If your sex life in the beginning was wild, and nonstop, then 12 years later and we share no sex life? Why?

I can sit here and count how many times I've given him oral thismonth, yet I haven't climaxed in roughly 2 years. I'm beginning to lose touch of how good that feels, then when he does get horny he's choosing to watch porn alone while I'm here, are we past trying to work out the issues? If my needs aren't important to him and I've gone 2 years without orgasm. Do i really need a second opinion, are his actions talkimg we very seldom and I mean once in a blue moon have intercourse. I just need to hear a different perspective of what you guys think. Is he going elsewhere for sex? Or doing wrong & hiding shit behind my back?
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  • I mean after 12 years it's not surprising that the sex life diminishes but from what you're describing that sounds extreme. Why he chooses to watch pornography over having sex with you I've no idea, although it's by no means the first time I've heard this on here and definitely won't be the last time I'm either. Have you actually talked to him about it and asked him to have sex with you more often?
    It does seem to be a common trait that some guys would rather get off to all graphie and their partner, I don't understand this personally. Masturbation is one thing that is fine as a supplement to a sex life but as a replacement is unhealthy in my view. There is also an increasing problem of particularly men who over indulge in porn with masturbation and ruin their pleasure centres in the brain for real world sexual encounters, they basically can't get aroused enough to have sex with a real woman.
    I think now is the time you need to sit down and have a serious conversation with him about your needs, and what is actually going on with him and see if you can come to some compromise.

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  • The fact that he is watching porn is destroying your sexual relationship with each other , you need To have a serious talk with him and tell him that your needs are not being met and that you 2 need to spice things up , and be honest that you are not getting the Big O , I was in a marriage that became sexless and It’s the worst thing to go through , I got real moody and cranky when she started pushing me away and making me feel like I was the only giver without receiving , my mind raced with thoughts of leaving her and meeting someone else , thinking she was cheating on me or planning to cheat on me that she was no longer attracted to me and was just keeping me around for money and a place to live until she was ready to make her move , But I stood by her side and stayed faithful hoping that this could be fixed , but it just got worse and worse she eventually cheated on me , So my trust for women kind of went down the drain , but it has taught me to value myself more and the realize that I have feelings as well , so in your situation you are best to try to fix your marriage before making the selfish move of cheating , after you have your talk with him and things don’t start to change. Then value yourself and realize you deserve better than that , it’s going to take work and patience but it’s better to fix your marriage instead of adding more fire to it by screwing someone else

Most Helpful Girl

  • Maybe he’s not as sexually attracted as he used to be, maybe he’s addicted to porn, maybe he’s with someone else.
    There’s a list of possibilities but you need to talk to him about this and tell him that something needs to change.

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  • There are a lot of reasons sexless marriages happen. I was in one for some time and it's painful.
    Cheating isn't always the reason for it. Have you talked to him and urged him to see a doctor?
    It's unconventional, but you might also ask him about opening up the marriage. That is an uncomfortable conversation, but you may be surprised with the results. At the very least, it might let him know how serious you are about the neglect you feel.

  • may be getting somewhere or got bored of banging u.. u can dm me to discuss more

    • u can follow me and i can dm u too

  • You both got bored and you need to spice things up.

  • same tool and boring life.

  • Oh hunny no ones cares if you cum or not.

    • Well nothing gets past you lmao

    • How long does it take woman to orgasim? who cares... lol

  • Leave him