Guys, is 57kg (125lbs) woman too heavy to carry/hold during sexy times or just couple times in general?

Question

I keep worrying about my weight. I have very little experience. I have yet to be intimate with a guy and I've always wondered whether my weight could be a problem especially in this matter.

I wonder, is an average man capable of carrying a woman in his arms of this weight for some time? Or during sex/sexy times or just in general when being cuddly couply together?

Guys, please share your experience.

I wonder whether I already fit into the "heavy category" according to guys.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

You know what I really like your question.
For a lot of different reasons
Have you ever noticed in life when you want something or you want to do something and you're not sure of yourself there's always something in the back of your head it's telling you no are trying to change your mind instead of stepping into it and having the confidence we always have that little thing inside of us that's telling us something negative in a way that it kind of holds us back

Try looking at it this way remember when you were two years old and you wanted to walk you thought about it and this isn't two years older somewhere about that time but you made a conscious choice you made a commitment to yourself and you had the confidence to stand up knowing that you're going to fall down it is probably going to hurt but you wanted something more and you went for it you didn't have anything that was going to hold you back you fell down and it hurt but that didn't hold you back you stood right back up tried it again and you tried it again and you tried it again and one day you were doing it and the next thing was to learn how to run so you did whatever it took sometimes we get in our own heads and when we do that we either gain more confidence or we lose confidence depending on the situation or what we're even talking about so do the same thing with the question you just asked if you actually think you're too heavy what are you going to do about it how bad do you want a relationship well go back to when you were two years old take that first thing that you learned in life how to do on your own can do it right now. walk 30 minutes a day at a very fast pace for 30 days and you will start toning up very quickly why because you'll start eating the right Foods drinking the right liquids because you want something you have that desire in that passing so you're going to do it until you get it
You actually have a lot of other factors I could throw out there for you right now but does it really even matter there's only one thing that matters
And that is that you want something how bad do you want it

That's the only thing that matters is that you wanted make it happen all these other things are going to creep up in your brain let then go and focus on what you want and be confident is going to happen the same way it happened when you learn how to walk because that is the truth that's what's going to happen it's all up to you

NamerOfStars · Accepted Answer

It depends on what exactly you're looking for. If you want a guy to pick you up and move you in a fireman's carry, it might get tricky over long distances (or with a smaller guy); that extra weight all on your arms can add up quickly. A shoulder carry is MUCH easier, unless you have a really weird distribution of weight (like if, say, you were in a car accident while time traveling and had to get a prosthetic butt made of cast iron), but I doubt it's as enjoyable.

If you're hoping for a Hollywood-style "he holds you up against the wall during sex" thing, I'm going to have to disappoint you- regardless of weight, that doesn't actually work very well. Trying to push someone up WHILE holding them up and moving in two directions gets tiring *incredibly* quickly, and just because YOU have the musculature to hold her up doesn't mean the wall does. That's true at pretty much any adult weight, though.

If you just want him to heft you up for the odd smooch or two, though, you'll probably be okay.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

There are very few sexual positions that require a guy to lift all of his partner’s weight.

Mr1derful · Answer

That weight would be no problem for me in general (depending on her height, etc), but I injured my back years ago so it would be hard for me to pick her up at that weight and carry her for a long time or have standing sex or something like that picking her up.