If you were picking out a dildo, would you get one smaller than him, same as him, or bigger than him?

If you were picking out a dildo, would you get one smaller than him, same as him, or bigger than him?

My boyfriend took me to the toy store and told me to pick one out. I was a bit hesitant, so I picked one his size. He said that one is a waste of money, because I already had one that size. Him. So I told him to pick one, and he picked a big one.

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  • LOL That is one thing that I've never thought of. I enjoy a woman using a vibe but I've never taken a girlfriend to a sex shop to buy a dildo.

    Last I was in a sex shop was a few months ago to buy a vibe that can be used for me against my cock, or for a woman to stimulate her clit. The lady at the checkout I noticed, gave me a certain look like she recognized me. A couple of months later she walked by me in my neighborhood and said "hi". Took me a minute to figure out who she was... LOL

    • I advise guys to not buy toys online, but instead to take their lady to the toy store. It's fun.

    • Oh yeah if I currently had a girlfriend I'd love to take her to a sex shop.

    • She will hate you and love you at the same time. Keep her on her toes and keep her guessing.

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  • For me I'd just say it better make ya happy these ain't cheap XD. Then again I'm the type to save up a ton of money and then spend it on either rare or high quality stuff. So its not like I'm saying this like I'm complaining. I just live by the ideology of you get what yo u pay for.

    • I think you save in the long run when you buy quality. It took me a long time to figure that out.

    • I have my spending binges but its mostly special events or birthdays :) otherwise like 7 times I binge spend but even then I try to keep it low.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I choose usually the small one to be avle to carry it around , no relation to his penis

    • I worked with a lady in a restaurant, and she carried one in her purse. One day after work we were all sitting around and drinking, and I don't know how the subject came up, but she just pulled it out and showed us. lol One waitress got really upset, and I'm not sure why. I think it was because the girl with the toy was getting more than her share of attention from the guys.

    • She should not, carrying it around help me release stress every once in a while

    • She should not?

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  • Enjoy the great orgasms. How is your sex life with him?

    • Great while it lasted.

    • While it lasted? Did you two break up?

    • He had to move, and I didn't want to leave my family.

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  • Bigger / Girthier.

    • A girl on here said it very well. She said that the reason women pick bigger dildos, is to make up for the fact that dildos can't kiss, lick, caress, whisper sweet nothings, smile, gaze into your eyes or hold a conversation. But the Japanese are working on changing that. lol
      If you were picking out a dildo, would you get one smaller than him, same as him, or bigger than him?

  • Well, i'm at a loss for words? Glad he picked the big one, 'cause we all know that penises come in all shapes and sizes.

    • Very true. I was hesitant, because my previous boyfriend was very much against toys. So I decided to play it safe.

    • When married, my wife brought a dildo home from her work as an RDA, since one of the doctors had bought it for his wife and she told him to "get rid of that damned thing" She brought it home and she wanted to use it on me and I relented, (good thing it was a 'thin' one. Only experience with anything like that. Not a fan of 'sex toys" really.

    • I've told this story before, but I watched a YouTube video, and it was an experiment. 100 women were taken to a dildo factory/warehouse. They were all instructed to pick out two dildos. One would represent the size they required in a husband, and the other one was the size they required for a one-night-stand. Do you think they chose the same size for both, or was one size different? And if you say they were different, which of the sizes represented the husband?

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  • Confession ahead.
    Unlikely to find one of my modest dimensions, why I stay with oral and fingering.
    It is not length tat matters after, maybe 6 inches. It's girth/width. I would pick one for her that would give her a little stretch and friction.

  • Seems like you have a pretty confident boyfriend. 😅 Good for you. I wouldn't care honestly if she got one bigger.

    • He is confident, and I like that. What if it were just you at the store picking one. What would you pick.

    • Probably something different from what she may have.

    • Good idea. No sense duplicating things.

  • I have bought for a woman before and I usually pick out the girthier ones with a suction cup.

    • Smart guy. Girthy is always welcomed, and the suction cups are great for role playing.

    • Oh yeah, I enjoy watching the facial reaction with the bigger ones at point of entry and the suction cups are great in the shower for her also and for role playing, yes indeed.

    • Threesomes can be great or a disaster, but role playing is always good. I read a story online where hubby brought home a very girthy one, and his wife (who was telling the story) said she was afraid her husband would notice how much she liked it and would get mad. So when he was using it on her, there was no way to hide how much she liked it, but he didn't get mad at all. He liked it.

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  • I bought her a few dildos. I got them bigger and smaller than I am. We used them when she wanted to be double penetrated. I was in her pussy and the smaller one in her butt or I was in her butt and the bigger one in her pussy. It gave her more intense and multiple orgasms

    • Keep her excited with adventure.

    • That was years ago. We don't do anything anymore

    • It's time to make a new plan, Stan.

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  • I would probably chose a bigger than mine because she will enjoy more what she already have.

    • You're smarter than the average bear.

    • Thanks and it's common sense also we never buy 2 identical cloth same for dildo also. And i also buy her a butt plug.

  • I personally love seeing a thick dildo slide inside of my partner while we’re playing.

    • A funny comedian was talking about how if suddenly he turned into a woman. He said he'd run to the store and buy a zucchini. lol

    • I’d do more than that. Lol

  • They don't make them as small as my penis lol,,,

  • Why do you need one, if you have him?

    • Good luck.

    • On what?

  • Yeah none of this sounds reasonable

  • Get the biggest one u think u can take in you

  • Same size or do one of the molds.

  • I guess bigger one would make more sense

    • I think so.

    • I wouldn't mind her picking something bigger than my size, I think I might like seeing her using it even.

    • What's good for the Goose, is good for the Gander.

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  • I get it.

    All of my realistic sex dolls are better looking than my wife too.

  • longer and girthier for sure.

    2” longer and perhaps around 10-25% thicker than him is best.

    • it makes sense to not get a replica of something you already have. Someone on here asked about one of those molding kits where you can make a replica of your guy's tool. I just said I never understood that, but I guess it's all about the novelty.

    • There’s a market for those types of custom moulded ones. Many LDR couples use them.

    • I understand that now, but not when I first heard of it.

  • I’d want to see her with a big one. Realistic looking.. with balls.

    • You may as well.

    • Yeah I want her to enjoy it and I want to enjoy watching it.

    • It's funny how more guys don't understand that. My ex was adamant that women in relationships shouldn't want/need or have sex toys. It's not they need them, it's just something extra.

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