Is a body count of 30 high for a 32 year old guy?

oof i am a virgin and my man told me his body count is 30. Should that be a red flag? I know he be hella horny and lost his virginity younger like 15 years old.

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11 mo
he knows im a virgin and seemed supportive of waiting till marriage as long as i give him my ass lol
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  • How many conquests has he had in the past 2-3 years? What is important is his attitude about sex now? For him, is sex a recreational activity or an expression of affection, caring, and love? If he has had more than 2-3 partners in the past 2-3 years, he is into recreational sex and that is not the guy to whom you should give your virginity.

    • yess thats what im not sure about is when did all these girls come from. But he told me he had a phase after his divorce he just got into a lot of stuff because he thought no girl would want a divorced man. So he felt like he was trying to prove himself differently.

    • You are entitled to ask these questions. He is not required to answer but, if he refuses to answer, then you can assume that the answer would not be very favorable for him.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Run and he won't wait he will slowly push you for more and more!

    Set a boundary and if he crosses it end things!

    Really big red flag he will want to many things you won't want to try!

    My sister married and divorced a guy with 25 she was a virgin and he was into all kinds of gross things she would never imagine trying 😔

    Bet you he will want a 3 some in time

    • yess thats what im not sure about is when did all these girls come from. But he told me he had a phase after his divorce he just got into a lot of stuff because he thought no girl would want a divorced man. So he felt like he was trying to prove himself differently. I'm ok with doing all kinds of gross things.

    • Well there is gross things and there is no go stuff where do you draw the line? He is already pushing for your ass! Imagine what he will push for when your half naked? Or just reach for and grab... O sorry habit! Your a virgin hood him till waiting till married! He is trying to prove himself imagine how good he will feel taking your anal or virgin cherry! Like when how many girls a month is that! Why does he seem to wanna wait for you? Red flag guys don't just change from dating tons of girls to o I just want one. We wish and hope but just in tv they change.

    • He was married. He likes me bc im part of his religious sect superrr small sect.

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  • Long as he's being respectful now then body count really doesn't matter. I think the bigger concern is whether or not your preferences and expectations align. Sort that stuff out first.

Most Helpful Guy

  • It's higher than average. Sounds like he has been enjoying being single without commitment. He may be ready to settle down now, he may not. You'll have to determine that.

    • he told me he had a phase after his divorce he just got into a lot of stuff because he thought no girl would want a divorced man. So he felt like he was trying to prove himself differently. He seems ready to settle down just in my head I'm like i wonder who had this. Am i enough for him?

    • @kareenakapur Re: your last sentence/question. Don't worry. He will decide that for you.

    • i already asked him and he said i am more than enough. And i just want to make him feel good. And he said i already do.

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  • I think so. It's like he had one per year since before he was born. Now that takes some real horniness.

    • oof i be horny too but im a virgin. Sounds like a lot right ughhh. I like him so much. Trying to get over it. he told me he had a phase after his divorce he just got into a lot of stuff because he thought no girl would want a divorced man. So he felt like he was trying to prove himself differently.

  • Yes I think so

  • Yes. I body count above 10 is a red flag at any age.

    • rlly why/? he told me he had a phase after his divorce he just got into a lot of stuff because he thought no girl would want a divorced man. So he felt like he was trying to prove himself differently.

    • You don't need to prove yourself by fucking every vagina that comes along. 1 is sufficient to know you still've got it.

    • yeahhh I don't know lol

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  • I don't think so. That's similar to my total when I was in my early thirties.

  • Player alert!

    I'd gone faster than light, if I were you girl

    • he told me he had a phase after his divorce he just got into a lot of stuff because he thought no girl would want a divorced man. So he felt like he was trying to prove himself differently.

  • College and predeployment periods were... quite fortunate for me, so no I wouldn't consider that necessarily high.

    • he told me he had a phase after his divorce he just got into a lot of stuff because he thought no girl would want a divorced man. So he felt like he was trying to prove himself differently.

    • There ya' go then :)

  • That one for every year almost, damn 😂

  • Yes it's very high. Seems like he was manwhoring around

  • Seems like he might just be trying to make you number 31. Seriously, huge red flag.

    • oof ur right but we live 24 hours away from each other. if he flys down here, that's pretty wild just to make me number 31 right. Or do u think he's just trying to get with a virgin

    • I would say both. But I can’t really say I know his motivation.

  • Yes, red flag. Unless he's lost a love and learned from it, he's probably doing the same thing. Just getting girls and Fing em

  • Yes it is

  • Definite red flag

  • Yes. It's very high.

  • Sounds like it.

  • For a guy, yes

  • When a person sleeps around with that many people it tells you two things.

    #1: He gives into his impulses which means he doesn't have self control.

    #2: He doesn't take sex seriously, but more like a get off quick pleasure type of thing.

    I obviously don't know your boyfriend (and people do change) but I would advice be very careful with him because you can easily end up just like the other 30 woman he screwed and left.

    • he told me he had a phase after his divorce he just got into a lot of stuff because he thought no girl would want a divorced man. So he felt like he was trying to prove himself differently. ur right i dont want to be like the other 30. He seems serious tho. keeps saying he's going to tell his mom about us alreadyyyy.

  • It is high, only if you think it is!
    Possibly should consider a STD test for him before you find out the hard way.

  • I don't think so

  • id tell u that you r not virgin yet..
    cuz u gave ur ass then u kept ur hymen but ur not a virgin... i advice u to not let him. touch u sexually, maybe he's planning to go in ur vagina one time..
    man who fked 32 woman can make u the the 33th...

    • ur right i need to save my horniness. if I'm too horny watch him take my vagina and then leave after. that's my fear

    • exactly that will happen soon if u dont stop giving ur ass to him... u can masturbate lol do it... do not lose ur virginity for 15 min of pleasure..

  • Yeah that's too much. I'm 27 and a virgin lol

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