Im Trans and Boyfriend Doesn't Want Me To Remove My Penis?

I've been with this guy for about 6 years now. I told him that I was trans about 9 months into the relationship and he was cool with it. We started being intimate about 5 years into the relationship. Now that I've saved up enough money to get reassignment surgery he doesn't want me to get rid of my penis. He is straight and had only dated cis girls before me. Could he actually be gay? He says he doesn't want me to get rid of such an important part of me but I just don't want it anymore. I can't stand looking at myself nake. It doesn't feel right. Why can't he understand that.
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  • You consider yourself a girl, yes? And he is into you? Then how, by your definition could he possibly be gay?

    And yeah who knows, maybe he grew attached to it. I guess you could show him some plastic strap-ons if he's just worried about never being on the receiving end again o. O

    • A straight person wouldn't be into a penis, even if the one with said penis identifies as a girl. Hence, it's more likely that the person is gay/bi/pansexual, not straight.