Ik this is a gross question, but men, why do some guys get really happy to see if a girl is bigger down there?

When some guy said it to me, I was completely taken back. I had never compared myself to another girl in that way. And then this guy said, "yess, it's big". To me. I had never been so mortified. I don't know if that's a good thing, or why it would be. Especially considering its advertised all over porn sites and all, for girls to be smaller down there. Can someone please explain it to me why he would be so happy about it?
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  • People like different things! I can see the appeal of big lips, and why some people can get excited about it. But also maybe he was just excited to see you naked and wanted to mention one thing that he likes. Just never take porn as a standard, it’s not a standard for anyone in the real world.

    • Thank you so much. And for sure, people do have different preferences. But after he said it, I became insecure about it for some reason? Especially because of how many girls want theirs to be small. And I just feel like the outer lips look pretty big compared to girls on social media or porn. And I generally hate comparing myself, but it's just a new insecurity. But I just would've never thought a guy would like a bigger one

    • Your insecurity will disappear as you get used to the notion that all vulvas look different and big lips, asymmetrical lips, and so on are the norm. And not only they are extremely common, they are pretty and if you look around you will always find someone who has a thing for your specific type. I mean, you don’t need to find a guy who has a specific fetish for your type, but believe me that people have all kind of things and preferences. Feel free to compare, but don’t compare so much with porn. Porn is made to be easy to shoot, not to be beautiful.

Most Helpful Guy

  • All Vs are unique and beautiful. Larger lips mean there is more to lick and enjoy. A guy that's into you wouldn't care or compare you to other girls.

    • Thank you!!

    • 😀😀😀

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yes, we call it a fat poom poom. I have one too. I think flat small poom pooms are less appealing. I'm glad mine is fat and tight.

  • Some men find large labia attractive. Most men agree that all vaginas are sexy.

    • Yes they are

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  • Personal preference?

  • I have absolutly no idea what is being referred to... The clitoris?

    • Sorry, I didn't refer it properly. The lips. Some girls have it tinier, but like aren't. And for some reason, he was happy about it?

    • If he said "yess, it's big" it's obvious he was hoping for it wich in this case can only be positive. It may not be positive however if you're looking to partner up with somone else.

    • Yes that's true. I know people have different preferences, but I never really thought about a guy having a preference in a look of a girls down there. And ik that is weird, but I just never thought about it😂

  • I’m not sure if you’d talking about your inner labia but long labia is actually my preference they look amazing

    • Haha I mate the labia Majora. Just in general, they look kind of big. But maybe it's because I'm used to everything being small on the media

    • *meant

    • Ah well I’m sure it’s very visually appealing. Sounds like you’ve had positive feedback about it

  • Don't judge anything against what you see in porn. Some guys like things nice and dainty down there and others like a little more stuff to play with.

  • In my opinion I only like girls who are smaller and tighter down there over those who are big and loose

    • Well you're wrong there. My labia is bigger, but my muscles are so right that sex would be difficult for a while. Soo... But having a preference is fine, but don't get mixed up with a bigger labia meaning looser, or a smaller labia being tighter. I've known lots of girls who have a smaller labia, but were "looser". Also just one more thing, being tight can be a bad thing. It can either mean the girl is not aroused enough or she may have a medical issue. However, it could be normal too. But I wanted to let you know as I've found quite a bit of guys didn't know this and thought it might be helpful to know about the female anatomy :)

    • Oh then I would like the inside of vagina 'not the labia' to be tight because I have a 3.5 inch pens and I can't be satisfied in a loose/hollow pussy.

    • Haha lol that's okay. Everyone has preferences. Just be aware that a girl who is tight might not be fully aroused or might be in pain (I am someone who experiences a lot of pain). However, most women won't be "too loose", but might just be extremely aroused. But then again, just like me, some women have medical issues that cause it. But yes, you are 100% allowed preferences and thank you for taking in what I said! Some people just ignore everything to argue 😂 also, thank you for your opinion!

  • you mean big lips?

    • Yeah

  • Not sure what you mean. Like a fat mound or large hanging labia

    • Haha I meant the lips just in general. But I guess mine aren't too big. Just not porn star small

  • What do you mean? Do mean it swelled when you were excited?

    • Haha no. It's just my normal size. For every girl, they are all different. But he was just so happy that it wasn't small. And I mean the lips😂 like we were sending nudes and then when he saw it, he said that.

    • If he said he likes it, then believe him. I was with a girl that when excited her lips got huge it it was hot.

    • Haha thank you. Yeah, I was a bit shocked when he said it and now for some reason, it's become an insecurity 🤦🏽‍♀️😂😂