Im pregnant by accident help?

[Anonymous]

I went to a house party a few months back and got with a guy and turns out i think he the one who got me pregnant, what should i do i can't have a baby

[Anonymous]

I know what you’re feeling. My boyfriend and I recently had a pregnancy scare and we were terrified. Now, only you can decide what’s best for you in this situation, but what I wanted to do was carry the baby to term and give it up for adoption. We don’t believe in abortion for religious reasons (not to mention I would have been too attached to the baby) and I feel that having an abortion can cause a person to live with guilt. We didn’t want that. If you really can’t raise the child, I think adoption is a good option, and some families will even allow you to stay in touch with your child. I hope all goes well for you.

[Julie_TS]

Options are available for you if you feel you can't properly care for this child, please consider these options that people have already mentioned. I am the result of the same situation with my mother when she got pregnant at 16. She was terrified but ultimately told her parents and decided to keep me. It was a struggle for her but she made it with the help of her family, altho my father wanted nothing to do with us. Good luck huh, hang in there, it will be ok.

[Julie_TS]

thanks for the MHO!!!

[_HeLp_mE_]

Whatever you do, DON’T have an abortion... If you honestly can’t raise it, then put it up for adoption. See if your parents will raise it for you until you get your shit together. If your parents do raise it for you, make sure you fucking pay them for the inconvenience you’re putting them through as well (food, clothes, lost time). But for fuck’s sake, please take some accountability for your actions... Don’t let an innocent life die because of your irresponsibility.

[smokeater13]

It’s sickening that the majority instantly go to abortion. You wanted to be a grown up and have sex with someone that obviously was a hook up unprotected. Now be an adult and deal with the consequences of that action. Either put it up for adoption or grow the hell up and deal with being a mom

[AustinMan]

Get an abortion.

[katiesmuff]

Obviously several months along there is nothing you can do except hang in until the baby arrives and use the choices available then: Adoption, Marry the dad if you can find him, keep and raise it on your own.
Don't call it an accident as every one of us girls know that anytime there is a penis inside our vagina pregnancy is possible!

[PondyPand]

There's abortion, adoption, or sucking it up and keeping it.

[Duckysback]

How the fuck do you accidentally get pregnant?

[Asker]

Quite easliy

[Duckysback]

If you can't use your vagina responsible you should return it.

[Exorcist_Rampage]

@Duckysback Agree with you. People can't accidentally get pregnant. People can get pregnant when they don't want to, via rape however.

[Duckysback]

@Exorcist_Rampage Sure, but that isn’t an accident. That shit is absolutely someone’s fault.

[Exorcist_Rampage]

True. It just isn't the people who it happen to's fault. So yeah, no accident.

[musicbrain5]

You can’t accidentally get pregnant unless you were raped. And it sounds like you weren’t raped. You’re pregnant, deal with it. It’s a consequence of having random unprotected sex. Keep it, adopt it out, whatever.

[zoeadams3]

No accident. You took the risk, and here you are.
How far along?
Please consider adoption.

[EmmaMary]

There's no such thing as an accidental pregnancy.

[MackToday]

Get an abortion like other girls do, it's no big deal.

[Exorcist_Rampage]

It is a big deal. Wusses seek abortions. Abortion is legalized murder.

[MackToday]

@Exorcist_Rampage I see you really believe in freedom and small government.

[Exorcist_Rampage]

If a heartbeat occurs, that's life. Ending life is murder.

[MackToday]

@Exorcist_Rampage Such an in depth analysis. Did a 3 year old child do it for you?

[Exorcist_Rampage]

What are you talking about? Bullying me because you know heartbeats aren't from the dead? Mad that people can stand against abortion?

[MackToday]

@Exorcist_Rampage Ha ha ha ha I'm just shocked at what you consider an analysis. You actually think a heart beat equals a child. Lizards and bats have heart beats. If I have to suffer from the frustration of dealing with that kind of thinking then I get to mock you.

[Exorcist_Rampage]

Mocking is bullying and that's against site rules. Heartbeats equals human life. We are talking about humans, not other creatures.

[MackToday]

@Exorcist_Rampage Heart beat doesn't equal human life, it's a fetus. The fact that you flippantly decide it does shows very poor critical thinking skills.

[Exorcist_Rampage]

You do realize that fetus is Latin for baby?

[MackToday]

@Exorcist_Rampage Ha ha ha ha ha OMFG!

[Asker]

@Exorcist_Rampage calm down

[Exorcist_Rampage]

These people started it.

[MackToday]

You'll need a tranquilizer dart to calm a chimp down.

[AngelLily]

If you and the guy can't take care of the kid its better to just give it up for adoption.

[genericname85]

if you knew you didn't want a baby, you should have used a condom or at least taken the pill. happy to help. *captain hindsight flies away*

[whitehide]

Abortions usually end pregnancies

[whitehide]

The conservative people GaG treat abortion like witchcraft. Ask somewhere else, you'd want to keep you options open without being ridiculed by these children for it.

[Exorcist_Rampage]

It is murder. That's why people hate it. A heartbeat is a life.

[whitehide]

It's a parasite

[Exorcist_Rampage]

No it isn't.

[whitehide]

I know it isn't, I got a little pissed there. But the definition of murdet is one human unlawfully killing another. A fetus isn't fully human and abortion isn't unlawful in some places, so it isn't murder, just like me flushing down a napkin with my cum on it isn't murder.

[Exorcist_Rampage]

Fetus is Latin for baby. Look it up.

[whitehide]

Congratulations, you know a word from a dead language 👏 We're talking about embryos here, not babies.

[Exorcist_Rampage]

Science has proven life begins at conception.

[whitehide]

Sperm cells are most definetly living, so it kinda starts in the balls

[Lottifan]

Have an abortion and learn to keep your knickers on in future

[Exorcist_Rampage]

Wusses seek abortion.

[Jamie05rhs]

Go to your local pregnancy resource center. They can help you.
resources.care-net.org/find-a-pregnancy-center/

[bangyourhead]

give it up for adoption.

[COMMODOREII]

Why can't you have a baby?

[jasco]

abortion

[FrenchyRomain]

ever heard of abortion

[Exorcist_Rampage]

Ever heard of murder?

[FrenchyRomain]

@Exorcist_Rampage yeah let me find the definition "the unlawful premeditated killing of one human being by another." doesn't have the word "unborn" or "fetus" in there, she's good

[Exorcist_Rampage]

Fetus is Latin for baby. Look it up. If a heartbeat occurs, that is life. Ending life is murder.

[FrenchyRomain]

@Exorcist_Rampage that is why you are allowed to abort until 6 weeks of pregnancy

[FrenchyRomain]

@Exorcist_Rampage oh and look up your own definitions jackass The word fetus (plural fetuses) is related to the Latin fētus (“offspring”, “bringing forth”, “hatching of young”) doesn't mean BABY in the slightest

[Exorcist_Rampage]

Offspring makes it life. Also, regardless. The point is just because the courts permits it, it doesn't make it right.

[FrenchyRomain]

@Exorcist_Rampage doesn't mean your sacred religious text says it that it's right either

[Cannuck22]

did you use protection? FYI it’s not accident. You had sex. Having sex there is always a risk of getting pregnant. Condom or pill still always a risk.

[Exorcist_Rampage]

You can't accidentally get pregnant. If you chose to have sex, you chose taking on the potential to get pregnant.

[rockrewls]

By accident?