Im 23 and my body count is one guy with full blown sex and just one time before because I dont wanna sleep around. Is that bad?

Some people say I am missing out, i need to do this or that but i dont wanna sleep with just anyone, i lost my v card a few months ago at 22 but it was just a one time thing. Overall i just haven't found that special someone yet..
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  • Nope you are like me in this regard and you are not alone. You require a strong emotional connection or love before jumping in bed. You dont like casual or mindless sex. I love people like you, it's a beautiful thing that so many dont get these days. I'm turning 32 next month. I've had a few gfs and offers for more. I've only ever had sex with 2 women and only one of those was by choice. I had sex with her and I felt so cheap and disgusting. I'm glad I didn't finish and just stopped. doesn't matter what society says. You need to do what is best for YOU. You're the one who has to wake up and look in the mirror every morning. And you're the one that needs to motivate yourself to keep pushing through life, doing your work, studying, etc. You need to be your own best friend to succeed in life. So be a good friend and don't pressure yourself until you are ready. Any guy who's worth it will wait, that's all there is to it. If he waits you have the proof you need his heart is in it for you! <3

Most Helpful Guy

  • Get married and do it with your husband.

    Your count will stay low. If you don't want to sleep around... don't sleep around.
    Feminism has probably warped to do such a degree no man will ever meet and check off all 200 boxes you need so you'll be looking forever.

Most Helpful Girl

  • No, of course that’s not bad. We are all individuals and choose what suits us best. It is not a competition

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  • Take your own path in life and be the person that you want to be.

  • Mary,,,, we all have different values (and body counts) Just do what you feel is right for you. There is no magic number on what is too much or too little. How was the sex that you did have? Is the guy still in your life?

  • No it's not bad, you have to do what you feel comfortable with, not what others think you should do, it's your life not theirs.

  • I don't think that's bad. What's important is how you think. If you're satisfied then that's good. No worries.

  • That’s awesome. How was it?

  • Yeah but I'm special, and body count is overrated.

  • It's bad that you had casual sex once, not that you didn't do it more afterwards.

    • You should wait for that special someone.

  • No it's not bad. A high body count is worse.

  • in my opinion you are miss out but some people are more conservative or afraid of judgment or something else

  • Do what you want to do. It's not wrong to consider the propositions of others, but don't let those propositions control you if it opposes what you want to do.

  • No, this is great.

    Women with a lot of partners are usually consider a shitty marriage material by men. If you want a decent family life, look for a husband.

    If you want to bang a lot, great, go have fun. Just be ready to pay the price later, in terms of health and long term relationships

  • Without partner life is empty

  • Nah your still in a good spot

  • No, it's not bad. Actually it is quite desirable.

  • Absolutely not, you're wife material.

  • That's good. I hope you keep it that way. If he's willing to earn it, then you know you have a potential keeper.

    I'm just glad to hear a sensible woman who doesn't think slutting around is hip and cool.

  • Keep on letting your brains guide you! You are doing great.

  • That's great. The only person you need to please is you. What others think doesn't really matter.

  • If you want to wait for someone you should wait luv, but if you want to have sex you should

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