Is a blowjob submissive or perhaps dominant?

Ok your opinion is giving a blowjob an act of submission or is there a secret dominant side to giving head?

On the one hand, ladies you’re submitting to him, pleasing him and focusing on him.

On the other hand he is submitting to your lips. He is surrendering himself to you to do with as you please. You can tease him until you desire to make him cum or you can keep going after and flood him with over stimulation. You have complete control over him, physically and emotionally.
Is a blowjob submissive or perhaps dominant?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I think is both... I'm pretty submissive, generally talking... But I have this frisky side, and even when I let him take the charge, I like doing something to disobey, ans shows him, that I submit cuz I want, and I can change the places anytime... I genuinely like giving blowjobs, like... We are lying on the bed and I get I the mood, so I kiss and touch him until he gets a bonner and then il just do I... I tease him a lot before, licking slowly, or only kissing the tip... He would beg me to take it in my mouth, heart his moans and feeling his body tense up when I finally do is so arousing... He would usually cling his fingers I to my hair, playing with it, and I like it when he pushes me down so I deep troath him, I don't really have a fag reflex... so it's easy for be. But he would push it deep and hold me like that, until I can't really breathe properly, so I literally choke on his dick.. Witch I think is hot... I would also spend some time only playing with the tip, and like bearly taking it in, and then when he expects less, taking it all in... It's such a cat and mouse game... I would purposely go slower as we get close to the end and he would eventually lose his shit and move my head faster himself, until he cumms... So I feel is a very well balanced game of power, I like it a lot, cuz I still feel like I'm submitting to him, but in th same time, seeing him moaning while he bearly can stand up straight makes ne feel hella powerful 😂

  • Both actually. I feel very sexy and in control when I give him oral sex but yet he has a dominant role over me when I do, so it’s both

    • Yeah I can agree with that! It’s both and! Tbh it’s just love... hot love

  • It may be different for some people, so for me it is a both a submissive thing and a dominant thing

    • That makes sense I mean it can totally be both!!!

  • It can be either or neither. It's whatever the participants make of it.

    • Wise answer 👌

Most Helpful Guys

  • When a guy's trying to ram it down her throat he's being dominant. When she's on her knees in front of him she is in a submissive posture but she may well be in control.
    My pref is for a girl on top 69. Her posture is dominant and she's undoubtedly in charge of the whole show.

    • A woman going for sex and going for what she wants is very arousing. Especially if the object of her longing is your member.

  • It depends on how it is done. Personally I think that the position shown above is a dominant one. However if he is laid on his back and she is between his legs, I believe that is a submissive one for the male.

    • Yeah agreed because when you’re on you back she has complete control.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I feel like it’s submissive. However, I love being able to give him pleasure and arouse him.

    • There’s definitely something special about giving everything you are to the love of your life. Can’t complain!

  • Dominant

    • She does have pretty much absolute control

  • It can be both. Sure he's getting pleasure, but if she wanted to she could bite his dick off.

    • If she wants to die😂😂

    • It might actually kill the man... just saying

    • Yeah after 8 minutes of bleeding I can fuck some shit up in 8 minutes lol

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  • Submissive of course. Otherwise telling someone "suck my dick!" wouldn't really be an insult.

  • I like when the guy facefucks me

    • I love it too... too bad most of you can't handle it

    • I can pretty well I've gotten used to it

    • Do you want a wedding ring?

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  • It's dominant, there are teeth there, and he's totally at her mercy, one bite and... but most guys don't think about that.

  • Being on my knees with his dick in my mouth feels both dominant and submissive. Try it with your man sometime.

    • I would but misa don’t have a man at the moment. No woman to speak of so auto I guess (?)

  • I don't know 🤷

  • I don't care I just love it !!!

    • Who can’t disagree!!!

  • Blowjob is not submissive. Getting your face or throat fucked, is!

    • True... I’m more of the gentle type I think

  • Its totally dominating. For guys , feels like she does what do you want. For girls , you have control on him (I think so).

  • Kind of more depends on how she's acting, while doing it. If she's being dominant while doing it, it's dominant, if she's being submissive, it's submissive. It's not the BJ itself, it's how she's acting, along side it

    • Very wise indeed!

  • Neither.

    people on GAG are so damn concerned with power it’s like nobody can enjoy just getting off.