Guys, Is a quite moan or hard breathing ok during sex?

I used to moan whenever i have sex with my husband, but after marriage, i no longer moan. I usually just breathe loud and sometimes do quiet moans. And squeeze his hands, arms, or his back and thats it. Im just wondering, do guys prefer moans, dirty talk, or everything im doing is already ok?
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  • I'm ok with whatever happens. I don't need dirty talk, or loud moans. If they happen, I'm fine with it. If they don't, I'm fine with that, too. It's us sharing a special moment; how it's shared is between us.

  • Anything but nothing, LOL! I like some moaning, breathing heavy is hot too. Those are signs of positive feedback that she is enjoying the experience and liking what I am doing. Kinda need to hear that.

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  • How about completely letting go and simply being your self during sex. I seriously doubt your husband is judging you on your "performance" as he already knows how you are.

  • Never mind him. Let your hair down and just go for whatever noises you want to make. Rattle the windows if you want to.

  • I like quiet moaning and heavy breathing a lot.

  • Funny id like to ask the same to you actually? but its good to express etc but same old same old is a bit predictable lets say!

    • I dont mind actually if he doesn't moan, but it turns me on more when i hear him breathe loud because it prob feels good to him thats why.

    • has something changed then?

    • Well when we were still dating, he did moan a lot. But after marriage, he stop. I didn't mind.

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  • What ever you feel is good?

  • Yes that is nice.

  • You're good

  • Both are ok with me , doesn't bother me

  • yes hard breathing is better than quiet moan

  • It's totally ok, as long as my girl doesn't cream, then keeping that heavy breathing or mianing is ok