Is an inexperienced blow job still good?

I don’t really have much experience giving blow jobs and I want to give one to my boyfriend but I’m worried that I won’t be good at it and then it won’t be enjoyable for him. Is an average one still good or don’t bother?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • If he reaches orgasm, it was good enough. If he does not, it fails. Many guys will finish themselves at the end of an unsuccessful blow job and still be grateful for your effort. Although I have posted a thorough how-to on this, a few simple guidelines will help you succeed.
    *Teasing and play is OK at the beginning, but...
    *Once you are going for the finish, always build tension without stopping, pausing, slowing down or even leveling off.
    *Early on, mouth action... bobbing, sucking and licking are important, but as full arousal is reached (fully hard, leaking precum), it becomes less so and aggressive hand stroking below your mouth becomes more so.
    *When ejaculation begins, stop all mouth motion (suck only) and continue to stroke at a slower speed until ejaculation stops.
    *Ejaculating into your mouth while you suck and stroke is far more pleasurable than pulling off when he starts.
    ***If you follow these simple guidelines. Your blow job will be as good as it needs to be.

  • Bother. Only way you will get better is through experience. He should appreciate the effort and let him know you want to give him many so you can learn how he likes them

Most Helpful Girl

  • It's still good as long as you suck it with enthusiasm. Use plenty of saliva and try to relax your throat

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  • It can be.

  • Well i think he would be happy if you just told him that you dont know how to do it so he needs to teach you🤔😁

  • Eh... not really. Except it's not really about experience-- some girls are simply good at it and some aren't. So shouldn't say that the inexperience part is what we don't enjoy.

  • no. if you dont have what it takes to make a man shoot his hot cream then let us use our hands to finish it quickly.

    • You would prefer to not have one?

  • Practice makes perfect. The more u do it, the better you’ll b at it. U can always practice on a popsicle or a banana. Lol.

    • But if I was just in the practice stage and not good would it be unenjoyable for you? I’m afraid it will be disappointing

    • Well if he’s a true gentleman, he’ll help guide u on what to do or tell u what’s good and what’s not.

  • probably not but how r u gonna get better

  • Imfao there's no such thing as a bad bj they're all grateful received if I get any lol

  • not always good but always appreciated. ask your boyfriend to guide you. and you then guide him when he licks you.

  • Every initial move is inexperienced. Do it repeatedly and also discuss it openly with your guys to learn what and how they wish to have bj.

  • No. They can be really uncomfortable and even hurt.

  • I'm not sure but I think an inexperienced one can still be good. If it becomes too difficult you can just transition to a handjob anyway.