she's with another man?
Yeah I'd have to discuss it with her, and it could show me what she can do with a guy lol
Yes, you really need to talk to her. She might not like the idea.
Yeah I don't want to pressure her into it either, I'm just wondering how I could approach her about this
True, you shouldn't pressure her into it. She's not going to like it and it might ruin your relationship. Maybe you could ask her if she can see herself having sex with another man.
Yeah I'll be very relaxed about it, and I'll go slow with it, maybe before we do anything in person we can make a dating profile and find a guy who we can do a group chat with and she can see how she likes the attention That's an incredible idea, I could ask her about that! And just ask her questions about it if she seems comfortable with answering
I agree, you should go slow. You can try that, to see how she reacts. I'm glad you like my idea. Exactly, you can ask her those questions.
I think I need to show her that no matter what she does or says, I will still love her and want her to be mine I feel like the sex she has with another guy could very dirty and I don't want her to feel like it changes the way I see her
You do, she must trust you. But she also might be against that. That's understandable. Then maybe you should rethink this, like I've said before it might not be a good idea.
Yeah she never did much hooking up or anything lol she gave a guy at a party a BJ once before we dated, and one time I asked her if she'd like having sex with a guy who has a really big cock and she said "I do like a challenge" lol
I see Lol So maybe she's going to like this "challenge" too Lol
Lol she might!! I'm average so if we discovered a guy with a big pipe she might get curious about it lol
Yup, she probably will Lol
I can almost picture her on all fours, face down and booty up, with me in front of her watching, and she's just waiting for this manly dude behind her to reach places inside her no one's ever been before
Lol Well now you just have to talk to her. See what she thinks.
Yeah, should I wait for us to have had an intimate first? Like ask her in bed when we're all cuddled up?
Yes, that sounds like a good moment for you to ask this.
I'm gonna try tonight then, I just get a little embarrassed asking, I tried before and chickened out! But now I have a few situations in mind and ready to tell her about if she's open to the idea
You should try. I understand, it's not an easy question to ask Lol But you'll be ready this time. Good luck! :)
Thank you lol I'm definitely gonna let you know how it goes! Knowing her, if she agrees, she'll probably make me find guys for her and then I present them to her and she says yes, no, or maybe lol
You're welcome. Yes, please let me know. Well, then that's good for her and also for you. Lol
True it would be but again I'd kinda be a little embarrassed asking a dude if he wants to get under the covers with my girlfriend haha but I don't know if it's actually that bad of a thing asking for help
Hummm yeah, that's embarrassing Lol He probably wouldn't take you seriously. He would think that you were joking.
Maybe I'd have to ask my girlfriend if I could take some semi sexy pictures of her to show the guy I'm serious, like pictures that show off her body without her face in them, maybe wearing a bathing suit and/or lingerie, and that could convince the guy!
Yes, that might help him.
I just want the dude to super cool lol if I'm letting a dude work his way between my girls legs he has to make a really good impression
I understand, that's important.
How do you think I should act towards the dude when we meet up with him?
I have no idea. I guess just by being nice and act as you usually do.
Yeah I think that's right, I looked into this a bit and heard that sometimes when a couple let's another men penetrate the lady the new guy can develop an ego, and also get a little possessive over the girlfriend too, like when we sit on a couch he'll pull her next to him with his arms around her, expect kisses, kiss her neck, stroke her body, have her sit on his lap, hold her close, etc.
Humm yes, that can be a problem. You should really reconsider this because it might happen with you and your girlfriend.
Do you think that would make a girl feel awkward if a man she had sex with would do those things towards her though? If he acted arrogant towards me in this situation should I still just be nice?
Yes, she would feel awkward and perhaps guilty. It probably would make her think that she should have never have sex with him. No, you shouldn't be nice. Honestly, maybe you should forget about this. It might ruin your relationship with her.
Hmm i don't want her to feel that way, and you're right that I shouldn't be nice if he acts that way Huh well I should considered that, maybe I'll just tell her about my fantasy and tell her I wanna talk about it and all the issues that could arise It could be good to ask her how she would handle it if he did that, maybe we'd just let him behave that way the one night and then distance ourselves Also it's not guaranteed he'll act this way just cause he had her body
I know you don't, which is why you really have to talk to her. "Huh well I should considered that, maybe I'll just tell her about my fantasy and tell her I wanna talk about it and all the issues that could arise"- That's a good approach. It's a great way to see how she feels about it. I agree with your last two points.
