Im tired of males. They see us as sex objects. Period. What do ladies do?

[Anonymous]

I dont think i willbe loved by a man. I think i can expect to be seen and usefas a sex object.

[Djaay]

Treat a man of your interest with your heart first , not your thoughts draining uncontrollably out your mouth. Always speak with your heart , not your thoughts. Change your outward impression of yourself so you don't appear as a sex object.

[Asker]

How can i know if im doing this right?

[Djaay]

Listen to your emotional feelings and your hearts intent , not others opinions or from friends or societal extremities. And never trust your own understanding of things. Always be open to learning something new about the subject of interest.

[Asker]

Thanks. I hope i can understand this and learn it.

[Djaay]

Everything great is a result of good actions , not words alone. Show men in the atomosephere around you wherever you stand that you glo with personality , a smile and have a great character through communication as well. Hold very firm with value and morals. That will attract those willing to invest in a good woman who invest in herself as well. Be quick to notice those around you not worthy of your attention or your time. A smile and respectfully decline and such offers.

[Djaay]

there's a lot of trashy ass women and men out there trying to hook up with each other and spin a narritive of lowdown slutville in the sewers of society. A quick and easy way to fuck without consequences or responsibility. The only thing that attracts is more flys as flys love shit. Dont be a fly.

[Asker]

Thank you. The funny thing is usually the trash bags guys are approaching in disrespectful and annoying and rude ways so i usually have gotten very hurt and offended and have not let them down with a smile more like a look of disgust xD

[Djaay]

Remember to let yourself glo with a smile and you ora. That says who you really are. Dont worry about those guys. Are'nt you better than that? Your the one making yourself mad at them.

[Asker]

I had a big ego, getting easily offended, but I've been doing better. I dont even feel good or feminine wheb i get in that fight or flight mode where i act cold. Long story shorr it has been a journey. Idek how i managed to stop being easily offended! I think it was truly down to having a big ego. Smiling while being disgusted, or controlling that anger, is a lesson to learn xD

[Asker]

Actually, smiles do help the world revolve. Because I recently saw a coworker without her mask and she said Hi to me and she had a smile on. Prior to all this, she usually wore a mask and for some silly reason in my head I would always think she maybe had an attitude or something but seeing her smile made me realize she's a nice person, thats who she is. If people dont smile, you can't tell how they are! A straight face with genuinely nice words could even come off sarcastic or something.

[Djaay]

Your self disapline and outward personality is what changes your atomosphere around yourself , either good or bad... positive or negative , your choice not they'res. Being in control of yourself , not others can make others relize to control themselfs around you.

[Asker]

How did you find put this stuff?

[Djaay]

I dont know what you mean

[Asker]

Its just really advanced level advice than I usually get.

[Djaay]

Thank You... You will soon see all the difference with those around you.

[Asker]

You rock. You must be a joy to be around.

[Djaay]

Thanks... Thats what others genrally say including my wife. 😊

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Not all Men are the same there is someone out there for everybody sorry your up against this :(

[Asker]

Thanks u appreciate ur sweetness

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@Asker You are welcome Honey :-) <3

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for Most Helpful Guy : Glad I can give you help (( Hugs ))

[UniquelyBasic]

Youve been with the wrong men then.

[Asker]

I hope so thanks

[andreasderjuengere]

If that's what you think... you could consider to change the culture you live in?
It's not ''men'' in general, but rather the type of man YOU find in YOUR surrounding.
I can assure you that elsewhere there will be better 'material' :)

[Asker]

Which culture?

[andreasderjuengere]

Your surrounding ''culture''. That of 'your town', your nation or such; it could even be the ethnic group that you belong to (in some way). The world is like a zoo, actually: each species is grouped -well: mainly- in their own cages; or areas. Look at different cages, and you will see different patterns of behaviour.

[Gingerguy33]

Don’t worry not every guy is like that just don’t fall for the tricks at the beginning of your relationships and don’t put out right away and you’ll find guys who actually wanna have a girlfriend real quick

[Sabretooth]

not all.

[Nightmoon88]

Then you are talking to the wrong males

[Asker]

Good to hear

[Nightmoon88]

Yeah it’s hard to find but there are good ones

[Asker]

Thats awesome. Thanks

[Nightmoon88]

Your welcome