Im 50+ years old Single I'm told im really good looking for my age. I have a 21 year old wanting to have sex with me. What's up with that? Do I?

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This Girl is driving me crazy to have sex with her. She's really good looking but dam she's 21. I'm 50+ she has no idea what she's in for
I'd tear her up. Do I or do I not? If not how do I tell her. If I do how do I approach the sex. Like i would someone experienced or not. She's been with 2 guys her entire life... why this infatuation with me?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I'm curious how you met? How it came up she wanted to have sex with you? lol

Apparently some women like older guys, or want/think they're more mature, experienced etc (assuming she's not after money or something). I've personally never met any, and only see this online, which makes me question if some really do or not? Most I think go "ewwee" at the thoughts of it even lol.

But assuming this is real, I would simply tell her that you're flattered at her interest in you, but you're sorry that you're just not comfortable with it, that she's too young. That alone should work, but if it doesn't, then you might just have to be more "serious" in your tone with her so she knows you mean it, and she's not going to change your mind. If it comes down to the threat of her not being around you at all, etc. And/or don't let her be alone with you at any time etc. Things like that, showing her you've made your decision and you mean it.

Guardian45 · Accepted Answer

First and foremost, is she REALLY a consenting legal adult? If not, then FORGET it!

If you're seriously interested in her, then I would exercise extreme caution. Is she after something other than your sparkling personality & wit?

Assuming she is not, then you have figure out if this is just a fling or could it get more serious?

If this could be serious, then you have HUGE barriers due mainly to your age difference and how unaccepting family, friends and society might be to BOTH of you!

That said, I actually know someone in your very position. They married and made it work for a LONGTIME despite both their families' rejections. Unfortunately, their marriage and commitment is now being tested by the inevitable. He is sick and many suspect her intentions, so she struggles with an ill husband and a disapproving family & society.

You have a LOT to think about! Good Luck!

SueShe · Accepted Answer

If you have just an iota of decency, self-esteem and values, then just just don't do it.

My fear is that you tend to exaggerate a little what you are, what you are capable of but mainly, as @snakeboop says, that you are trolling.

Perhaps that you forgot (at your age memory becomes a really an issue) that you agreed not to spam and troll when you signed up for this account.

Should you have forgotten what I am talking about, just go over the FAQs and read the topic about spamming.

Have a nice Sunday and keep your penis safe from those youngsters :-)

SnakeBoop · Accepted Answer

XD XD XD XD XD XD XD XD congratulations on a troll of the day award. Don't worry, she'll realise you're just a disappointment soon. Just blank her to not put her through that ordeal XD

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Pop a Viagra & drink a Red Bull & make her wishes come true.

slatyb · Answer

Ask her? My thought is why not? My other thought is whether that's all she wants.

oldguystillhasit · Answer

If you don't have an S. O. to answer to go for it

kinggeorge007 · Answer

She could be after money. You can't throw away that possibility so probably better to keep evidence like texts that clearly shows she wanted it and then go for it.

dudeinohio · Answer

I say go for it. Probably a once in a lifetime adventure. I certainly would not have a relationship with her, though. The age difference is just... creepy.

Philyouup · Answer

my girlfriend was 22 when I met her. she is 25 now. i am 59

Twalli · Answer

If she just wants sex and she's hot then why not go for it. I am pretty sure neither of you want a relationship with each other.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Go for it. Why not? Many girls are into this.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Watch out, she might just want your money

driven159 · Answer

If you are not married what's stopping, you age is a number just make sure it's safe sex and don't get her pregnant might be the best sex you both have had