In a relationship, do you prefer to use tongue while kissing?

In a relationship, do you prefer to use tongue while kissing?
I made a poll yesterday about the importance of open-mouth kissing in a relationship (vote here) and somebody said that open-mouth kissing doesn't necessarily require tongue.

So I figured I would specify here.
Yes and it's a dealbreaker if they don't always want to use tongue
Vote A
Yes and it's a dealbreaker if they don't use tongue at least sometimes
Vote B
Yes but it's not a dealbreaker if they don't want to use tongue during kissing
Vote C
I don't care about using tongue
Vote D
I prefer not to use tongue
Vote E
I don't have the experience to answer this question
Vote F
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Most Helpful Guys

  • At my age, we kiss a lot. good morning honey. how was your day honey, etc. Those are not normally moments when tongue is called for.

    Tongue only shows up when we're planning on getting naked, or trying to convince each other to get naked :D

  • Yup. I’m not really into like, deep tongue action, stuffing your tongue down eachothers throat. For me it’s more of a sensual thing. But I kiss weird. Girls always comment on it that I kiss weird but they love it. So fuck yea :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • I like soft gentle losing that can lead to life passionate.. like start at 3 move to 10. but I really hate starting at ten —it’s too much and can be a real turn off

    I don’t get how people are already at ten before the kids begins😐

  • I don't prefer to use tongue but I do enjoy it from time to time though! Especially if we are trying to turn each other on.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Always. I can’t have kisses without tongue.

  • Yup. Personally, I feel like the addition of the tongue while kissing adds on to the sentimental aspect of physical intimacy. It’s a major turn on for most people but not everyone. If your partner doesn’t like it and can’t be convinced but you love them nonetheless, then don’t breakup just because of that.

  • I do yeah but as long as i get to kiss them and they are comfortable in doing so then I'm good with whatever they are

  • Not a dealbreaker but I definitely like and want tongue.

  • Ewww.
    No tongue.

  • Yes, of course.

  • I prefer soft gentle romantic kisses, not the open mouth licking each other horny kisses.

  • Yes, it is hot, intimate & great

    • So true

    • Kissing is important

  • yes of course

  • I prefer to use my dick but thats just me

  • In a relationship, no. Outside a relationship, yes

  • Tongue is needed.

  • I prefer for her to use her tongue while kissing.

  • Kissing should be illegal

  • Always. ;-)

  • what lips are we talking about, downstairs or upstairs?

  • When I kiss a vwoman, I want our tongues to touch, I want to fill her tongue in my mouth

  • That's the best

  • I'm a fan of French kissing

  • I don't like tongue kissing and I'd prefer dying alone if that's such an issue for women.

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