If your significant other/spouse wanted to invite the neighbors over to watch, how would you react?
DizzyDesiiEditor
Notice i said WATCH not join in lol. But yea how would you react? Be excited, mad, jealous, etc? Or is this something y'all have done before (if not more)?
I was serious when I said that someday when I marry, I want to invite over some seemingly trustworthy neighbors to watch us have sex. I dont care if they sit and stare or masturbate themselves or eachother to us, but all eyes gotta be on us. Them mfs can't steal the spotlight UNTIL its their turn. When they go up to start fcking, my dude and I would only touch eachother. Now I admit, this is nervewrecking because although I like live porn, I don’t want this to lead to insecurity, jealous, an affair or swinging or some shit, because I’m not cool with that. Maybe I should do this before marrying 🤣 Or maybe i should save it for if the sex ever gets dull in the marriage. Yeaaaa my occasionally voyeuristic/exhibitionist tendencies are tingling lmao. #FeelFreeToList
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When i say neighbors, it doesn't actually have to be the house next door lmao. It can be anyone in the area that you trust enough and know enough. But just not friends or family. Some of everyone in my neighborhood used to get buckwild back in the day, but we dont still talk about it lol. We dont even speak daily lol. My first boyfriend and i got caught by most. Shit my moms boyfriend caught us fckin up some new construction homes but no one ever believed him 🤣 I had an innocent look
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Ok i shouldve specificed if you had some random new hot neighbors (a male and female coupling) that you got to know and began to trust. This wasn't supposed to be an all the time thing. Maybe 2-3 times a year. If you have performance anxiety then just dont do it. But i wanted it to be like watching a live porn/art exhibit. You’re watching and learning knew ways to touch and turn on your partner. You still want to be eachothers focus but also pay attention to what you’re being taught. Not cheatin
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Gummy_ClusterXper 6
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Dizzy, I like your question, but I read all the responses, and it reminds me of how much I wish this site would allow you to delete your questions, like other sites do. And again, this is an awesome question, but sometimes I wish I could just delete most of mine. There's so much negativity on the site.
OK... I know a lady who went with her hubby to a live sex show. She said it was really hot. And now her fantasy is to be the person being watched. It's just a fantasy, but nevertheless, it's her biggest fantasy. But I don't think it's a good idea to do it at your home. It would be exciting until you're getting God knows who knocking on your door every night. But you can probably go on line and find plenty of couples that would watch, but take it to their house or a motel.
So my direct answer is that it sounds hot, but I would want the other couple to be doing the same thing. I think it would just be less pressure.
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DizzyDesii
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The negativity doesn't bother me. I’m gonna keep fckin for the audience that i do get 🤣 I was thinking the same that maybe it won't be as safe to do it at home. I guess we need a “seasonal” cabin or vacation home for that haha. And the other couple will be doing the same but in turns. I dont want them screwing the same time as us lol
21Cowboy21
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That is a fair response. Unless its close friends you trust and know anyway - a third party location such as a nice hotel or cottage weekend would be best.
DizzyDesii
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@21Cowboy21 definitely not with friends. Thats awkward
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Gummy_Cluster
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I talked to a woman that is separated from her husband, and she just brings guys to an apple orchard. It only works well on sunny days, but it's her only option. But if you can afford a vacation home, great. But I think a used RV would be better. Just have the other couple meet you at the Walmart with all the other RVs. lol
DizzyDesii
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I want the moment to feel nice and intimate. An RV or walmart? Lmao no. I’d be fine with a cabin, hotel or vacation rental. I want to Set the mood right
I agree if it got awkward you wouldn't want it to people you wouldn't care about parting ways with and moving on to another person with
DizzyDesii
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@21Cowboy21 not just that but i have no interest in seeing my friends or them seeing me. Same with fam
21Cowboy21
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I think its hotter with people you know less too - as I would assume it could lead to more unpredictability if you don't know what the other people are into while watching. I usually like to be the one to be watched with a girl myself. But sometimes seeing someone through a window across the street can be hot if it happens.
DizzyDesii
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@21Cowboy21 i wouldn't want to watch someone without consent. Thats why i orefer inviting them over
ariadneRGuru
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Yep. I'm nasty like that
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DizzyDesii
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Hell yea!!
bananathunder
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fuck yeah!
