If your girlfriend said she can makeout, hug, bj, let you eat her pussy etc but says no to intercourse because she wants to stay pure, is she bullshi?

i get it, just because a person is okay with kissing doesn't necessarily have to mean they're prepared for intercourse and that's okay. everyone should take their time.

but here im talking about people who wanna do sexual stuff and still want the virgin tag. some even refer to themselves as semi virgins, which in my opinion doesn't exist. what irks me is this is how they save themselves up for marriage... by denial.

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I see that kind of denial as a personal dealbreaker. A few months back, I was ready to date a s1ut, being virgin myself (nvm this). I can respect these "semi virgins", but I also call BS! Xx
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  • That sounds like complete BS to me lol but I would respect her wishes. I might leave her eventually, but I wouldn't force her to do anything she didn't want to do.

  • I could live with it if oral - giving and receiving- were on the menu

  • I'm borderline hot. If you do that, you won't be able to sleep.

  • Yeah, it's BS. Lifelong lesbians are virgins by that logic.

    • Exactly!

  • There's a lot of women that have had Oral sex but not intercourse. Technically they are still virgins. If they have not been penetrated vaginally or anally they are still a Virgin

  • Those people are a joke.

  • A lot of girls say this but they end up giving in to sex after awhile.

  • I had multiple girlfriends that was like that and they always said they was waiting for marriage but willing to do other sexual feelings to relieve sexual frustration they had and I had.

  • BS and pure denial. Wait until your sex hormones kick into high gear.

  • Sounds odd

  • No, of course not! Many women want no offsprings.

  • Yes, it's bullshit.

  • I say cool, still get to enjoy oral and be close and cuddly and kissy with each other so it's still a win so I'm in

  • If she gives you a BJ, eat her, but no sex, it can be frustrating for some guys but for guys who enjoy masturbating this should be enough to make you satisfied🙂

  • yes she is

  • That's a rule just for that one guy, guaranteed she's letting some other guy blow her back out.

  • BJ and pussy eating would be impure. Outside of marriage; of course.

  • After eating you, I would need to cum sooo bad. W outdoor you jerk me off so I could cum?

  • As long as she allowed anal I would be fine with that!

  • No. It doesn't matter if you think it's hypocritical or not, if she is happy with doing all of that except intercourse and it gives her peace of mind, I think it's fine. Problem is, most women who want to stay "virgin" until marriage are not even open to go beyond kissing and light petring

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