If you were in a sexless marriage would you cheat?

Would you step away and get your sexual itch scrathed from time to time or just deal with it. If you were truly inlove with him or her
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The female has a major medical condition and the medicine she must take to live takes all her sexual desires away. When before this happened she was highly highly sexual
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  • Probably yeah eventually. Like whenever my wife doesn't feel she's up to sex she gives me a blowjob or handjob.
    there's been times in the past when maybe she's too tired, sick, on her period or something and just had me jerk off over her tits. A while back I was going to a bachelor part and she had real bad menstrual cramps but insisted before I leave that I "empty my sack". So she got on her knees lying on the bed pulled down her pyjama bottoms to reveal a little thong, face down, ass up she encouraged me to cum on her ass.

  • today no I wouldn't do it, I also would never get married. but in the past when I was weaker I was in a sexless relationship for two years and I did cheat on her one time. It didn't even feel like cheating, it just felt like I got something I really biologically needed, like food or water.

Most Helpful Girls

  • no, but it'd definitely need to be something we had a discussion about. I need sex in a relationship. if it was cut out, we'd need to come to some sort of compromise.

    • Thank you great answer 💋

  • No, there is NEVER an excuse/justification for cheating!!!

    • Per your update: that still is no justification to cheat. If anything that's worse... To have a sick partner who can't help it and all their partner can think of is their sexual needs? People forget the "in sickness and in health" My husband got too sick too be able to have sex the last year before he died. And even though I got urges, what kind of person would I be if that would of meant more than the feelings of a sick, dying man.

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  • I wouldn't be in that marriage in the first place

    • What if it was medical?

    • you can do plenty of sexual things that don't involve penetration if that's the issue or see a proffesional

    • Agreed but if they had a medical issue and doctors say this is just how it is nothing can be done the medicine that has to be taken to live takes all the libido away

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  • No, I would be filing for divorce.

    • *my original opinion was posted BEFORE the update about said medical problem... 😁

  • Sex isn't that important to me. I don't need it to be happy in a relationship. There are other forms of intimacy I enjoy more

    • Thank you for your thoughts on this 💋

    • Sorry kiss wasn't for this answer lol

    • Too late, can't take it back now lol

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  • If I was in an unhappy relationship I would leave before I start looking for a new lover.

  • I would speak about it, then breakup, if I saw no progress.

  • Never.

  • Why get married in the first place

  • Of course.

  • If you're in a sexless marriage chances are the other person is already cheating on you.

  • No way. I'd masturbate.

  • Well the simple answer to this question is after talking to her and learning that she didn't want to be with me anymore. Because. I would do all i could for her needs. If she is unwilling to try to meet mine, divorce seems the only option.

    • Its all medical she has no control over it the medication she has to take to live takes all libido away she has no control of it. It is a very complicated situation

    • So that's all? It just kills her libido? Forgive me if i sound like a jerk, i'm just being logical. If you said it caused her pain. Or if she was ill that would be one thing. But he has needs to and we're talking about her just lacking drive. Just curious hows rhe orher intimacy between them? Is it just no sex? Do they still hug, cuddle, kiss etc.

    • No i wouldn't cheat. Unless i had her blessing to do. And if she loved and cared about me she would be thinking of my needs as well.