DizzyDesii
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*noting you both down for future invites* 🤣
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bananathunder
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hahaha 100%
ariadneR
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We got ya!
dinojames22
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Lucky neighbors
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Wish4UrB00tyExplorer
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I’m not that in to having people watch me that I would want to invite anyone over but I could get in to messing with the neighbors and fucking in front of them in the back yard. Like while they might be able to see but in a way that it doesn’t look like we are trying to get them to watch. I could also see doing an airBnB for a few nights that is almost swinger but everyone stays with their own partner. Like rooms are available and there is a workout space, a sauna or hot tub and a big back yard. Tons of space to mess around and people can enjoy the views or they can get inspired and have their own fun. But NO one mingles…
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DizzyDesii
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That makes sense
Wish4UrB00ty
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Does it? Lol! Like I think being watched could be supper hot and I would have LOVED some live porn party like you used to do. But I don’t know how much I could actually do the fun.
JerreMaster
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I certainly would not mind them watching me fuck. I suspect they would either be masturbating or playing with each other. I’m proud of my cock and the ability to make a girl cum many times. I would try my best to make my girl cum as hard as possible, pull out when I cum so the neighbors could see how much cum shots out.
"Sorry, but I'm going to have to end things between us. It's over."
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DizzyDesii
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This is fully understandable and the expected answer
21Cowboy21Xper 5
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That sounds spicy - but I would caution you to only invite over non-neighbors who you don't live next time long term in case for any one or more of the 4 of you someone gets jealous or start acting weird if they can't handle it.
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DizzyDesii
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I get it but its not that hard ignoring neighbors. I've been doing it for years and I've been caught by many 🤣
21Cowboy21
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I've been with friends that turned into hookups at an airbnb or two whens both on of my friends and I were single last year, abd a time or two prior with other people. I would not mind personally if someone was to see me piping a girl but would be concerned if anything escalated and was good for a bit - in case one of the people got jealous later on. Do you find this would be a problem or has never been so far? I have not had friends in the same room during sex before watching. Just a roommate and his girlfriend but they were doing their own thing in the dorm.
21Cowboy21
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As for a neighbor seeing us through a window I dont imagine would ever be an issue. They can watch if they want or not. Not my concern.
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DizzyDesii
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Friends is crossing a boundary for me
VikkrramYoda
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I would just shout and tell that it's a big big no. Don't ever try to do that.
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DizzyDesii
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Okay
PBandJ_NerdGuru
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For future SO, it would depend on what we're doing. If it includes sex while they're watching, then the answer would be no.
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DizzyDesii
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Thats the only thing im referring to lmao
PBandJ_Nerd
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Then it's still no in that case. lol If it was sexual activity that didn't have to include sex, it'd be a different answer.
RobT312Guru
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I think years ago I would have freaked out. But I have opened up to nudity, exhibitionism in the sense that I’m more comfortable with it. Sure, I’d let it happen. I’d be surprised with the request but if that’s what she wanted I’d go for it
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DizzyDesii
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Hot damn
ushagomezMaster
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I would be worried for them as our neighbours are very elderly and frail and have heart conditions.
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DizzyDesii
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Lmao im saying if you had some hot neighbors or something
Apple1996Master
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Nah the neighbors already overhear that shit. They don't gotta watch it to
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DizzyDesii
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It would be a peace offering 🤣
SnowedInMaster
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I'd let her. What she wants...
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DizzyDesii
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Oooo
SnowedIn
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lmao... you didn't expect that, did you?
DizzyDesii
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I actually did lol
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SnowedIn
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Even better! 🙂
Paul_in_IndyYoda
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Not the neighbors. I can handle some strangers, but the neighbors sound frightening.
Besides: I am a country boy with a big family. I want the neighbors to be relatives.
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DizzyDesii
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What makes the neighbors scary? Because it would likely happen again lol
Paul_in_Indy
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I have to see the neighbors all the time. I don’t want to worry about what they are thinking when thy look at me. “Him? He lives down the road. We call him ‘Mr. I usually last longer when I don’t have an audience.’”
Paul_in_Indy
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Now, if you wanted to “accidentally” show off for the neighbors, that would be hot! I would gladly ensure that we were overheard or glimpsed through the window, of observed in the back yard. That’s different (inside my twisted mind).
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Paul_in_Indy
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And, of course, if the neighbors need to buy a closet rod at Lowes, they are likely to see us in a compromising situation.
