Is abnormal that I dont want a girlfriend/relationship at the moment but still desire to be in bed with someone?

[Anonymous]

I am a millenial, Disney movies did a number on me as well while growing up. except that unlike most millenial I never believe that I had to be in a serious relationship to do the things that Disney Princes do when they score their victories.

anyways I have not been in relationship in over a decade and if there is one thing I miss about it is getting it on in bed. all the foreplay and caressing just to get the F on later.

since prostitution is illegal I guess going to the strip club for a few lapdances is my only option at the moment but at the same time I dont want to waste all my money

[Anonymous]

Usually at younger age seems not understandable.. but at your age seems that’s when men are actually wanting to settle down, because then they’ll confuse you for your gilds grandpa instead of dad type of thing but that the least of the worries.. when people used to think only women had a time clock for having children, it turns out men have one as well and perhaps when you want to finally start a family, I might possibly be too late.. so in that sense I don’t think it’s normal at your age anymore.

I personally sometimes regret not having a family earlier.. and my kids would probably almost be off to college and starting their own lives where I’m done tiger the trees of raising them.. while most people sour age are almost done and ready to just have time for themselves, traveling or simply just relaxing.. here we are at this age just about getting started.. if it’s even at all possible anymore..

[Asker]

hey settling down is the last thing I wanna do at the moment

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah you made it clear, I’m saying we all have a clock for having kids.. even when some men and some women still have kids well into their 40’s, most have complications or just cannot anymore at all.. you don’t want to regret not having settled down by then and starting a family.. plus the fact that you will be somewhat of a grandfather instead of a father to your child

[ZamerZ]

Now, I think it's perfectly normal to not want a relationship but craving fun and intimacy. The only question that came to my mind was why you'd rather pay for it than just do what every other person does and hop on online-dating platforms.

[Asker]

1- I am below 6' and look nothing like Brad Pitt 2- Dont get me started on how dating apps are what is wrong with today's society nowadays

[ZamerZ]

So? Being below 6' doesn't stop you from getting into someone's pants. That sounds like a you-problem with your own perception of yourself since you seem to think it is an issue. Personally, I don't see where you have the moral high ground by prefering strip clubs to dating apps.

[Asker]

its simple. at strip clubs you get what you paid for.

not only are strippers hotter but they aren't picky and dont care what you look like; they will service you just as long as you pay them and the better part; once you pay them they leave and you never have to put up with their shit ever again. unlike tinder bimbos who think that one night of sex

here read this mytake

5 Reasons Why I Will Never Stop Visiting The Strip Clubs P2 (Strippers VS Girlfriend) ↗

that guy explains it better than I do. also before I write you a book on how IMMORAL bimbos in tinder and other dating apps are I was wondering can you explain how exactly going to the strip club makes me less moral?

[ZamerZ]

I'm not saying that. I'm saying that you called Tinder as worth less than a Strip Club when there's no real substance to that. If you feel like you need to go on a rant to defend why you wanna go to Strip Club, nobody's stopping you. It's interesting though that you felt like justifying it when I didn't ask you to do so. So if Strip Clubs work for you, then that's it. I'm not interested enough in your problem to elaborate with you on your preferences for Strip Clubs compared to online dating. So my opinion still stands: It's not abnormal to want what you do. The end.

[Asker]

I met to say; unlike tinder bimbos who think that one night of sex is an instant relationship* anyways you did say " Personally, I don't see where you have the moral high ground by prefering strip clubs to dating apps" which sounded like you were implying that going to the strip clubs means I have less morality than a person who uses dating apps and such a statement will compell any one to defend their position. specially in today's society when at least 95% of the people who use dating apps often use it for scummy reasons

[Wonderingguyy]

That’s completely normal for some people. You don’t have to get a prostitute to have some sex, go on any hookup app-like tinder, and there are heaps of people looking for hookups on there.

[Asker]

I tried tinder in 2016 and back then I promise myself that I will never use that fucking horseshit ever again

[Wonderingguyy]

Yeah it is really bad lol

[2021biguy]

Lots of people sleep around with no strings attached, I'm sure you can find a ho.

[Asker]

Unfortunately hos don’t sleep around for the same reason I do

[Alexz0]

Normal. Most of us sleep around before settling down.

[Anonymous]

Who in the hell over the age of 12 watches Disney movies?

[Asker]

I did say "Disney movies did a number on me as well while growing up"

[ZamerZ]

Many people. What's wrong with watching Disney movies, crypt-keeper?