Im 22 and still a virgin and I really wanna have sex but dont wanna regret it. Am I behind?

[Anonymous]

[Makeushiver]

Are you behind? It's not like you need to repeat a grade. If you're lucky to know a guy that you're sexually attracted to and he has a bit of experience then you might find someone who could gently take your virginity and show you some of the pleasures. That requires a fairly rare breed. I've always suggested to any girl who was concerned about losing their virginity to buy a vibrator, rabbits are usually good all purpose ones And if your hymen is still intact. taking that yourself in the privacy and cleanliness of your bedroom where you can have soft towels, clean running water. The actual membrane of the hymen's thickness varies from woman to woman at 25 you have likely at least partially torn your hymen esp if you are active, play sports or masturbated with a dildo or vibrator. A partially torn is usually less painful but those with thick, intact membranes can experience some pain as well as some bleeding. It will e more comfortable for you to take it yourself and allow everything to heal before being penetrated by a guy. If you do it with a vibrator find out as much as you can about your sexual response, where does it feel good to be touched, with how much pressure etc. Hopefully you find a guy who is as interested in getting you off as he is getting himself off and if he's new at this its handy for you to guide him to where you feel the most sensation- that may vary with your degree of arousal. In any case when he penetrates you after you've healed and you don't need to worry about pain and bleeding the first time can make it much more enjoyable for you. Just a couple of suggestions if you want any in depth info from a guys perspective feel free to PM me. There are plenty of sexually knowledgeable women that can give you better information than a guy ever could but I've deflowered about 3-4 women so I know a bit about the issues pleasurable and painful in the process

[Soremain]

In the end only teenagers care at what age you lost your virginity, because they care what age they lose their's and they wanna know did they do "better or worse" than other people. So in reality it doesn't matter at all. So if you don't wanna regret it, just be patient and do it with a guy you know you can trust and don't try to rush it just because some kids think there is something wrong with taking your time.

[Alyssa11]

Don't have sex with someone you're unsure about! Staying a virgin is much more peace of mind than having sex with someone who won't pick up your calls after!

[Alyssa11]

Thanks for mho :)

[northerngal]

Its not a race. Do it when it feels right. Do not let anyone or society push you until you are ready.

[DannyUk2017]

you're not Behind... you're rushing it... pull the hand brake... hold on for a moment... weight the things properly don't just Jump in to the devi's "nest"... Weight things... how much do you know about sex, think if you're ready, think or try to text/sext/chat/message first about the subject, and u'll see how would you "feel" about it!, then take baby steps, really small baby steps until you're Ready!

[MrKinktastic]

Nah, you’re not behind 22 is a fine age. Just go for it once you have a guy you trust.

[Berethor]

If you don't wanna regret it then you better wait until marriage.

[Andreapuss]

Yeah you're missing out...

[eteleu]

I don't know I just seen a 30 year old girl on here who seemed to be stressed out by the fact she was a virgin still. I think it might make a woman feel undesirable maybe? I said this to the first girl but I think if it's bothering you so much you should go bang a guy and get it over with. Then you can think about more important things, like your family, or career.

[Inexpensivefurniture]

Lots of people in their early 20s are virgins. You aren't behind at all.

[bowenw]

You are not behind. Everyone is different. When you meet the right partner you will know if it is time for you.

[Tea-Spaghetti]

Not too behind but I think it's a good age if you want to lose it now

[arasyolcu]

No, everything has its time. You gotta let your life go and think of other things

[Wise4myage]

Then wait a bit longer and see how you feel about it. No need to be in a rush.

[DreamCatchcer]

There is nothing wrong with being a virgin.

Stay that way until you find a guy who will cherish the experience of you giving him your virginity.

For now just learn about your body what what makes you feel good. Your first time let him know you are a virgin. If he is a good guy he will be gentle with you and want to make your first time is pleasurable for you.

Tell him what feels good to you. All girls are different.

[pizzalovershouse]

No just wait till you find a guy who wants a relationship not hookups

[BensGlory]

In the end most girls first time they regret it, either it not being satisfying or it hurts too much. I say prepare for that as it might happen but the only good that can come from it is if you find a decent guy to lose it too because then in the end you may regret the sex but not the guy you did it with.

Then as time goes on you can get more familiar with sex and hopefully enjoy it more either with the same guy or other guys in the future

[Valnac]

No, you are right we’re you want to be.
At your age, you are experiencing hormones, and you are horny all the time.
I suggest lots and lots of masturbation, it’s safer than fucking some stranger.

[REDHOTLINE]

Ehy will you wanna regret? What is the reason for it?

[87609lf]

Nah kid

[Waz2020]

Only if you think you're behind

[Jmmmfi4]

Don't rush into it

[Anonymous]

Then don't worry about the virginity so much. Have sex when you find the right guy and you won't regret it. Don't worry about "being behind". You're not missing out on anything. People place way too much on virginity in my opinion. You don't want the mentality some get of "wanting to get it over with" - that's when you're likely to regret it.

[Anonymous]

Wait until you are married. 22 is still young you have plenty of time to find a good guy to lose it with.