Yeah we need a chat for sure... We should talk about it a lot before it ever happens I think if he starts acting possessive when he's with her, and she actually enjoys the way he fucked her before, that maybe she should just go with the flow and allow him to show off with her lol I mean if he was able to handle her needs before and he isn't hurting her, and she's turned on by him, maybe it won't be the worst thing in the world if she lets him have some pussy... I guess it could be cool to see how bad he wants my girl and I could watch him plow her again, but afterwards I really need to show her tons of affection and love to show her it didn't change how I see her
Yes you do. That's not something you can do without talking to her first. I guess you're right.
Well I discussed it with her after we had sex and were cuddling, I asked her if she would be curious about being with another guy and at first she said she only wants to be with me, then I said "but what about the thought of it, like how it'd be like, if another guy would feel different or behave differently in bed" she said she did think about it sometimes but she wouldn't cheat, I asked "what if we did an mfm or something" she said she thought about it... We discussed a lot and she eventually said we need to talk about it more but she'd also think it over... I reassured her that it's just her would be with another guy, not me with another girl, and that I'm not interested in the guy myself, I also told her what I find sexy about it, like how it could be a way to make her feel good and I'd want to see or know about her getting pleasured and also it'd be hot to see what she can do in bed from a different angle, and she asked me if I'd be jealous and I said I would be jealous and I'd use that feeling to "reclaim" her and show her why she's my girl and I'm her man So yeah it didn't go as badly as I thought!
No, it didn't at all. Thanks for letting me know. I'm glad to see that it didn't go badly. She could have reacted badly. So now you know that she's open to the idea.
Yeah! She seems like she's somewhat open, she's been in a good mood since I mentioned it originally so I'm guessing she didn't change her mind either... I talked about it during our intimate moments too a bit today, and she seemed very receptive, it clearly turned her on and I mentioned specifically taking a bigger dude She just hasn't really experienced a friends with benefits situation so I'm wondering how it would affect her, maybe it'd be a good experience for her to try it, or maybe she'd try it and discover it's not for her, I think I'd need to sort of encourage her to try it out before we can find out
Those are good news. Maybe she needs to see it for herself. Let her try and see what happens.
Yeah you're right! Do you think I should encourage her to try on her own?
Yes I think so. But talk to her first, let her know what you think and how you feel about this. Then you just have to listen to her.
That's a really good idea, I just don't know who she'd do it with, I could mentioned that guy I used to know or maybe I could mention a friend that I think could be into her, what do you think?
I was thinking about pros and cons If it's the guy I mentioned before the pros would be that he doesn't know people in our social circle, she could end things easily if she or I decide it isn't working out well with him, I still know him and he isn't dangerous to her, cons would be we didn't get along too well at one point, I can't talk to him about rules With a friend, I know guys who are into casual hookups and they wouldn't try to steal her, I could talk to them about my relationship and tell them what I'm comfortable with, I could approach the guy so she doesn't have to and tell him we want my girlfriend to experience some good, fun sex outside the relationship and that we thought of him, he'd probably be really happy I'm hooking him up, when they're both ready they could meet up at our place to do some good old fashioned mating lol cons would be he might tell some of the other guys we know (the guys into casual sex have a group chat together) but this could be a pro if she wants more than one guy, and I guess if it doesn't work out they might still have to see one another at social events, but my girlfriend is very mature and he isn't too serious about sex
Well, it seems that doing it with a friend has more advantages. However, if he tells his friends, she might not like it. Also, if things don't work it might be awkward. So, I would say that you should talk to one of your friends.
Yeah I'll ask her what friends of mine she's attracted to most then I'll try talking to him and try figuring out if he's attracted to her at all, and if he is then I could ask him if he'd want me to set them up for a fun night of sex lol I don't think it'd be the worse thing in the world if I have a guy friend that helps me out with keeping my girlfriend satisfied, I know at first my girlfriend would probably be too shy to actually approach him for more sex and may just drop hints to me that I should invite him over for her, I could also tell him if he wants more he should let me know until my girlfriend is comfortable with everything
Yes, that sounds like a good plan.
Thank you for all your help :)
You're welcome. Hope all goes well. :)
Me too! I think it's gonna be really exciting
I hope so. :)
Lol yeah I talked about to my girlfriend a bit and we did some pillow talk about it a few times, I want to start asking her if she finds any guys I know attractive and move on from there!
That sounds like a good start.
Good luck! :)
I've done CNC 3-somes and always wore a condom. Never a good idea to not wear one as you can never 100% trust what someone says these days.
Recently was the bull for a couple that he was into cuckold fantasies. Married couple in late 20s, she said she's on the pill, claimed it was her first time doing another man other than her husband and asked if I would like to go raw and cum in her, Well she is pregnant now.
Oh man that's wild, what did her husband say about her getting pregnant? Also you got any tips for what to look for in the guy?
