Is aggressive sex a turn off for guys?

[repunzleremix]

Biting, licking, scratching, pinning down, hitting with an open hand, choking, and rough in genral sex a turn off?

[IMuser]

Yes and no
1. A guy's entire life is being about getting criticised for emotions, especially the "violent" emotions. You are angry? Just shut up and be a man. You are crying? Just shut up and be a man. All this essentially "suppress" some men and when they are given chance to "unleash" the animal in them, they get conflicted
2. It can be a turn on because the girl trusts us and allows us to embrace our natural side. When aggression is combined with sexual pleasure, you stop thinking and just focus on pleasure

[repunzleremix]

Is there a way to introduce the idea of unleashing all that without scaring someone off?

[repunzleremix]

Especially if they seem like they are always trying to be extra careful and soft with everything?

[IMuser]

A really weird way would be introducing them to boxing. I remember I got the opportunity to punch a punching bag for a few days and it was a bear orgasmic experience for me. I am someone who is physically weak, someone who keeps things inside themselves and don't lash out (also as a result, i am anxious about everything and scared too) but the day I got to do boxing, that shit felt so good. Primary reason of being "suppressed" is a dependency on others, like what will they think about me and stuff. If you can, try out new things together and whenever possible, appreciate him The short term solution is: get him drunk and then tease him sexually (in worst case, he may get super angry and the rough sex can turn into something bad)

[repunzleremix]

Thanks

[Bbb222]

It’s never been easy for me, even when one women wanted me to be rougher. it never bothered me she wanted it rougher, I just didn’t like doing it much but I did for her. Never said anything to her which is a shame because maybe we could have incorporated it better into our relationship. Oh well, Maybe next time…

I just wasn’t comfortable with me when I was younger. Nowadays, I imagine I could get into just about anything if I understood what the lure was for my partner. I’d be keen to understand and try.

[DaveJord]

Again it all depends on the moment, aggressive sex is not a turn off, but there has to be a degree of passion and emotion involved. When two people vibe sexually they just know when and what's the right time to take the lead or to follow. When to be assertive, rough, aggressive, gentle or more passionate. So when you vibe with someone it just always seems right, but each encounter will be dependent upon the circumstances and passions of the moment in a organic and spontaneous way.

[MrNameless]

It's a turn on off its consensual.

I don't know how comfortable I would feel about choking. Maybe light. But biting and scratching from her.. and pinning her down is hot

[repunzleremix]

Well its good to know im not too much of an "odd" ball

[Phoenix-gb]

Wouldn't say it's a turn off as long as it's consensual, however I'm more on the side that would prefer to receive this from my partner than be the one dishing it out. A woman starts biting me on the neck, I'm pretty much putty at that point.

[summiter]

I'm just not into it. But if it is for some couples then go for it.

[Dargil]

It is for me.

[Mr1derful]

I love being scratched during it the most! If she leaves me with claw marks from her nails, I love it and know I did my job.

[VikingWarLord]

If I'm the one doin all that shiit to HER

[AndrésC64]

I think as long as we are both into it, then it can be very hot!

[Wise4myage]

Never, lol.

[Dchrls78104]

I would imagine that it's rather like driving fast on the road: adrenaline inducing and pleasurable until you meet traffic, sharp corners, or bumps in the road surface, or have to slow down or stop for some other reason...