If she uses them and your relationship is good enough for you to give that as a gift, then go for it. I'd do it in private, though. Just tell people you're taking her out for her birthday if they ask why you didn't get her a gift.
But really though.. What kind of 30 yr old throws a birthday party and opens presents? I'm 22 and don't even do that.. =\
She will probably feel like it's more of a gift for you. So maybe a date night basket with hand made coupons for a romantic dinner, a massage from you and the vibrator. You should get her the little bullet one...that one is actually for her.
If you're going to get it, do it privately. Just to be safe.
ha ha ha...
.. no, never (unless she is kinky like that). if you are trying to be sensual; lingerie or a gift card to Victoria secret would be a much better choice. sex toys are not one size fits all and only someone that knows her sexual anatomy extremely well should make the purchase otherwise i may just be too uncomfortable.
I think I'd buy two presents: one for the public party and the BOB (battery operated boyfriend) for the "private" party. Heck, I'd probably blindfold her and slip in, play a bit and then hit her with the vibration and motion. She'll love it.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Hahaha please do it privately
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But yes. Its a good.gift
Seriously? Are you actually asking this?
This question smells like Troll.
Buy her something simple for the party, and give the stuff to her in private. You can even try it out once you two are alone, wink wink nudge nudge.
Get her flowers in public and the vibrator in private. That way you don't seem like you didn't care but you won't embarrass her
If you don't want to embarrass her when opening gifts, give her something small extra, so people think you got her a "real" gift, and give her the vibrator later when you two are alone somewhere. Just a thought :)
Give it to her in private, and get her something to giver her at the party, like tickets to a movie or concert. Giving it to her at the party might make her feel uncomfortable with other people around..
Hahahaha nice one! trolls started to improve themselves these days
Definitely that is a private gift.
Give her something else in public
Buy her one and then give her some cheap dollar store real looking necklace aha.
give her the real present in private and give her the necklace out in the open
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