If your husband goes to a prostitute for one day, do wives and girlfriends see that as cheating?

In some cultures prostitute isn’t seen as cheating , mostly in Japan and Spain.

because couples who build their relationship from love don’t see it cheating.

but couples who build their relationship from sex see this as cheating.

that’s my guess

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  • All depends on the relationship. When I 1st met my boyfriend I said that if he slept with another woman I would be ok with it as long as he told me. That was because we based our relationship on sex. Now I'm deeply in love with him so even flirting with another woman pisses me off

    • Exactly what I was asking for Thanks

    • No problem. For me love and sex are very different things. I don't have sex because I love them and I don't love them just because I has sex with them. I'm madly in love with my boyfriend but we've never made love in that sense... its just good animalistic fucking haha

    • Totally agree with you. Same is with me

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  • I think it is cheating, but I have seen situations when a wife allowed her husband a hall pass where certain rules were followed. In some cultures, there are sexual acts we see as main stream are considered by some husbands as degrading and beneath their wives; oral sex and anal intercourse being two. I might consider paying for and asking for a pass on the occasional off-limits-at-home prostate fingering blowjob with no accompanying social relationship, even just once a month. But if she decided she was willing, I'd stay home. I don't justify this morally, but I understand it.

  • Been to an Escort twice, once for sex, and could not 'get it up" with her and once for a 'life counselling visit. If she did not cost so much, I would see her more often.

    Not cheating from my POV, but I never told anyone except my cousin, and she has been fucking for years, outside of her marriage, so how could she admonish me?

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  • Well depending the relationship. If it is because the partner can't do certain things because of health or trauma, I can understand. But if your wife is open minded and like to please you, then no.

    • Exactly

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  • My relationship with my wife was built on love and going to any other woman for sex would definitely be cheating.

  • I don't know were you got that information about Spain.

    But I'm sure in Spain that's considered cheating.

  • Of course, cheating means having sex with anyone other than your spouse.

  • It’s cheating.

  • In my religion it’s considered cheating. So even if the countries law says its ok, its still not allowed for me.

  • Having sex with another woman is the epitome of cheating to me.

  • Some cultures, and some eo en, just view it as sex... not cheating... because there's no emotional involvement. Most women in western cultures would view having sex with a prostitute as cheating... emotional involvement or not.

    Some women might actually encourage it... because a prostitute is willing to do things that they are not.

  • It depends on what kind of relationship you have. If you are both okay with it is okay. If not then it is cheating.

  • Well, we're not japanese nor Spanish so that would obviously be an issue. He better pack his bags and go there's no way I'm allowing my husband to ever touch me again after having sex with another woman regardless if she's a prostitute or not.

  • I would! What difference does her profession make? He still fucked another girl! That's cheating!

  • It's just as much about the risk of contracting an STD and transmitting it to your partner - it's a selfish risk to take, but if both partners consent, it would be ok.

  • Probably. It's on the line. If he was honest about it then I'd let it go.

  • I think it is a shallow and empty verson of marriage if you don't see this as cheating.

  • Yes my girlfriend would

  • Cheaters never run out of excuses to continue cheating.

  • If someone honest about it with wife or girlfriend and she allows you then absolutely okay.

    Regarding about me I don't require anymore, when my girlfriend on business trip then I sleep with her female friend, and some occasions her mom entertained me, her live together.

    My girlfriend know all about it.

  • I'm not sure your assumptions about those specific cultures are accurate, especially the Japanese. In some cultures, the women have no choice BUT to accept it, and their opinion or feelings on the matter are given to them regardless of what they actually think.

    Nor do I think your guess about love vs sex is particularly accurate either. I agree with Samantha that everything depends on the individual relationship and the people in it.

  • What a wild guess you have 🤣
    Ofc it's cheating, any relation outside the marriage is cheating, he does have his wife, why does he needs a prostitute? I'm sure that a lot of guys in here will pamper you for such opinion but not me...

    • saw a youtube video where they ask stranger girls this and most say they don't see it cheating in Japan

    • I knew some japenese girls online and they have never said such things to me and if what you watched is true than good for them, let their men have sex with dozens of women than return and say i love only you 🤣🤣 Personally i believe that when you love someone for real that you're only are dedicated to her/him, sexually and emotionally...

  • Yes, it's cheating on most cultures.

  • Why the hell would you go to a prostitute when you have a wife or girlfriend?

    • Sounds like a recipe for relationship disaster

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