DizzyDesii
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I spent some of my days in high school accidentally showing off. My days after college were just not giving a fck. I want to stick to that lol
ShadezMcgeeGuru
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I would be fucking pissed. Our sex life is our sex life, not a goddamn show for someone else's entertainment. It is a massive boner killer.
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DizzyDesii
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Lmao this was expected
ShadezMcgee
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I would say get that out of your system or find a guy who is into exhibitionism if you want to do that. Because you are already hinting it will be recurring and frequent to get you off. Why do you feel the need to have sex in front of people? Is sex really that dull you need to spice it up to that extreme?
DizzyDesii
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Its not something i want more than 2-3 times a years. The first few times i was pressured to have sex, it was a chore. Once i finally started enjoying it, i found out we were getting caught, spied on etc. Things were being said around the high school and i felt ashamed. But afterwhile i learned to embrace it. Because the people talkin shit were actually doing worse stuff like gangbangs and getting the train run on them. I was happy that i was at least with the same one person. So i got that “yea i did it” Mentality. With the other boyfriend that i had sex with years later, he just didn't care if people were near. He didn't care so i didn't care. So yes everyone i date, even those who didn't make it to the point of sex, are into the same exhibitionist/voyeuristic shit as me. I have a type. It has nothing to do with sex being dull. I just love when a guy has the guts to risk it All and give a fck without giving a fck
Finchie40Master
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Yea not my thing sorry but she isn’t the girl for me
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DizzyDesii
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Totally understandable
MsputitonGuru
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I had to read deep into this to know what you were talking about.
Tbh. That would definitely cause a big fight if my partner ever asked that of me.
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DizzyDesii
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Yea i think a lot of people would fight and breakup lol
Msputiton
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Yeah. I'm very very private about my sex life. I just feel like if we include others in it, we lose something special about it. The intimacy shared between 2 people, and nobody else makes it feel special to me. If me or my partner share details of any kind about it. I would feel betrayed, or like they stole what made it special.
DizzyDesii
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For me its just something to up the ante on occasion. I wouldn't need it all the time but at least 2-3 times a year
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Msputiton
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Yup, and i respect that. We all see things differently. It's what makes life beautiful our differences, and getting to learn about them
Agape93Master
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Not happening. Few things kill the mood than a man who's old, fat, has a mutual dislike of me and is almost attached to an oxygen tank.
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AviatorTomMaster
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I'd be fine with that. I guess I'm an exhibitionist at heart, and it would be nice to realize that she is too.
But knowing my SO... she would never suggest that... too shy.
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DizzyDesii
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I think its a comfort zone thing. My rules would be pretty strict and i have to feel like we’re the only ones in the room. If they talk or cheer or distract me then i’d get shy and tense up. But if they’re somewhat quiet and all i hear is them moaning and heavy breathing to us, i can get with that
DJB72Guru
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That's a hard "no"...
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DizzyDesii
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Haaaard
RavVidGuru
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Have never thought about this as I don't like sharing and swinging. Now I should like this concept as I really get off on public sex but would I invite the neighbors to watch?
Hell yeah! I think it might be better if both couples are doing it at the same time. I have got this fantasy now of couples on either side of an island kitchen bench. I would want to incorporate my clothed sex fetish into this.
The neighbors can't be fat though.
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DizzyDesii
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Im not into sharing pr swinging either. I just dont care if people see
RavVid
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Do you like people seeing though?
DizzyDesii
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Of course. Do you never read my paragraphs in my questions lmao
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RavVid
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Sure do. "I don't care..." seemed a little counter is all.
DizzyDesii
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Thats not the paragraph im referring to. Im talking about what i write in bold at the top of all my questions. I always spill the deets
mstboobloverExplorer
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How to answer that question with certainty? Well, although I'm rather into more private sessions with a partner, maybe, depending first of all on the meant neighbours and the circumstances, I would accept if that's what my spouse or partner wanted to try. May even be exciting if those neighbours were ladies, and had during the session the urge to indulge into solos or fun with each other. Many configurations are possible.
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sheikalanaMaster
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I would say you must have lost your mind.
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DizzyDesii
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Lmao
talka20Yoda
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Its a straight no
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PinksparkXper 4
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I could never have sex with someone watching me
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DizzyDesii
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Understandable
Pinkspark
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I have enough trouble with the person I'm having sex with seeing me 🤣
DizzyDesii
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Haha yea it takes getting past that. Took me a while but i was kinda forced to get over it
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