"I demand that I climax," said Nicki in her cover interview for Cosmopolitan US's July issue. "I think women should demand that. I have a friend who's never had an orgasm in her life. In her life... She says she's a pleaser. I'm a pleaser, but it's fifty-fifty."
So what about you? Do you demand, expect, or not expect your sexual preferences to be satisfied when you're in the bedroom? & Did you orgasm during your most recent sexual encounter?
In the bedroom, do you expect your sexual preferences to be satisfied? & Did you orgasm during your most recent sexual encounter?
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16 26I dont demand it. But I also won't say i dont expect it either..
Does it count if my most recent sexual encounter was with myself lol
😂😂😂 what
I'm a bit of a freak, i've seen everything at least once and more times than not i don't orgasm during sex but as long as she gets hers i'm fine with that
Why don't you orgasm?
it's not that i didn't try but the girl i was sleeping with just so happened to be coming down off of meth and since i was at a buddies house i thought he invited her over just so we could fuck and since she was coming down she was all jittery, kind of like someone having a seizure so i got her off and she tried to suck me but its hard for me to get erect when i'm concerned if the girl in my bed is going to be ok or if she's is going to need medical attention. Point i'm trying to make is I can get myself off whenever but i wanted to make sure she got hers before literally going to sleep with her.
I can't orgasm everytime. (It depends on my mood) but that doesn't mean I didn't have fun.
I like to have my sexual preferences satisfied but not always possible. But I like to orgasm every time and yes, I orgasmed during my last encounter
Yes and it must or find one that will
Demanding anything should never be in the cards. You can ask. And sex is a two way street. So if you want a specific proclivity (totally cool btw) give one in return.
I would never let a girl leave unsatisfied. She gets hers before I get mine
As my ex said: " you don't have the right to expect anything from me"
She then expected it from me.
I expect my sexual demands to be met.
I've only once orgasmed from sex. I just don't get a lot of sensation from it. Usually I just try to keep it up long enough for her to cum and then fake it and bin the condom before she comes back down and notices.
Do you get sensation from masturbating?
Yes though it takes an hour or so to get off (you just can't Shag for that long, your muscles give out, lol).
Why do you think you don't get much sensation?
No idea. I'm going as doctor and it isn't an inhibiting health problem so there is no point seeing a doctor about it (UK, NHS won't offer help with anything that isn't causing you harm).
I try not to demand or expect anything from sexual partners as long as i cum. I did orgasm in my last encounter, she did 2-3 times.
I think demanding is a little much I always make sure she got there before me 😉 and sometimes I don't get off
I get off satisfying others. And I always orgasm.
Yeah definitely
If a guy want anal sex, deep troath, cumin in face, blood play or any disrespectful shit from me, i would want them to practice that shit on themself, so they understand how I feel about it. Other than that i would try to please him and except the same. I actually except to cum every time we have sex otherwise what is the purpose of sex? I can replace him with a sex machine then
I don't demand per say but I'll never fake it you'll know if i didn't cum and it'll be in our best interest if i orgasm. I don't get why people fake orgasms.
Well considering i think i suffer from Delayed Ejaculation due to emotional disconnection and emotional trauma no i don't tend to orgasm meaning i didn't orgasm last time