I'd break up with him. Why let him disrespect me like that? I have to really question if he truly loves me if some "hot chick" can easily make him be unfaithful. The world is full of "hot chicks" and I shouldn't have to be paranoid about him not controlling himself. I'm his gf not his mother, I shouldn't be worrying about the random girls he's with.
"The other chicks was really hot and he couldn't say no". That's a lame and pathetic excuse. Seriously. I think all excuses are lame and pathetic, but that one is so fucking dumb.
"Let's not forget you will be throwing away a great relationship of 9 months. He loves you very much and is a good boyfriend."
LOL This is hilarious. A "great relationship" doesn't consist of my bf cheating on me with a "hot chick cuz he couldn't say no."
Loving me very much? You don't express love with infidelity and lack of self control.
Good boyfriend? A good bf/gf DOES NOT cheat.
You are either delusional, or have very low standards when it comes to relationships.
Would you be ok with your girl getting fingered or giving some guy a handjob cuz "the guy was sooo hot" and she couldn't resist?
Then he's a piece of shit. There's no excuse for cheating, and there never will be, it doesn't matter how "insanely hot" the other girl was, or even if you were piss pot drunk, you still know you have a girlfriend and you brush that off your shoulder to get pleasured by another woman. I'd dump him so fast and I'd probably punch him, too. See how he likes that form of touch.
I don't give a fuck if he got a handjob from Angelina Jolie, I'd still dump him.
"ladies, lets not forget you will be throwing away a great relationship of 9 months. He loves you very much and is a good boyfriend."
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That's what you do with trash, you throw it away.
I'm so sick of all this bullshit about men being unable to control themselves. You always have a choice. The fact that you made the wrong one is on you. Actually no it's also going to wreck the woman who was supposed to be able to trust you. But hey you got your dick sucked so who cares about basic human empathy, dedication, and foresight huh?
This is why you're awesome ^^^^^
@buchitabuchys thank you very much :)
There is no question here. He did it once so he can do it again. Do not give him that chance. 9 months, 2 years, 10 years makes no difference, do it once and you can do it again, it's as simple as that.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I think you answered your own question in your update. You are not willing to throw away the relationship and it sounds like you are willing to forgive him.
If he couldn't resist temptation once, he's going to fail to resist a lot of other temptations in the future. Especially after you let him get away with it.
If he really loved me then he'd be coming to me for handjobs (which is just a shitty replacement for masturbation since you could probably do it better yourself).
I would break up with him, and wouldn't even look back especially if he said "other chick was really hot, I couldn't say no to her".
He loves you. why would you throw away an amazing long relationship?
Cheating is cheating it's uncalled for. Keep it in your damn pants. If you valued your gf at all you would have said no. There's always a way out. Fucking sleezey assholes who try to justify the fact they want to have have their gfs cake and eat another girls too. Can't stand cheating. If you really loved her you wouldn't have done it. Bottom fucking line.
If he's out there getting off with other girls that is not an amazing relationship, and that 9 months was just a waste. I agree with @DiggerForTeal
The fact that it is only nine months in, your attitude about it and that it wasn't even for any apparent reason other than it was offered would make it a firm no, I would not forgive you.
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