Her husband loves it and has been dotting on her a lot but she hates him these days and mostly wants me to be with her.
Lol damn I don't want my girl to hate me!
Look for in a guy? He should be respectful to her wishes especially with regard to boundaries and condom usage. He should be physically fit and have strong sexual stamina. At bare minimum he must be able to lift and hold her in his arms even if she is heavier than average. He should be of the size she wants or likes, if she wants him bigger than find a guy with a big one, if she doesn’t say anything then he should be slightly bigger than her usual guy. The other is a plus if she finds the other guy to be good looking/hot.
That's exactly what I want, she is slim so most guys would be able to lift her but hopefully he's stronger than average The stamina is definitely important because I'm looking for this to last a few hours at least Bigger would be good for sure and so would attractive Respect is super important in my opinion, he absolutely needs to respect my girl
Her getting pregnant by the other guy is a sure way for her to start hating you. If she does naturally her hormones will kick in and cause her to want the other guy and she will grow closer to him. Respect is very important and as rare a big dick is in this country, it’s actually easier to find a man with a big dick than one that will respect. But never ever compromise on this even if it’s a CNC.
I didn't know that about pregnancy, that's pretty horrible, does it go away after she gives birth? And yeah I could imagine, respect is the base of this kind of thing, I wouldn't agree if the guy gave bad vibes CNC would be pretty intense to see in this situation, I don't know if my girlfriend is actually into that specifically
Usually it doesn’t just go away if he treats her well. CNC is a different type of intensity and it’s best talked over clearly with all parties involved as it’s a sure way for things to go south if not properly talked over prior to it happening. Have you found the other guy yet or is she finding for him?
What could I do if this situation occurs? It sounds intense for sure, it'd be very dramatic to see it happening to her, if she was into it then it could be hot, but I'd want the guy to explain it all to my girl so she knows what she's getting into No we are going to look together, but also I might have to look for a dude myself if she's not as into looking as we discussed
It’s best to do everything possible to avoid a pregnancy as pregnancies in such a situation opens up a lot of unknowns and it becomes a bigger problem if the other guy won’t take responsibility. Easiest is if no condom is used after it’s over take a Plan B/ morning after pill immediately. CNCs generally isn’t done as a first foray into this lifestyle though.
Yeah if she got pregnant I'd take responsibility cause it's my girl I agree about it being easier, also more fun for the other guy and my girl This sounds very true, probably not gonna do that the first time lol
You may want to take responsibility and look after her but she may not necessarily want your attention. This girl now is that way, she just packed a bag to live at my place as she said she only wants me to look after her, she gets irritated just from him being around her and anything about her sets her off. She’s quite the nuisance to be honest but what could I do.
Lol are you going to end up raising the kid with her? At least you found someone who is really into you!
Doubt it would be as easy because they are a married couple and in this state there’s presumed parentage, therefore by default the baby is his rather than mine. Only way could do it is if she divorces him before the baby is born.
Is she going to do that?
I haven’t really asked her. But it’s definitely in her mind.
Condoms with her on birth control. It’s good to be safe esp if you don’t know the “third”. We knew the third and still used this precaution. Have fun!
That's smart, I think we'll probably go with a guy we find online in another town, my girlfriend is attractive and we could probably get a friend to do it, I know at least one guy who'd for sure be down, but it seems risky
Nice…I’m sure you’ll have a great time
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Oh that's cool, I didn't know! It would probably be good to get one for extra precautions
Just go online and order a few. Here's how it works... Men like condoms for safety. Smart. Women hate condoms because you are suggesting they're sluts. True! A guy can't win. You're damned either way.
Yeah I know condoms would be safest for my girlfriend, but bare definitely feels a lot better and I think it'd be a lot more natural for when they go at it lol
They?
The girlfriend and the other guy
That's tricky, because you can't control what the other guy does. Take her to Thailand and you will love it.
Yeah he's definitely an X factor here but that's part of the fun Why Thailand?
Cheap sex. 25 bucks.
Lmao it would be free here
Why are you on this fucked up site?
I don't think it's fucked up?
The sensible answer would be to use condoms. An STD check only shows what was on the past, not what is right now.
But sometimes when you want to get the most out of it you need to take some risk and not taking the smartest decisions when horny either. Have used condoms with my wife on some threesome but the majority was without
That's true, I guess if we went that route we'd have to our own check in the near future too In those threesomes did the guy pull out of your wife?
Sometimes yes sometimes no. But she has implant for bc. I like sloppy seconds. Difficult to do with condom or pulling out 😅
It's good you got BC covered! The idea of sloppy seconds gets me a little nervous lol but I'd definitely want to see between her legs if that happens
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