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Im 19 and haven't had sex?

I'm probably hopefully going to be sexually active soon.. But my only experience with sex was when a guy stuck it in like 2 times and he got too nervous and got soft and i was def not helping. but most guys my age dont expect me to be a virgin. how do i approach this with someone who might just be a summer hookup? like i dont want to bleed everywhere and not have told him beforehand.. err
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well, if you still have your Hymen, you might bleed a bit... It shouldn't be too bad. If it makes you feel any better, I'm 21, and NEVER experienced ANYTHING Sexual with a Girl EVER.

  • You should tell the guy you're going to have sex with so he's not surprised.

    • like a non awkward way of doing this tho?

    • Say you have no experience being intimate with guys or just say you're a virgin. It's not a huge deal to guys how the information is imparted to him. Also you don't gush blood it's just a bit, probably less than the amount of bloody substance th ssf m would be there if you had period sex. Also why do you want to lose your virginity on a fling? Find a guy who loves you and give it to him. Your first time should be special. My girlfriend lost her virginity a fortnight before turning 33 (I k ni ow because it was with me). She isn't damaged by waiting that long.

    • i know, i definitely wouldn't have sex if i wasn't comfortable

Most Helpful Girl

  • You’re 19? Girlfriend, enjoy your young years without the complications of sex. I lost my virginity at 23.

    • I don't get why virginity is something everyone wants to lose or give away so quickly. I waited 6 months with my current girlfriend and we were 27.66 and 32.99 respectively. I am not saying people need to wait as long as we did, but it should be with someone you love who loves you. "To love is nothing, to be loved is something, to love and be loved by the once you love is everything". Only when you have everything s hi would you lose your virginity.

    • I didn’t really get a say with my virginity. If I did, I’d be older. It’s not something anyone should rush

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I suggest you find someone older that has experience.

  • You don’t mention it. Who cares. Just have sex when your ready and with a person you trust.

  • I'm 20 and still haven't, so what?

    • Also, if you had a dick inside you (which you said you did) then you're not a virgin

  • Hit on someone and have sex

  • You need to get laid

  • You're thinking too much. Just find a guy to fuck.

  • I'm going on 20 and still nothing, quite frankly wear it like a badge of honor because it is, it shows you aren't someone who will sleep around

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