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  • I would say so, yeah. I wouldn't ever advertise your number, honestly. Even if it's low or high. That's no one's business.

    But yeah, you've been getting around. No real shame in it; I get it. Sex is nice and all, but at your age, that's like 1 per month, assuming you started at 15. I hope you're using condoms.

    It would also be a good idea to get the HPV vaccine. HPV can cause cervical cancer in women pretty reliably. And 90% of sexually active people will get it. Or genital warts. Worst case scenario, you catch HIV or Hepatitis or Herpes.

    I get it. My count is prolly in the 50s somewhere. Maybe higher, and prolly around 30 in the last year. Extenuating circumstances can make us more prone to risk-taking behaviors, and it's exciting meeting new people. And sleeping with new people. Made me feel very alive at a time I thought I might die [250+ panic attacks in a 3 month period].

    I'm not sure what your motivations are, but perhaps it'd be a good idea to think about why you have slept with that many. If you come to the conclusion that because you're okay with the risks, and that's just how you wanna live your life, I'd be totally supportive. But personally, I view it as dangerous behavior. Damn STDs, amirite? Not to mention the worst parasite of all: babies.

    In any case, the average number of partners a person has over their entire lifetime is 8-12. 10 in the U. S., I believe. So yeah. At 18 years old having 3x the number of sex partners the average person does is quite significant.

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  • a lot of negative comments. Sex can be for fun if you want it to be it doesn't have to be for love. 30 at 18 is higher than normal but i know girls around 18/23 that are well over the 100 mark. As long as you are doing it safely and not having impulsive unprotected sex then do whatever you want.
    30 is higher than normal for your age and if you have an undiagnosed condition that is leading you to have risky sex then it is a serious issue that can cause a lot of problems i think you should see a qualified therapist and talk to them about it rather then asking us random people about it you won't get a clear answer here you need to talk to someone qualified that can get to the bottom of why you want to have lots of partners. If it is not effecting you negatively then go for it but you should look into why you are doing it so often. Tons of guys are well over 30 by age 18 and it is not considered a problem so why is it automatically an issue just becuase you are a girl

Most Helpful Girls

  • Don't worry girl. All of the hate is just the guys projecting their insecurities about a girl with such numbers cheating on them onto you - it means nothing in reality, other than if guys know this many may be weary of investing in yuo emotionally, although I really don't see why when guys do exactly the same thing then later settle down. Just do you, whatever happens you're never the same person throughout life so even if this is a phase it won't be you forever, everyone changes if they want to. Your choices and your future are yours to decide alone, not anyone else's! But on that note, people are naturally more weary of getting into a relationship with someone who's had mostly lots of sexual encounters because it does naturally raise a question about what they value most if they're not looking for something more meaningful. That's not a reflection of you in any way, it's a reflection of them, but it will still have an impact.

  • And I thought my Count was high, you've more than doubled mine. I guess the difference is I'm ashamed of about half of mine I only had sex to feel a need whereas you dounf proud of it.

    I mean you do you girl, but don't be surprised if guys turn thier nose up at you.

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  • you've entered whore numbers and your only 18... how many will you sleep with by 30?

  • No. As long as you're using protection and not cheating, enjoy your sexuality. Those who judge just live boring lives

  • If you have to ask the question, then it probably is.

  • For me personally... anything over 3 is too much for me. I've only been with 2 people and i prefer my guy been with less than 5 as well

  • Why do anons keep asking this question just to validate that they feel like they are ho's - of which they are.

    Is a count of 30 too many guys to sleep with if I'm only 18?
  • Ask your parents

    • Oh you bad lmao

  • TROLL alert!!!

  • The unofficial rule I've had is "no more than two-thirds your age, unless you work in porn." Any more than 66% your age number and yeah, it comes off kinda slutty (for guys and girls).

  • I couldn't do it, it wouldn't feel special... But it's your life and you do what you want to. Maybe just don't go around telling strangers about that? People on the internet can be pretty mean and judgmental.

  • Its your sex life so its your call, but 30 at 18 seems like a lot. Please make sure your using protection.

  • OMG! Yes, that's a lot!

  • Damn hooker!

  • Nope.
    do what you want

  • That's is kinda a lot, but nothing is wrong with that, you can sleep with as many guys as you want, doesn't make you any less good of a person.

  • Only if you have diseases. Otherwise it sounds like you're just a slut. That's not a bad word anymore. Just make sure to take care of yourself and you're good.

  • 30 at 18 is pretty high...

  • Personally, I couldn’t do that cause I’d be disgusted with myself, but it’s your life and you can do whatever you want.

  • Oof. That’s a pretty steep number but 🤷‍♀️

  • It's quite a lot.

  • while 30 is a lot i say your body sleep with who you want, you are legal age to do so... as long as you haven't any std's that you've passed on i dont see it as a problem...

    and by the way anyone calls you slut or anything bad, is just ignorant of the fact it is YOUR choice on how you live your life, where they see slut etc i see a woman who knows what they want and is happy to go after it

    be happy be safe...

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