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Is a threesome a good idea?

My boyfriend and I fantasy about having a three some but what are the bad and good outcomes of having a three some?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • As a person who has participated in an open relationship and The Swinging lifestyle I will warn you right now without 100% open honesty and communication between you and your partner this will only lead to a very bad breakup.
    The negative outcomes will always outweigh the positive for this lifestyle, but with the honesty and communication you can do this and both of you will fall deeper in love with each other or hate each other and want to break up. All depends on how mature you guys are and how much you talk about it beforehand

    • Ok cool I want to do it

    • Go for it and have fun. But I again suggest talking it out with him a few times. Find out the do's and don'ts for each of you and what will work to make you both happy. This is about exploring as a couple and you have to move tougher if you want it to work out right. So please take your time and don't rush into anything if there is any chance one of you feels uncomfortable

    • Oh okay

  • It could damage your relationship or friendship. Depends on who you bring it. Do you bring in a good friend you both trust or some random? How secure and long is your relationship?
    Answer these questions honestly. Once you've got these and whatever other questions sorted, then you'll know if you'll be able to and ready.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't get people who claim that they love each other and want to have sex with different people and it is not even fantasy, because you want to do it. So you only would be mad if your boyfriend f*cked another girl without asking you but when you agree it is fine? And how do you see it? What about jealousy? Because your boyfriend probably prefers a second girl for this threesome

  • It can be a great time. I stay away from the jealous couples, need to connect with the other female, if she doesn't respect me.

  • 3 somes can be fun but you have to be secure with your relationship to enjoy one.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Its not worth it, been there done that many times.. Stick to having sex with just your partner it means more. A 3some isn't that great in the end, although fun its highly overrated

  • Depending on how comfortable you are in your relationship and also depending on whether it's a guy or a girl ( as the third person), and whether there would be any guy guy or girl girl interaction, if the person you choose is well known to either of u or both, there can be a lot of outcomes. The good outcome is that you n Ur boyfriend enjoy the experience and that's pretty much it. The bad outcomes can range from feeling inferior, feeling like not much attention was paid to you, getting feelings for the third person, hating the whole experience and wondering why you even wanted it in the first place etc.

  • Don't do it with a friend or even a regular acquaintance... that leads to drama almost always. Set up rules of engagement. What things are allowed, what aren't and agree to stick to that so neither of you get uncomfortable or have a bad experience. Many couple who want to try it out, go to Vegas and pay for an experience. It's expensive but you're dealing with a professional who knows how to make it fun. If it doesn't work out for you both, then it was just a Vegas experience.

  • If either of you is the jealous type it will really screw things up. From what I've heard it's best for the 3rd to be someone neither of you know or that could screw things up too.

    • Ok cool because i was thinking of having the third person to be someone he knew and I dont know

  • Threesomes are sexy fun and destroy relationships.

  • no...

  • It truly depends on how strong you both are with your insecurities.

  • Just keep it as a fantasy.

  • You a cuckqueen or bisexual?

  • Good outcomes: You enjoy yourselves and make it a regular thing.

    Bad outcomes: He only wants girl girl boy, not boy boy girl. Also, someone might catch feelings and end up fucking everthing up for everyone.

  • If you want it go for it

  • i m in

  • Yes they are amazing

  • Not a good idea if u love him x

    • I do love him but it turns me on when he talks about fucking another female

    • Im sure it does but if he gets right into it you won't like it x

  • Hello

  • Two girls or two guys?

    • Both

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