If you were sure you'd never get caught, would you cheat?

If you know that the person would give you the best sex you've ever had, would you do it? Would you make it a steady thing? Or just one time?
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  • No, I wouldn't. Cheating is despicable and cowardly.

  • Probably not, unless it was my fantasy female movie star, and I've told my SO that :-)

    • *and then she approved. there that might at least be a bit better

  • absolutely not! I've been betrayed so many times in my life. I know what betrayal is and how it feels. I would never under any circumstances do it. Plus I can't even have that sort of interaction with someone I dont even know. I need to have a connection and attachment for that to even be a thing between us.

  • I’ve had plenty of opportunities and didn’t and most of them were hot and the way some of them were coming at me I guarantee they were wild in the sack but as tempting as they were I gave my word to the woman I loved and as a matter of fact I’ve had a green light to do whatever for a while now and haven’t yet I’m not saying I won’t because at this point it’s not cheating but I’m not just looking to run out and fuck the first piece that comes along I did more than enough of that before I got married and I’m not really looking for anything specific or even looking when it happens is when it happens

  • No because I cannot live with that in my conscience.

  • No, because I would have to live with myself.

  • Neh, I wouldn't. If I want to have sex with someone else, I would actually ask my partner (if we are open about such things). But I will never cheat.

  • No
    1) I watched my mom cheat on my father for many years when he was enlisted as a US Marine. It ruined him emotionally and he's never recovered, plus he has herpes now to show for it. I consider it akin to murder.
    2) Its way too easy to get fiered for it in my line of work. Besides sex iant all that great unless you really love the person. Otherwise its just awkward and sweaty, even if it feels good.

    • I swear in many ways you and I are kindred spirits... damn

  • no, I wouldn't, because I would always know.

  • Nope.

  • Cheating really isn't a deal breaker in a relationship with me. I just turn a blind eye to the odd one night stand. If my wife wants a side boyfriend, we would likely have to eastablish some rules.

  • Doubtfully. I'm too loyal.

  • Actually yeah, sounds pretty sweet deal. I'd probably break it off with my current one cuz I'm pretty sex focused.

    You can downvote now.

  • nope never

  • No, I would never cheat. The sex might be great for ten minutes but the guilt goes on forever.

  • Nah. I mean I’d end up holding that guilt and it would erode my ability to feel close to my wife. It would open a door and it would likely lead to more issues. It would lead to a lust issue which could destroy a relationship. I’m also Christian, and it would be a betrayal to god and my wife. I’d also be highly disappointed in myself. I take pride in my integrity and providing nature. I’d have to prostitute my entire character to go through with something like that. I also just couldn’t do that to my wife. I cherish what we have too much to fuck it all up. There’s more to life than temporary youthful lusts and pleasures. Rather carry my dignity, oath to god and my marriage over a nice cum shot.

  • No I would not.

    I've also been in a position in a past relationship where I could have gotten away with it but I chose to stay faithful to my partner which I did.

    I abhor cheating.

    • I respect you a lot for saying this, especially since I think you could pull off a lot of girls. Says a lot about your level of class! I'm the same way and I know what it's like to be cheated on, sadly in more than one relationship. There were times I could have. And there were times gorgeous girls threw themselves at me at parties when they were in relationships. There was even a girl who was MARRIED trying to have 2 kids by me in secret to pass off to her husband as his... the world is sadly very, very wrong.

    • @t-8900 fortunately I don’t know what it’s like to be cheated on and I hope I never do. But I do know friends who have been cheated on.

    • I pray you never do. Growing up in the lower classes you tend to send more trash getting passed around. People just seen to have less respect for themselves, others, and life in general. While I've been through abuse I've grown from they now. If she cheats she's not worth your time. I know they might sound cliche but once you've really processed and understood that fact it will cause less stress and greatly soften the blow.

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  • If i ever cheat, it's beacuse i wanna get caught and hurt the other one

  • No, because you can't lie forever and you'll give yourself away even if you never get caught. Just don't cheat.

  • Nope..
    No..

    I will know and that guilt will consume me...

    Never cheat

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