If your an experienced partner how open are you to trying/indulging in the whims of a less experienced partner?

I wouldn't class myself as experienced and have a whole list of things that I've never done nor tried before and even things that I may have tried once but didn't really go well or it happened wrong and I've gotten hurt.

But I keep feeling like by the time I'll find a guy who I like and likes me back he'll have done all these things with other girls. And he'd only want to do the things that he knows he likes and works for him.

Would you say this is true?
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  • Think of it as like two intertwined circles, each contains the preferences of one of you.

    The best possible sex you can have is when you pick something from the intersection.

    That being said sometimes doing something that's not on your list might actually make your list bigger, the idea is to keep an open mind and not insist on the things we know work.

    For example I had never tried bondage and was with this girl who always wanted to but hadn't either so I got myself a rope, watched a few tutorials, and invited her over.
    Now it wasn't perfect as far as bondage goes but it got the job done it was the fastest time I had made a girl cum and that sense of achievement is irreplaceable.

    So I'm always open to exploring new things even though a few things are still off limits and I would never even consider they are pretty much the extremes like getting pegged or cucked or anything involving feet.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I'm not able to speak to this myself but I would like to say one thing with a picture

    If your an experienced partner how open are you to trying/indulging in the whims of a less experienced partner?

    if you truly love each other, the sex will naturally come and you will do it not simply for your bodies or your experience but because you love each other. It's the same reason a man will stay with a woman those eggs are infertile. They don't go well you can't have my children so I'm leaving, they compromise and try to work it out. You have sex because you love each, not because you have great sex, you love each other. You are sharing with each other and enjoying being with each other. It's not always easy and sometimes requires patience but I think it's love that drives the sexual experience

Most Helpful Girl

  • Nah. My husband and I have been together for 20 years and we still try new things and things that haven’t always worked.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • become a good teacher

  • I want to try everything, even if it's all again. Because a new person i want to see what she likes and doesn't. No way you can know if you dont trial it first.

  • I've had lots of fun. If she wanted to experiment I'd be all for it.
    Education is key...😉

  • Any decent partner is going to want to do the things you want to do as well as the things he likes. If he's only interested in his own pleasure, get a guy that wants to please you too.

  • I’ll do about anything and have had gfs that are the same. Not much I have not done at this point. If I was with a girl that was not very experienced I’d do whatever she wanted. I’m a pervert so bring it on.

  • Depends on what it is

  • You should date a gymnast!

  • I can be patient and accommodating.

  • I'd love the opportunity to teach an inexperienced partner.

  • not very

  • One of the things I love most about sleeping with a new partner is experimenting with her. Trying new positions and places.. because I want to find out what she likes and doesn’t, and what makes her happy and sexually satisfied.

    while I’ve certainly done almost everything there is, I want to experience that with my new partner as well.. I want her to be satisfied. That’s always my goal!