Is 12 too young for the talk. ? boyfriend daughter walk in on us having sex should I have the talk with her?

[Anonymous]

[PrudentGuy]

I started masturbating when I was 12.

I regretted my parents never had sex talk with me.

I fact, I thjnk sex Ed would begin as early as 8 or 9 (basic anatomy). Then at 10 how the reproductive system works.

By 12, the kid should know sex can lead to pregnancy and they are not ready for it. By 14, they should know all about STD, contraceptives, and physical aspects on how to do it.

Then they should be allowed to choose if they want to lose their virginity after their legal age is passed.

[slatyb]

I expect she already knows about sex. Her father should be talking, not you.

[Asker]

Well we are close so i like talking to her about stuff like that.

[slatyb]

So nice that you have a good relationship. I'm not a fan of "the talk" but it depends on the child. Twelve is certainly not too young.

[Asker]

Yaa i had the talk with her..

[slatyb]

How did it go? What did you talk about?

[Asker]

About sex and about boys. She told me she seen a few naked guys already.

[Quackthulu]

If they are old enough to ask questions they are old enough to hear answers. Besides a 12 year old who doesn't already at least know the basics has lived a really sheltered life.

[Asker]

Okay thanks

[Oigit]

Better you and her father have the talk with her then her seeking answers elsewhere.

[SphynxUK]

No.
You’re not her parent.

[eat_love_workout]

Yes have the talk

[eat_love_workout]

My parents had the talk with me around the same age when I walked in on them doing bondage

[Asker]

What did they tell u?

[eat_love_workout]

send me a privvatte messsage

[Asker]

Can't :/ sorry

[eat_love_workout]

okay I can't either because level 1

[eat_love_workout]

have the talk with her but tailor what you say to her

[Asker]

I told her everything she said she was more shocked by the size of her father D

[eat_love_workout]

You told her everything? 😳

[Drumlin2001]

Seems a little late, have you not talked about it at all?
You should talk to her

[Asker]

I told her sex is what older people do

[SlothySlob]

It's his kid, talk to him about it first.

[ronny212]

I cnt say im not apparent but my family never gave me the tlk i found out by porn

[Asker]

I am. and my did

[ronny212]

Thats cool

[JustinTheGreat]

Unless you have completely sheltered her from social media or from school, she already knows what sex is and doesn’t necessarily need the talk.

[Asker]

I haven't

[JustinTheGreat]

She definitely knows what sex is then. She knows what she walked in on. So having the talk might just be awkward for her

[Asker]

Then why she sounded surprised when intold her we were having oral sex?

[JustinTheGreat]

Because she doesn’t want to hear about the sexual actives her dad is having?

[Asker]

She ask me mom what are you doing. and i answered

[Browneye57]

It's not your place. Why god invented the locked door. Duh.

[Asker]

We were in a room

[Browneye57]

Which changes nothing.

[Asker]

Okay

[Browneye57]

Let's see now... WHO exactly is the adult here?

[Asker]

I am and my boyfriend

[TylerWilliams567]

A bit young

[Asker]

U think so?

[TylerWilliams567]

That’s just what I think but she’s not mine

[OfDeath]

I'd hope her school would be teaching her about that stuff.

[Asker]

I don't know?

[lovedejj_xo]

A little late...

[Steve37]

You should Jane the talk but at a very basic level. No need to get into extend graphic detail at this pointbut she saw what she saw and it would be best to explain it to her.