Interracial porn?

Question

So I acted my boyfriend what type of porn he watches and he said “very rough interracial” which I didn’t know was a category but I’m white and he’s Ethiopian but I’m just a little confused on how I should feel about this... he likes to be in control and it’s somewhat demeaning but hot in the bedroom but know that I know this, I feel a little weird about it... is it racist of him? Or does he like “punishing” me in bed because I’m white? He’s seems like such a great guy tho but I can’t stop thinking about this...

simonqq · Accepted Answer

It's obviously a fetisch for him, he might be with you because of that or he is just generally more attracted to white girls which is fine. I think it's a control thing and more of him dominating a tiny white girl. Usually in these porn videos the guy has a huge penis and the girl is tiny and petite and for some reason it's still a bit taboo when different cultures fuck.

If you actually don't like it then talk to him. Maybe try to have sex where maybe you are in charge or just sensual sex to switch things up. Anyway you should communicate.

Jaximus-Lion · Accepted Answer

It's just porn, just like video games. If i violent games does it make me a violent guy? Some like it rough yea! not all the time, i do like to take control in the bedroom time to time but i talk to my lady and always tell her if i ever hurt you just tell me to stop, you can do the same, i mean try it. If he goes too far just ell him to stop , nothing racist about it.

AquaBoo · Accepted Answer

No it's not racist. He just likes to be in control. And it's not a bad thing.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Honestly I think you are over thinking it I’m also black.

Berethor · Answer

It might mean that he see you as a trophy and/or a fatish, which is not surprising.

Patrickjv · Answer

I don't know accept the tribal man's spearing as a punishment for the sake of rest of us whiteys.

Goochbreaker · Answer

what about him is great? His attraction to you may be something that was brainwashed into him by all this interracial porn he is watching and you might just be some fucktoy to him

ababykangaroobmx · Answer

Its in no way racist to have a sexual preference of race when you date someone. It could just be his preference and his kink.

zagor · Answer

Interracial porn is better because when they are the same race it just looks like a bowl of vanilla or chocolate ice cream and you can't discern the details of what is going on.

YOUTOOSHOULDJUDGE · Answer

My wife is black and we have watched interracial porn. But yes, he likes rough sex. Rough sex isn't my cup of tea but it doesn't make someone a bad person.