Guys, is a discolored vagina a turn off?

[Anonymous]

I’m Haitian and Indian. I have brown skin, but my vagina and inner/ 1/4 outer butt cheeks are very dark (near black). It looks so gross to me and it’s upsetting because I’ve watched amateur porn to see what they look like in those areas. They are nowhere near as bad as mine. I’m convinced something is wrong with me. I’ve decided to never have sex because of it along with scars and dozens of stretch marks on me. I don’t care if it’s normal, I genuinely think all men think it’s a turn off and it’d be extremely selfish and inconsiderate for me to let a guy see it.

[Anonymous]

I'm mixed race Afro-Caribbean and Indian as well, and I actually consider those dark patches to be a turn-on. Don't really mind scars too much either- I've got a few of my own. Though that'd depend upon where they were and how disfiguring they might be. The 'dozens of stretch marks', though; what do you mean by that?

[Asker]

I have multiple light colored stretch marks on my arms, stomach, hips, butt and inner thighs which adds up to dozens.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, those. I've actually got those light-colored stretch marks as well, on my butt, running over my hips onto the top of my outer thighs; just never really noticed I had them before now though. So long as you're in good shape, I'd consider those imperfections to be endearing; not ugly at all. You're wrong- it isn't a turn-off to me. Nothing is wrong with your body; you're beautiful. And when making love to you, no-one would be more beautiful in my eyes than you.

[ThreeSevensSalvo]

Making up scenarios in which you make yourself the victim and punish yourself for it. Wow. That's a whole can of worms I can't begin to unpack. Try not to worry so much. Find you someone you want to have sex with and have sex with them. Safely. Christ.

[Asker]

How am I playing victim?

[ThreeSevensSalvo]

You are the victim of judgement that you pass on yourself based upon zero outside feedback.

[ThreeSevensSalvo]

You are not playing the victim. You quite literally are the victim and you're doing it entirely to yourself.

[Asker]

It should be common sense that it’s a turn off and odd. I don’t see any women who have a case like mine and you rarely see discoloration in porn which are videos that men use to get off. If it helped, you’d see more of it. If I was a guy, I wouldn’t want to see mine either.

[ThreeSevensSalvo]

You're still doing it. No guy gives a shit. If your hygiene is good you're all set. Seriously.

[reptocarl]

I couldn’t care less

[Dargil]

Not to me. It just look's exotic and naughty. My girlfriend is SE Asian. She has that just like you do. Please note that real men out in the real world do not concern themselves with "imperfections". Women do thst.

[gabriel16]

If ur in the mood and if the guy is in the mood it shouldn't matter were all have problem u just gotta imbrase urs

[ColoradoKid]

If I am in love with a woman there is nothing wrong with her. If its really upsetting go see your doc and see if anything is wrong.

[jacquesvol]

It's not a turn off.

[LiamSaw]

There just fine... nothing sexier then seeing your dark nipples and areola. Forget porn as a comparison as those actors bleach their genitals and butt area to make it as white as possible.

[dannyuk]

No, guys won't care at all. In had an ex who felt like you regarding huge labia. It took her ages to believe I actually liked them. A good guy is going to love you and love making love to you and love your body

[Defboy69]

It's selfish and inconsiderate not to. Most guys would just be happy to see a live vagina, they're not going to blow that opportunity due to skin pigment.

[100lbguy]

Vaginas isn't for art it's for fucking

[PrivateJim]

Not a turn off at all