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If you were still madly in love with your ex and he left you, would you still let him come over just to have sex with you?

... with the hope, that if you do, you might get him back? Have you ever done this? Did it work?

Guys, would you ever taken advantage of a girl who had the hots for you by using her for sex when you had no intention of a long term relationship with her? ... DON'T LIE!
If you were still madly in love with your ex and he left you, would you still let him come over just to have sex with you?
If you were still madly in love with your ex and he left you, would you still let him come over just to have sex with you?
A. YES! If I was that in love with him I think I could eventually get him back, or at least try, by satisfying his needs, including sexually
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If you were still madly in love with your ex and he left you, would you still let him come over just to have sex with you?
B. Yes, I have taken advantage of a girls love for me when I had no intention of having a long term relationship with her. I don't think there is anything wrong with mutually satisfying each others sexual, and other, needs in the moment
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If you were still madly in love with your ex and he left you, would you still let him come over just to have sex with you?
C. No, I would never do such a thing!
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If you were still madly in love with your ex and he left you, would you still let him come over just to have sex with you?
D. I have never done this but I have seen others do it for sure!
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If you were still madly in love with your ex and he left you, would you still let him come over just to have sex with you?
E. OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "Sexual Satisfaction" survey
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I was in a situation like this before with my first ex. He lived with my best friend so every time I stayed at the house the option was there for me to stay in his room. If it hadn’t been for my friends, I would’ve stayed with him but thankfully they stopped me. Even if I had gone through with it, with the hopes of getting him back, I don’t think it would have worked. Things would never be the same again between us even if it had.

    • I definitely feel the pain you felt as I have been through similar. I is much easier to talk about after the fact, but not so easy to go through!

    • Oh definitely I agree. This happened about 5 years ago now at this stage so it’s much easier to talk about. I’m glad my friends didn’t let me go through with it though. It would’ve made it so much harder to get over if I had.

    • For sure. It is so much easier for someone "outside looking in" to really see what is going on. You were so smart for taking their advice! It sounds like they could easily see that he only wanted to use you and maybe later would have just thrown you away.

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  • I did this and definitely regret it, he was over me and practically used me as a cum dump for a while. I let him do whatever he wanted even though part of me knew we wouldn't get back together. I regret it emotionally because it took me longer to get over him, but it was still nice to feel him

    • I know, I had the exact same thing happen about 5 years ago when I was 20. I was so madly in love with him that it didn't matter to me, I just wanted him to be mine so badly that I would do anything for him and he knew it! Eventually he was gone. I even wrote a myTake about it. I definitely felt the pain that you did!!

Most Helpful Guys

  • No! Because when i call a person (EX)

    If you were still madly in love with your ex and he left you, would you still let him come over just to have sex with you?

    It means a person i deleted from my life. If I deleted a person from my life why would i bring back this deleted person in my life. People need to understand what EX mean not just call someone an EX like it means nothing.

  • Would you do that?

    • Yes, if the guy I fell in love with 5 years ago called and wanted to be with me again, I would do it in a heart beat! I have never lost my love for him!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I've had sex after the break-up, wishing it was more, to start up again, but I knew it was unlikely, and wanted it anyway. And I didn't regret it.

  • If you were still madly in love with your ex and he left you, would you still let him come over just to have sex with you?

    You would have to be pretty desparate do do that , or maybe they just need to grow a brain. When they were passing out smarts they thought they said farts and they said, "Ewww! No thanks, I don't need one."

  • Hu huuu..📢 Laurie hu huuu🔊
    What planet do you live on? We are in the world🌎. Do you hear my voice? Go back to the world🔔
    Back to our world, 📣Laurieee

    You're like a rabbit with a light in your eye.
    There is a hand in your mind. Send that hand away from your head.

  • Something like B
    Yes, I have taken advantage of a girls love for me with no intentions of having a long term relationship. HOWEVER, I've learned my ways and my heart is full of regret. Up to this day I can only wish she never finds someone like me

  • One thing I never make is a false promise. But a girl once did seem to like me while I had no interest in her. We never had sex but we did go out a few times, it made her happy and gave me something to do i have no idea if it's a good or bad thing but it doesn't seem like hurt her feelings.

  • I have done twice
    Once in early 20s and kept going dack to him
    Second time 2 years after marriage met with old flame on weekend away with friends
    That was just hot sex tho he also had my mates as well

  • No absolutely not, why put yourself through continued heartache and torture, once it's over it's over, time to move on.

    • Agreed, and so easy to say because you know it's true... but not always so easy to do :(

    • This is indeed very true, sadly though sometimes you just have to be extremely hard on yourself

  • For your first point, I'd want our relationship to be deeper than sex, I don't want to be used, I want to be valued. Second, I would never want to use a girl for my own personal interests. Anything we did together it would be out of agreement and respect for the both of us

  • It would just be sex so you are best to let them go and move on , I had this happen to me, I thought I could forgive my ex cuz I still had feelings for her , so we ended up getting together. After 3 months of being broken up , I got her back in bed and screwed her all night but the whole time I was doing it I felt like it was revenge on my part for her leaving me., the feelings weren’t there anymore so after that night with her I never called her again I moved on , it wasn’t the same

  • Awesome pictures once again :)

    To the question... I would hope I could resist but I know me pretty well and it would be damn hard if a few in particular ex's threw themselves at me :)

  • I had several girl friends that I was fuckin with but I didn't lie to them I was straight up with them and they all knew each other or at least of each other. We were both getting what we wanted as a matter of fact I was younger than all but a few and some a lot younger

  • I wouldn't.

  • Unfortunately I have been a dog.

  • I had that happen a few years back. We just got together for dinner chatted then parted ways. I really wanted to but couldn't bring myself to do it.

  • No, don't ever do that. Let him miss you. All of you.

  • Hard pass. Don't dump me and then think you can call me up when you need some dick

  • Maybe think she is going to get some and keep it a few inches away for a tease

  • No need to regress emotionally by going back to a situation which wasn't good for me, plus a vibrator is a great substitute as are other men and women.

  • If it’s over, it’s over. Nothing beyond friendship at most.

  • I wouldn't lie about just wanting sex.

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