II don't know were my G spot is And I never feel pleasure when I finger myself help?

I try to fingering myself but I feel nothings.
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  • hi there, i have a few questions for you.
    are you new to masturbation? have you managed to orgasm by touching yourself or are you just getting into it? let’s just assume that you’ve been masturbating frequently - probably through clitoral stimulation and are trying to explore vaginal and g-spot orgasms. your g-spot is located between your vaginal opening and your cervix. it’s located on the inner front wall and you can try to stimulate it by inserting two fingers and doing a “come hither” motion. penetration won’t feel pleasurable for you if you’re not in the mood, just like how it doesn’t feel good when you insert tampons.
    if you haven’t been able to orgasm from penetration, don’t worry so much.
    start off by touching and exploring your body. give yourself a generous amount of time and don’t feel pressured to have an orgasm. think about it this way: you can always finish yourself off later if you decide that it still doesn’t feel good for you. many people who are solely focused on the end goal (orgasm), have trouble climaxing because they’re more worried about not being able to orgasm than actually enjoying every sensation. it’s my suggestion that you start with your usual masturbation routine - if you’re used to clitoral stimulation, start off with that and bring yourself close to orgasm.
    don’t push yourself over the edge. if you wish, you may edge a couple of times first before venturing off to penetration. since your mind and body is now in the right headspace, you can try inserting your fingers into your vaginal opening. if you must, be generous with lube and start slow. don’t be aggressive, just think about every sensation that you’re experiencing as it goes deeper in.
    though i must say that the majority of women find it difficult to orgasm from penetration alone. i definitely recommend you to get sex toys that are meant for the sole purpose of female pleasure. try a g-spot stimulator or a vibrator. if you’re more of a dildo kinda person then go for it as well. sex toys feel great and aren’t a bad alternative to sex.
    they’re made of body-safe materials and are designed to give you maximum pleasure.
    i strongly recommend putting a timer, say 40minutes to focus solely on penetration so you won’t be rushed and “pressured” into thinking that a vaginal stimulation isn’t for you. of course, if after that time you still don’t feel good, then feel free to go back to your old way of masturbating!
    if you’re with a partner, i highly recommend you to explore this with him. having someone finger you can feel way better than fingering yourself. i heard from an expert that some girls can’t orgasm from fingering themselves but can orgasm from someone else fingering them because the act of having to penetrate themselves distract them from enjoying it.

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  • You should be able to find it.
    1. Palm cupping your pubic bone.
    2. Slide 1 or (preferably) two fingers into your vagina side by side curled above your cervix.
    3. Lay them on the inner edge of your pubic bone.
    4. Your G-spot should feel softer than what's around and may have a rougher texture.
    5. Pressing and massaging there should give you a pleasant feeling and also a need-to-pee feeling.
    6. With two fingers in your vagina, your thumb should reach up to your clitoris. Massaging both together in rhythm should be good for you. That's how the best fingering is done.

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  • Not everyone can enjoy masturbation.

    If your determined grab a hand mirror and sit down and watch as you touch. See what feels good and where it is. If you find enough spots and learn what your body wants it may work out.

    Most girls I know just use vibrators and can't finish manually solo.

  • Feel nothing? Like numbness? Maybe u have to see doctor for that.

  • Well if you get a few minutes send me a private message I'll explain to you where it is and how you catch it to get the maximum pleasure but every little touch

  • If fingers do not work consider a dildo or vib sometimes one needs some additional help.

  • Are u turned on or horny when u do it lol

  • well best way to help is to actually help

  • If you can, stick your finger in a few inches and then move it as if you're motioning for someone to come here. It's usually up top, just inside, behind your clit.

  • Late underneath your water faucet in your bathtub problem solved

  • Have you ever bought a book to show you wear to look or a video like finding your g spot

  • try buying a vibrator that you like, that should help :)

  • Google will have plenty of proper guides by sex experts try them rather than random on here that are probably guys pretending to be girls

  • You need more practice and you can find
    by the way you can feel pleasure without finding your G spot

  • Get a guy to help

  • Pm me i teach you

  • You should be turned on while masturbating... Your G-spot is near to the clitoris...

  • do with some skilful guy, he would find it out!

  • It should be opposite your clitoris; or there abouts. As the g-spot is found on the ventral wall of the vagina approximately 1 inch in.

  • Asking for help here to find it? It would be easier to find it if ur partner helps. There is also many pages on the net also to know about it.