Guys, if you where my boyfriend would u leave me because I got raped?

[dflor4]

[DannyUk2017]

Oh yes specially that you're not a virgin anymore! 🤭, just kidding...
Ok first of all i don't know how true is ur age as it says 13, but 'll try to "contain myself to proper (non bad language).
I mean if i was your boyfriend, actually i wouldve comfort you, if i don't know the details i wouldve try to ask you to describe "some of them", like who was it, where it happened, do you know the person, how do you feel?, do you want to get to hospital to get some help?, do you want any kind of help?, do want me to come with you and talk this to your parents? Would that make you feel more secure? there are tonns of questions and relations to your issue! So definitely you need some "support", either is a boyfriend, friend, close friend... etc!
But him breaking up woth you all i can say he's a Dick! Sorry but he just seen you as a "any other girl" than see you AS HIS GIRL! So yeah... just let him go, and find someone that REALLY supports you! 👍

[Anonymous]

It depends on what you mean.

This happened many years ago, long before I've met her or this actually happened while I am in a romantic, monogamous relationship with her. It literally just happened like hours or days ago?

If it was something before me... it wouldn't affect anything.
If it happened while I'm with her... I suspect it would end the relationship.
It is a crime... it was forced but... bottom line. A man had sex with her.
I have a very visceral feeling about something like that. I would sympathize, I'm sure I'd help her some initially to help her through it... but us being a romantic couple? No, that would have been killed and would have died when the rape occurred.

Some guy doing my girl... knowing she felt it all, that is just a pretty black/white type of a thing. No longer a dating couple.

[MrOracle]

Of course not. That's an awful idea.

[bob_anon714]

Nope, that wouldn't even be the last thing I would do cuz it wouldn't even be an option. I'd have to be sensitive to your feelings and emotions cuz I can only imagine how crazy you must feel. I'd be there as much as you wanted and when you didn't want me around, i'd go find the motherfucker that did jt and let the torture begin

[ohshee]

When did this happen have you told any one If I was 13 no I wouldn't but I would also make sure the guy didn't do it again

[summiter]

Not at all. I would also help you go to the cops and bust the asshole.

[MrKinktastic]

Of course not, a good guy would stick around

[Lionman95]

no, that would be rather a reason to stay with you. The only possibility to leave you because of such a situation would be that I would feel guilty that I couldn´t have protected you from that.

[AndyOh]

The only reason I might consider leaving you from your past is how you are handling it now. If it is a constant thought, affects our sex life, affects us, makes you very insecure, etc., then yes I would leave because the relationship is suffering.
If you still have issues, then some counseling would be a good bet before you get out there and back into a new relationship. Heal first.
Good luck.

[Mikelaughs]

That must be so difficult to deal with!
And no, I would not leave for that reason.
Hmu if you want to talk about it

[dflor4]

no am fine

[Mikelaughs]

I'm glad you are fine. Have you been to a therapist?

[dflor4]

I don't know no

[Mikelaughs]

I think it would help a lot

[dflor4]

thanks but am fine

[Kaneki05]

Nope. Would mean i need to be more supportive and caring than i normally am which is already a ton.

[Dargil]

Of course not.

[Dargil]

I would try to talk you through it.

[dflor4]

thanks