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If your SO wasn't willing to have sex till after graduating from college would you be willing to wait 2 years?

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  • I actually was okay, with a non-sexual relationship with my ex during college, no promise or deal of waiting a certain time or stuff like that, she told me that she was just not comfortable yet, and was not considering it in the near future, no pressure wanted either.

    I said to her that I was alright with that, and that we didn't have to go that way, it didn't have to be a problem for me, and it wasn't... but then that lasted two months, when shehad a change of heart and changed her mind about it, better said she reconsidered things about it and with me, so... I can only say that yes I'd have "waited"a year or two" I am just not sure how easy or difficult would have been, two months was nothing, it is nothing really... but the feelings got very deeply, very close and involved, so that's what would have been "difficult" not giving it all to one another when we really felt we wanted to, wanted it in every way we could experience it, and it ended happening way sooner than later.

    • That's a sweet that you was willing to wait.

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  • You mean as in penetration well they were definitely some kind of getting each other off let's play pretend for a second that you're the girl on the guy you tell me this did I tell you can we try this it's no penetration where I would roll over my body hit you up on my hips get you fat just right pull your hips forward sliding back pull your hips forward slide in bed until each side of your pussy straddles my cock it's no penetration but it's still being each other up in a roundabout way and it's just for play and with any thing else you decide to do as long as there's no penetration right

Most Helpful Girls

  • Sure I have other options until then. And yes she is aware of this and has agreed to it already lol

    • Oh, frfr. Good to know

  • Here's another scenerio but similar if he was deployed would you remain faithful?

    • Yes I would. It's more about this is what I want and feel like it isn't something someone would be willing to wait.

    • The mind may trick you, but the heart don't lie 💞🥀

    • True.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • If I really liked them and we just really vibed than I would wait. Besides there's other sexual things you can do besides actual penetrative sex.

  • Sure, easy np.

    I still get affection though, right?

  • I don't know. Maybe if we really clicked and connected like crazy like potential future wife there.

  • No. I'd still love my SO, and I'd still want to be with her after that 2 year mark, but I would not wait. No point. You'll know when you're ready to have sex, so to put an artificial date on it, would be pointless. Plus the guy will still want to have sex, so he'll go find a girl who is willing. He is likely to cheat on the SO and pretend like nothing ever happened. Sad to say it, but those young guys have needs, and if they're not having sex with you, they're likely to go find someone else to have sex with. Don't set yourself up for that.

  • I wouldn't go without sex for two years. I'd date other girls in the meantime.

  • I'd love to hear the explanation for why it's wrong while my SO is in college but okay after she graduates.

    • askin why I'm not willing to?

  • No I would call the relationship over then.

    Trust is great but that’s a big amount of temptation.

    to me it’s better to break up than cheat, which is likely to happen.

  • Perhaps at age 19 I would've, maybe. Problem is I do think it makes it a lot harder to be faithful. At that age I had a lot of attention. There would be no promises that I wouldn't give in.

    Now that I am older, I wouldn't be willing to wait. Married, kids, etc. It's no longer as 'treasured' as before. U like each other, you bang.

  • No. I'm not a virgin nor am I looking to play sex withholding games. Shows immaturity.

  • I guess it depends on how close we were in a relationship and if we would be seeing each other while in college.

  • Nah definitely not. I had sex with my husband about a month into dating and that seemed long to me. Waiting 2 years would be crazy

  • I did.

    I would not do that again.

    Do you know why?

    You wait 2 fucking... excuse me... NON-FUCKING years for her and then she dumps you, so you've lost 2 years of otherwise healthy sexual activity all for a girl who ultimately didn't give a shit about you.

    So, no, I would not do that again.
    Fuck that.

  • I'd just be thrilled to have a SO that was young enough to be in college.

    • Lmao

  • That logic doesn't compute so I wouldn't see the reason to wait for that.

  • No, why would I want to do that? What's her reasoning? If it's some religious thing, count me out. I don't date believers.

    • What religion do you know that believes you must wait till you graduate college? Believers of the holy college diploma? In college on a basketball scholarship kinda hard to play basketball pregnant.

    • That's understandable, but that's your choice, not mine. Besides there is technology that is pretty effective in preventing unwanted pregnancy, and other technology in case the first line of defense fails.

    • I know all the ways to try to prevent pregnancy Of course it's my choice not yours, that is very obvious. I'm not trying to date you, or force you to be okay with what I choose to do. It's just a simple question I was wondering how people felt. If it was directed at you. I would put your name in the question.

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  • sure

  • Fucking no lmao. What kind of agreement is that?

  • If we could have mutual oral/69, I could wait even longer.

    • It's mostly like no sex as in penis in vagina. Rest is aiigt, except anal. Anal is never on the table.

  • Did the mental hospital test too many drugs on you today?

  • I guess but that doesn't make any sense.

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