Is a dark vagina a turn off for men?

I am not dark skinned, but the shade of pussy is actually darker than my actual skin color is that something that could be a turn off to guys? I just have heard previously that men don’t like really like a darker color vagina, which makes me super insecure to actually be with someone intimately. The outer parts of my lips are dark but the inside is like a pinkish reddish color, but what makes me super insecure is the darker shade of my pussy. Thank you for the help!
Is a dark vagina a turn off for men?
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  • It's neither a turn off, or a turn on.

    The actual shade of a woman's vagina makes no difference to me, as the vagina itself (regardless of color) is a turn on. It's unique to that particular girl, and I would love it all the same, because I would care about the person it's a part of.

    Try not to worry too much about it, as it's fairly common. Most guys/girls (depending on orientation) would simply be ecstatic just to see it. Only a first class asshole would have a problem with the color. I'm sure you'll have no trouble turning someone on with it. 😊

  • Having no eyes, my penis pleasures all vaginas indiscriminately. Seriously. But in all seriousness, I know you feel insecure about it. I hope in time you will realize that it doesn't matter. In fact, the insecurity itself can cause you to have a mental block when it comes to sex. The brain it's the most important sexual organ and if you don't feel comfortable you won't enjoy the experience.

    It's definitely not a turn off! I'd like to prove it to you, but I'm just a random dude on the Internet and that would probably be creepy. :)

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  • I always worried about it too and then when i went to a spa and sauna with a group of friends one day we all went in the sauna naked and I realised 3 of the other girls were exactly the same, light skin/dark vagina.

    So i guess its not as unusual as you think.
    Its not like im a keen supporter of nudism, but i do think we have a problem that a lot of people never see many average naked people and then dont really know what is "normal".

    • Three out of how many girls had dark genitals?

  • It's all about preferences. Some guys really like this, others dont. I am bisexual and I dont like darker shaded pussies but I have never shamed a woman on such things or refused to spark a relationship due to it either. Everyone is different. I mean, as long as you are clean and well kept, I dont think it should matter what skin tone you have down there.

    • Well okay I guess... I am still probably going to get some whitening creams just to be on the safe side.

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  • This is quite common and it's not a big deal. It might surprise guys who have only seen naked women in airbrushed pictures, but men with actual experience with women will know it's normal.

  • If it was, there would be no black people in general, so I'm assuming a lot dont care, as long as they are clean and std free

    • Exactly what you said!

    • Some black girls have the same shade pussy as the rest of their skintone. Black people come in different shades like pale white people vs tan white people. So a light skin black girl could have a light skin pussy OR she could have a pussy darker than her overall skintone. So...

  • I wouldn't be surprised because i hate when the dudes dick is a lot darker then the rest of his body

    • Okay... I’ll just buy whitening creams to be on the safe side I guess

    • Nah thats not smart. Just find you a dude who likes you as you come

    • Well it’s still embarrassing though 😞 and just to clear things up please don’t think I am a TROLL as someone on here said I was I just didn’t want to show my profile for personal privacy.

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  • OH my!! That is a real shame as unfortunately I think that is a sign of an Anonymous TROLL

    • @katiesmuff I am not a TROLL as your claiming I am I decided to put it as Anonymous for personal privacy so please don’t speculate things that aren’t true.

    • It’s messed up for you to call someone a troll for asking a question about something that may be embarrassing to them. I think is a good question that deserves a serious answer.

    • @Kitz95 Yes, thanks! I am really insecure and it’s embarrassing and that’s why I posted the question anonymously, I did it for personal privacy.

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  • Your perfectly normal. Not out of the ordinary. Don't be concerned at all. Guys don't care.

  • Not at all. At least it's not a turn off for me. I may be biased because I have a fetish for pussy...

  • It probably depends on the guy, but I've can attest, it makes no difference I'm not shooting a porn just loving

  • It's not a problem everyone is different and I wouldn't be surprised or put off if a girl got naked in front of me and had this variation of skin pigment. My penis looks like it's got a tan while the rest of me is pale.

  • Lol most guys that have been with women know it’s common. There are more women with dark labia than not.

    • I think we need to take a visual survey... just to be sure.

    • @michael1469 🙄

    • ... for science!!!

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  • Not for me. The shape, size and hairiness matter much more than color.
    I think typically darker vaginas are bigger, meaning bigger lips and I really like that. To an extent, the more that hangs out the more happy I am! That's just more to play with and look at!

    • But I'll just depending is that it's not worth worrying about. The right guy is going to be turned on by all of you no matter the shape color or size.

  • That’s normal and we don’t care.

  • No it doesn't matter dark or light.

  • No, whether dark or not a sexy vagina is a sexy vagina.. I actually find darker ones a little bit more sexy.. 😅😅..

  • rather common really. so not much of a turn off. unless the girl in unhealthy.

  • Not in the slightest.
    I see darker pigment in the Nether Region as exotic, naughty and expressing attitude.

  • It's really normal
    Don't bother yourself with such stuff

  • For me, that just sounds interesting. It’s no turnoff really. More of a turn on for curiosity

  • No, it's not a turn off at all. Why are so many women so concerned about this all the sudden?

  • not a turn off. it is something fairly common. most guy's balls are a darker color than the rest of their skin, even the penis is darker quite often. so to is the vagina quite often a darker color. if you do ever come across a guy who does get turned off by it, well he just ain't the 1 for you. don't let it bother you.

  • Insides are typically pink. Don't worry- his body will be in the way of his seeing it anyway, or he may even close his eyes!

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