Is a compliment to girls if I jack off to them? Would it be flattering and should I tell her?

[Anonymous]

For the girls out there please help me, just asking this bc of a pretty close sexual encounter the other day that almost happened with a girl that I know

[Hubris]

I feel like, if you sit down and seriously think "is it a good idea to tell a girl that I jerk off to her", and can't come up with the answer on your own, there's not much I can do or say to help you out.

I'm feeling charitable though, so here's the answer. Ready? DON'T FUCKING DO IT.

[Anonymous]

Creepy, dude. My partner has sent me sexy pics of herself and... yeah, I've had my fun with that, but that's not the kind of thing you tell her about. I don't ask her what she does with the pictures I've sent her in return; what matters to me is that she's happy.

[RainyDayGirl]

Hey,
I think most girls would be flattered -- yet wouldn't want to know!
It's a little hypocritical, I know, but that's what I feel anyway.
I would advise you to keep it to yourself for now..
Hope that helped :)

[amybeelicious]

I would only care to know if it was the guy I was going out with and we were already active in that way. But some random guy or person I don't look at like that, no, I'd be disgusted..

[XOXOME16]

Id be flattered. Creeped out but flattered

[LovelyyKisses13]

As a female I think it's great if a guy... pleasures himself to me but I would not like to know. That's a turn off.

[tinyclit]

Some women are going to be offended, others not. Depends on the situation too. Personally I wouldn't be offended at all so long as you were nice about it.

[Elizabeth21__]

That would be really, really awkward if you told her that you jack of to her. It's a nice thought, buuuut eww.

[OMG_Its_K]

Depends... They could either freak out, punch you, walk away, or be flattered.. Worth a shot, right? :)

[aamy811]

That actually sounds really creepy

[BertMacklinFBI]

more like creepy lol.

[demonology]

com·pli·ment
noun
ˈkämpləmənt/
a polite expression of praise or admiration.

rubbing your dick is a phrase, anon?

[demonology]

sentence? statement?

[dudeman]

It is an expression of admiration

[demonology]

id say no, but i can't even understand. how do you get off to a person you know like that? you couldnt possibly do it off of a memory, Facebook pictures probably wouldn't do it, and i doubt people have p*rn of themselves rolling around the internet. its odd to get off to nothing.

[Bonquawalaqweisha]

There are something things that are better off not knowing.

[ialmostdo]

I wouldn't like to know. You should probably keep it to yourself.

[Williaaaaam]

If a girl said that to me it would be a bit awkward but I would be happy about it.

Girls are pretty weird though so they would react differently

[jessm57]

It really depends how you approach her. I would be flattered. but thats just me. some girls an be offended by how blunt you're being

[YoureBeautiful]

What if it was a guy doing it to you, while you have a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

No, it's something you should keep to yourself. Arousing a young guy doesn't take much effort, so it's not necessarily an achievement. Most girls would probably feel you were pressuring them to have sexual feelings for you in return. It's like when someone has a nice piece of cake and you hover around saying "That cake sure looks good..."

[Red_Arrow]

Excellent opinion. Guys should keep it to themselves if they are masturbating to the thoughts about a girls, unless they know the girl well and know she will take it as a compliment. May be hard for some guys to understand since they would likely feel proud to be the subject of a girl's masturbation.

[Opinion Owner]

It depends on who the girl was! I have definitely seen a few girls make guys uncomfortable coming on too strong when feelings aren't reciprocated.