Im ugly? Why does he wanna keep our relationship a secret?

Im ugly? Why does he wanna keep our relationship a secret?
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  • You're not ugly. I figured I would get that out of the way first.

    With that said, he might have personal issues. Maybe an ex he's trying to win back, or maybe he's only interested in hooking up with you, or maybe he has difficulties expressing himself or his situation in fear of being rejected. Try to find a way of asking him where it isn't awkward for either of you and at a time when you can both talk alone. Try not to get frustrated with him or the situation. Also do not turn your negative thoughts inward. You are a very pretty girl, he might have family that is judgmental or your personalities might not click. I hope this helps..😊

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  • I don't know, are you a transwoman? Not that it would make it acceptable for him to be ashamed cause he shouldn't be doing anything he "thinks" is wrong.

    Or maybe you are who he's cheating with🤷‍♂️

    Maybe he comes from a religious house hold and they'd pester him about marriage?

    You should just ask him cause all i know is it's not normal to hide a girlfriend and it could be a whole lot of dumb reasons

Most Helpful Girls

  • If sexual appeal is what you are seeking... then that’s how you will be treated.
    if you want to be a girlfriend material... then drop this one who has someone already...
    work on your self worth. Good luck

  • There could be several reasons: No. 1. He already HAS a girlfriend. No. 2. He only wants you for sex. If a serious contender for a relationship comes along, you're dropped. Drop this dud!

    • He said His bi and has a boyfriend

    • WhatEVER. He is involved WITH SOMEONE ELSE! He's told you. It's NOT you. It's you and the first person. Look elsewhere for someone who wants you alone. Heavens.

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  • You're not ugly. And you're being used for sex. Might want to look into that.

    • She is sexy. Isn't she?

  • You might be the side piece love

    • Dam :/

    • i mean yeah, all girls allways like the same guy

  • I'm drunk but you don't ! ook ugly.

  • Usually guys like that have a girl on the sode or are fake af and want to keep it open to look like he's single so he can get attention of other girls.

  • He has a girlfriend and is using you. Dump, work on yourself until you find someone worthy and isn't a scumbag loser who treats other people as an option. You are pretty by the way.

  • Ugly you are not & I don’t know why any guy would keep you a secret.

  • Aaaand... let it out.

  • You are gorgeous!

    If he wants to keep it a secret, then there is a reason.. what is it?

    Either he fesses up and it is acceptable or ditch his ass.

  • If you're confused than maybe you shouldn't be in that relationship.

  • if that is you in the pic... NO nope you are NOT ugly... and if he wants to keep your relationship secret then i would investigate into the possibility or almost certainty he is actually married and you are his mistress...
    however not sure why anyone would want to keep secret if they were dating you tbh

  • You're probably his side piece.

  • You aren't ugly and you obviously know that. He is keeping his options open for other women likely.

  • Because you're his optional "bit on the side".

  • You’re hot. He may have another girl.

    • Dam.

  • You're not ugly but also not a ten, maybe he is keeping his options open. What do you offer besides looks? Is the sex good? Do you have kids. in tow? Do you make good money?

    • I make 80 k a year i have 2 kids ans sex always great

    • Maybe he doesn't want kids. As you can see from the answers there are plenty of other guys if you don't want the drama.

  • You're not ugly. You need to talk to him

  • You are beautiful. He probably worried that someone will steal you.

  • Very hot don't know why

  • U don't look ugly.
    Or are you a transexual?

  • You definitely aren't ugly. I'm not sure why he would want to hide you.

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